Stop dwelling on bad people and bad things.

01

Life is impermanent, know how to cherish it.

The faster time passes, the more people understand the preciousness of life. You never know which will come first, tomorrow or the accident.

On the day of the Malaysia Airlines crash, the victims hugged their families and friends at the airport to say goodbye, thinking that they would immediately report to their families that they were safe after arriving at their destination, but that text message could never be sent.

Life is impermanent. People who may be chatting and laughing one second may never be seen again the next second.

When the accident really came, I was shocked to realize that there were too many regrets about not completing the task, regrets about not spending more time with my family, regrets about not fulfilling my promises, and regrets about not loving someone properly.

So don’t waste today by always looking forward to tomorrow, because tomorrow is there, not sooner or later, and sooner or later it will pass through your life.

In the face of life, we have no time to engage in battles, no time to care about the right and left.

Life is impermanent. Decades of life seem to be very long, but in fact they only last in a blink of an eye.

02

Don’t waste your time on bad people and bad things.

Do you often waste time and energy on trivial matters and unimportant people, only to realize that it is meaningless after a lot of entanglement?

If you encounter a road that doesn’t work, something you can’t think of, or someone you can’t stand, you have to turn around first. Don’t insist on entangled with bad people. If you get entangled in bad things, you will only end up with a lot of trouble. fishy.

In the face of complicated things in the world, the only thing we can do is to adjust our mentality. Some things happen when they happen, and don’t complain or get entangled.

No matter how beautiful a thing is, once there is no result, don’t dwell on it, you will get tired after a long time;

If you are alone, even if you miss it, if you can’t catch it, You have to let go at the right time, otherwise you will be heartbroken after a long time.

Sometimes, giving up is another kind of persistence. If you miss the gorgeous summer flowers, you will surely enter the quiet beauty of autumn leaves.

Everything and everyone will become a thing of the past. No matter how difficult it is, we must learn to withdraw.

You can't change the world, and you can't change bad people.

03

The rest of your life is expensive, please don’t waste it.

In life, nine out of ten things will not go as you wish.

When you are middle-aged and have experienced so many helpless things, there is nothing you can’t let go of.

Different roles mean different responsibilities, but there is no doubt that no matter what stage you are in your life and how you change your identity and role, the focus of your life will always be yourself.

However, too many people don’t understand this.

Xu Zhimo once said a very interesting thing:

"Smart people like to guess other people's hearts. They may guess other people's hearts correctly, but they also lose their own. Stupid people People like to give their hearts, and they may be deceived, but they may not be able to get what others have. ”

The stupidest people in life are those who do stupid things for others.

When you are a child, you don’t distinguish between right and wrong, and you only care about foolishness and filial piety; when you are a parent, you don’t know how to get away and dote on your children too much.

They can never find their own position, and in the end they have to suffer criticism and dissatisfaction from others.

After walking through half a lifetime of thorns, we should be thankful that we have not lost our passion for life and become the best version of ourselves in this precious life.