What do you dislike most about a mother-in-law doing to her children?

1. Feed what the child has eaten in his mouth.

Feed the children with my own chopsticks or spoons, but sometimes I do it myself.

My mother-in-law wants to take a bath for several days, but she is afraid that her child will catch a cold.

4. Speak ill of yourself in front of the children. For example, your mother is so lazy that she really spends money. This kind doesn't exist in my family yet, because children are too young to complain, haha!

If you take your children out of the city without your consent, you should say hello to yourself where to go, especially when you are out of the city, even if you are not around.

6, children cry, coquetry, give everything, you can't meet any conditions, but every generation of parents, sometimes you can't help it. If you are in front of yourself or educating yourself, your mother-in-law should stay out of it. If you are not in front of you, you are not moving! !

7. I don't like children swearing in front of them. The mantra comes with their mouth open.

8. I don't like quarreling with my children. Mother-in-law and father-in-law often quarrel with their children, and the atmosphere is not good, which affects their physical and mental development!

This is the habit of the older generation in rural areas, and your mother-in-law is not the only one. Many old people are like this. She just licked the chopsticks for the children. Some mothers-in-law just chew up the rice and feed it to their children. I can't change it for a while, and I can't get angry.

If you marry her at once, you don't like some of her mother-in-law's habits. If you remind her more, she will restrain herself a little. Try to be better when reminding your mother-in-law. Don't worry about this all the time and make your family unhappy.

Explain to the mother-in-law the harm of licking chopsticks to the child and tell her that the child is still young. If you lick an adult's chopsticks for your child, the bacteria in the adult's mouth will be passed on to your child. It is not good for children's health, and children will get sick because of weak resistance. If an adult has any infectious diseases, the consequences are unimaginable.

With more publicity and impatience, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law families will change under your influence.

It can reduce the time for the mother-in-law to take care of the child, and the child is still nursing. The child didn't eat either. How could she lick it with chopsticks?

You live separately from your mother-in-law and find an excuse to move out and rent a house. Come back when the child is older.

I hope you are satisfied with my answer. Finally, I wish you a happy life.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be seen from the way her mother-in-law treats her grandson. Why do you say that? The defender of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, besides the son (husband), is the grandson (granddaughter). Whether the daughter-in-law likes her mother-in-law or not, the relationship between these two generations and her mother-in-law remains unchanged.

Back to the topic, some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a good relationship. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will stand on the same starting line, so that daughter-in-law feels that mother-in-law is very relieved to look after the children. Some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are tense, especially on the issue of children, which is not pleasing to the eye.

Some mothers-in-law still take care of their children according to their habits at that time. Children eat unsanitary and do not wash their hands, and the tableware they eat is directly used by children without washing. There is a kind of stomach disease called helicobacter pylori, which is spread through saliva. If the elderly have this kind of bacteria, it will be transmitted to children, which is not allowed by all mothers.

Some mother-in-law will say something to her grandson because her daughter-in-law usually disagrees, to avenge her later, and then torture her mother when she grows up. Instilling hatred into children, but failing to establish correct three views for them. This is also unacceptable to all mothers.

Other mothers-in-law take the children's mistakes on themselves when their daughters-in-law educate their children, and cover up and condone their mistakes. Or when the daughter-in-law educates the children, the mother-in-law adds fuel to the cold fire, which makes the daughter-in-law lose the thinking of distinguishing right from wrong and even makes the children feel wronged. This kind of behavior is not caring for grandchildren, but hurting children and provoking the relationship between daughter-in-law and children. This kind of behavior is even less popular with mothers.

Mother-in-law is the biggest contributor in the family and should be respected and loved by everyone. The mother-in-law is also the defender of the important relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. She should tolerate the shortcomings of her daughter-in-law, absorb the advantages of her daughter-in-law, and live to learn. Especially on the issue of raising children, the modern parenting methods of modern children are consistent with the scientific parenting of daughter-in-law.

Daughter-in-law should also respect and care for her mother-in-law and understand her old ideas. Communicate more at ordinary times and teach your mother-in-law new things slowly. Lead the mother-in-law to watch more educational topics in the media on the issue of raising children, so that the traditional old ideas of the mother-in-law can be changed and even the children can be raised scientifically.

Home and everything!

Mother-in-law loves children too much and dotes on them too much. As a result, the child is used to it and his temper is used to it. They cry if they want to eat, and make trouble if they don't want to eat. Children don't want to eat every meal, which affects their health and is more difficult to feed adults.

I'm glad to be invited to answer your questions.

I don't like it. I don't like it either. Everyone's concept education is different. I always look after my baby. We have been away from home and seldom go back. Mother-in-law is too busy to take care of the baby. Basically, every day is a video. Every time I go home, my mother-in-law will hold her baby and kiss her baby. This should be the way for a mother-in-law to express her love for her baby. My mother-in-law loves cleanliness and is very capable. The affairs and hygiene at home are well arranged and very hard. Sometimes I understand her. I am an old married woman, and my mother-in-law and family are very kind to me.

Kiss the baby's face.

What do you dislike most about a mother-in-law doing to her children? I hate it when my mother-in-law does these things to her children.

One: scold the child. When a child makes a mistake, he does not help the child analyze the root cause of the mistake and persuade and educate the child, but scolds the child to open his mouth. The child didn't know what he had done wrong at all, just looked blankly.

Two: chew and feed the children. Children eat slowly, sometimes they don't like to eat, and even are picky eaters. These things happen to children very often. But mother-in-law always thinks that children are young, can't eat well and eat slowly, so they should chew carefully before feeding their children food. I told my mother-in-law several times, but she never agreed.

Three: Don't tell your child about hygiene. Children don't know what hygiene is when they are young. Mother-in-law does not cultivate children to pay attention to hygiene, but she does not pay attention to hygiene herself. For example, if you catch something that falls to the ground, give it to the child. If you don't wash the apples, give them to your children. After the child poops, wipe it, not wash his ass. ……

Four: excessive doting on children. Whenever we criticize the children's education, the mother-in-law always nags and points at them, saying that the children are still young and don't know anything, which is too disrespectful. At your age, you were not as good as him.

Although my mother-in-law has some unsatisfactory places, she is our elder after all. Moreover, she is very hardworking and worthy of respect! Where is your mother-in-law? Welcome to communicate!

I hate it when my mother-in-law speaks ill of her mother to her children. Children are still young and can't tell right from wrong, which affects the parent-child relationship. And learn to gossip, lie and deceive people, very angry, try to avoid letting her touch the child alone.

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question.

The older generation likes to copy their own experience and treat their grandchildren, whether in education or in daily life. I don't like my mother-in-law's children the most;

First, make a hullabaloo about to the children.

Sometimes it really hurts to see my mother-in-law yelling at the wrong child. If something doesn't shout or shout loudly, I can't accept it. After all, the child is very young.

Second, chew something and stuff it into the child's mouth.

I have seen my mother-in-law put what she chewed into her child's mouth several times to feed. It's so unsanitary that I won't let my mother-in-law feed her children from now on.

Third, spoil children.

As long as the children want to eat snacks, my mother-in-law will definitely give them. I have told my mother-in-law several times that it is not good for children to eat too many snacks at home.

Fourth, ramble

The child is too young to understand what adults say, but my mother-in-law has been nagging her children, and sometimes I am tired of listening.

Old people say that they are not dirty, have not eaten, and are not sick, but sometimes their mother-in-law is very ill. It's good to hurt children, but we can't let them do it.

This is what my mother-in-law does to my children the most. In fact, old people are good for children. If you really don't like it, look after the children yourself.

I hope I can help you. Good luck.

I am a mother-in-law, and I am also opposed to betting too much on unhealthy behavior. For example, wash your face, feet, buttocks, clothes and baths. Wipe your face, mouth, hands, feet and ass with a towel. Give children food in their own bowls and water in their own cups, lots and lots. I can only slowly guide my mother-in-law to get rid of bad habits. Be strict when you point it out.