Do you regret having only one child?

I have only one child, and I am currently in Grade Two. I have never regretted having only one child.

I was born when I was 30. Before that, I didn't particularly want to have children, but I didn't want to be a dink either. I just want to escape for a few years, because the birth of a child means endless responsibilities, and I will be responsible for her when I am born, so I need to be fully psychologically prepared.

One of my parents grew up in the same unit and lived in a community. Her sister didn't go to college. She entered an institution in our hometown by virtue of her parents' relationship. She got married early and gave birth to a child. The child is always brought up by her parents, and she doesn't worry about eating or drinking Lazar. Like her, there are many places in our hometown, where my parents live. I played very well with my children when I was a child. There are two little girls, both brought up by grandparents. One of the little girls didn't drink milk powder when she was a child. Her mother didn't breastfeed in order to keep fit, and her grandparents took pains to raise her. Playing with her parents, each with a car, handsome and beautiful. Children wear clothes bought by their grandmothers, dressed as village girls, but fortunately, her father is an only child, and both grandparents have retirement wages, so they can get by.

Another little girl, whose parents also go to work, eats and drinks at her grandparents' house. Both of them eat and drink for free, let alone give money to the old couple, and have never bought a dish. The girl's mother once saw my mother and said that her mother-in-law was stingy and gave her daughter very thin milk powder. My mother said that if you bought milk powder, her grandmother would definitely not be so thin. The old couple's retirement salary is so small that they have to pay for their youngest son to go to school. The eldest son is penniless, and the child's milk powder money is a big expense every month, so grandma can only save a little [covering her face].

Although I am not as eager to learn from the elderly as mentioned above, my parents helped me bring my child to the age of three, and because my parents insisted on taking care of the baby in my hometown, my child has been left behind for more than two years. I go back to see her every weekend and can't make up for the lack of companionship when I was a child. Before the second child policy was fully liberalized, my teammates fooled me into giving birth to a second child, saying that one was too lonely and the other was a companion for the child. I only care about birth. He takes it after birth. I believe he is a ghost! I told him I wouldn't do it, and he had to find a way to do it himself. Let's talk about it How many fathers and children have you met who took sick leave? In the middle of the meeting, because I had to pick up the children, I had to ask for leave and go first. Was the leader supercilious? You haven't been on a business trip since you had children? Only mothers put their children first in everything. To be honest, my unit is not bad. If I change my job, people like me can't stay.

Children are veritable gold eaters and money breakers. I won't have children without a certain economic foundation. At present, our income is more than enough to raise a child, and we will be stretched. At that time, my child's public primary school was coordinated by the unit, and after paying thousands of sponsorship fees, he went to our top three primary schools. There is no tuition in public primary schools, and the main expenses of primary schools are various interest classes and remedial classes, which cost tens of thousands of yuan a year. Since the previous year, because of the need to eliminate large classes, the number of enrollment places is very tight, and the unit no longer cares about children's enrollment. In recent years, colleagues and children have basically gone to private schools, with tens of thousands of tuition fees a year. If you add interest classes or something, raising a child now is almost 65,438+10,000 a year. If it's two children, do it yourself. Last year, the company was also depressed. At the end of the year, two-thirds of the awards were cancelled, and all the individual performance awards were cancelled. I met a colleague yesterday and sighed when I saw him. He once won a performance award of 65438+100000 a year, which caused heavy losses. He has two sons [covering their faces].

In the current educational environment, the biggest headache for parents is to help their children with their lessons, right? I am very lucky. I don't have to worry about my children's study. I am mainly responsible for logistics. Colleagues always say that our children come to repay their kindness, which is too worry-free. What's the story? You must try your best to look effortless. Outsiders think my children are quite at ease, but I know how much effort I have made. If nothing else, just give an example. I have been reading to my child every day since she was very young, and I also read to her for almost one day in the second grade of primary school. Sometimes I am tired when I go to work during the day, and I am really sleepy at night. I don't even dare to ask for leave with my child because she is used to it. At that time every day, I will listen to my reading, and often fall asleep while reading, not knowing what to read. The child will wake me up, mom, you are mistaken! I don't know how many times I have read some books I can recite it when I watch it. If I cut corners, she will find me [cover my face].

I'm so wordy, mainly to say that with my ability, it's good to bring one, and I really can't stand bringing another, so I don't regret having only one child at all.

Of course I regret it, very much! The policy does not allow more children. Now, if you want to have children, you can't. A child is so lonely that he wants a companion. How nice it is to have so many policies and children now. Don't compare with others, don't compete, children grow up capable, live early and have an effect, and don't regret it when they are old! How busy you are when you are unfilial! [Laughter] [Laughter] [Laughter] [Laughter] [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Pray] [Rose] [Rose] [Rose]

After 80, I regretted giving birth to a baby daughter ten years ago and always wanted another one. Now I'm glad I only have one. After listening to my husband, I haven't completely changed. I am an ordinary person and have no great ability to make ends meet. If I give the whole family the strength to raise a child, if I have a second child, Erbao's quality of life and education level will definitely be affected, and her energy will not keep up. Especially now, children are under great pressure to go to school. Think about it. Adults worry every day. Now I see a small video of children punching in the circle of friends to learn content every day, and I am inexplicably anxious for others. Fortunately, my girl is still relatively good, so I don't have to worry about my study and life. In another year and a half, she will take the college entrance examination. I hope she can realize her dream!

I must regret it! I asked my peers around me, and nine times out of ten I regret not having one more! At that time, the national policy was that a couple could only have one child. As citizens, you must abide by it!

The two children are so perfect that they can help each other and take care of each other. Even if parents are gone, there are brothers and sisters, and they will not be lonely.

At the beginning, a couple could only have one child when they caught up with the family planning policy. From the family planning slogans that filled the streets in those years, we can see the seriousness of the family planning policy at that time, and we can also see many people who fled their hometown to escape family planning. The sketch "Super Guerrilla" is a true reappearance of drag out an ignoble existence at that time. At that time, the policy was that having a second child would definitely expel public office.

In 2000, I got pregnant unexpectedly. At that time, I really wanted to have a baby secretly, but my husband and I were both working. If you are born, you will definitely be expelled from public office. My husband will do ideological work for me. If we are expelled from public office, we will have no professional knowledge, let alone do business, and there will be no land in the countryside. What would we do? What do these two babies eat? Besides, in my family, there is really no one to bring it, and my mother-in-law will not help me. Although the mother-in-law supported it, it was far from convenient, and finally the fetus was very painful to induce labor!

Now that the second child policy has been liberalized, it is really gratifying. It's a pity that I'm past childbearing age. If I had let go five years earlier, I would have given birth to a second child, and I couldn't have given birth myself. Always encourage friends who are still hesitating. You can catch up with good policies and have as many children as possible. Don't be my age, it's too late to regret it! In recent years, all the women of childbearing age around me have given birth to a second child. Seeing them happy, they are also infected! Cousin also gave birth to Bauer last year and made a "good" word! A family of four is happy, and the old people on both sides are happy!

I can't regret it I look forward to having more sons in the future to make up for my regret! @ Future daughter-in-law!

Why do developed countries look down on the problem of having children? Many people torture souls and think as follows:

1, we are all descendants of Yan Di and the Yellow Emperor. How are we now? Isn't it just for the benefit, crowding out each other and fighting?

2. What if you have one hundred children? Hundreds of years have passed, and children and grandchildren still don't know each other. Even get married and have children with each other?

In real life, brothers compete for real estate, land and inheritance everywhere. Three generations don't know each other, and there are many people who don't take care of the elderly.

4, life for decades, raising children for decades, the last blink of an eye, is the child yours?

5. It takes millions to raise a child. Isn't it good to take this million to support the elderly when you are old?

So many people don't regret having children.

Regret, so regret [covering your face]. At the beginning, there were also ethnic minorities who could have a second child, but they did not enjoy it!

The two children have a companion together, so it is good to discuss and take care of each other together. It is strongly recommended that young mothers have more [teeth] [teeth] [refueling] [refueling].

I regret having only one daughter.

19 At the end of February, my mother was diagnosed with advanced ovarian cancer. I am an only child. Father is extremely selfish and ignores it. My husband is afraid to make up his mind. The whole family came to comfort me and brought some money. I am the only one who dares to talk to the doctor, but I am afraid of death. My first reaction at that time was, it's over. When I am old and sick, my daughter will experience what I have experienced. I feel sorry for my daughter. However, my mother has cancer. At that time, my child was in the first grade, and I had to go to work. My mother-in-law has a waist injury, and she is totally ineligible to have a second child. Now I'm almost forty and my child is nine years old. If it takes at least two years to have another child, then the difference between the two children is ten years. To put it bluntly, it is for the boss. What's the point? I regret it,

I have no regrets. I really want to be born.

Mother gave birth to four. No, they are all trained.

But I am a teacher of human physiology, and I am confident that I can become a successful person. And my first child was basically effortless and smooth. It feels more labor-saving to regenerate. It's a pity to catch up with the eighties and stop studying and living. Dare not have more children!

Really don't regret! I have no skill. I finally bought a complete three-bedroom apartment for my son. If I have a second child and a son, I can't peel it. Thanks for family planning.

Do you regret having only one child? Oh, my God! How can you regret not having enough fun every day?

Let me talk about my family. After 70, I have four brothers and sisters, I rank third, two sisters are in the world, and one brother is below. I have tasted the bitterness of this village style since I was a child. All the delicious and fun things are my brother's, and all the clothes are picked by my sister. Sometimes my neighbors make fun of me. My home is not my home, but my brother's. When I was a child, I envied those girls whose parents could talk to them with a smile. I think if I have a daughter in the future, I will make her the happiest little princess in the world.

After marriage, I was not ready and pregnant. It has been more than three months since I knew I was pregnant. The examination showed that it was a boy and he was very healthy. But my husband and I got married naked and rented a house, and both parents were not around, so we induced labor decisively. After several years of hard work, we have our own house and saved some money. We are over 30, so we can't wait any longer. I plan to have a child.

I gave birth to a daughter as I wished. Then I started my career as a full-time mother. Take care of my daughter for 26 days, and I take care of my daughter alone. Don't say you are tired, because you can reap as much as you pay. My children have been excellent since childhood, with first-class expression skills and great physique. The teacher said that the children brought by mothers are of high quality. Because there is only one child, my company is efficient, patient and comprehensive.

My daughter's friends all envy her. My mother plays games with her, braids her fancy hair every day, wears the most fashionable clothes, and talks about cartoons and sings children's songs together, which is good for every child who comes home. I grew up with my daughter again. Daughters have been respected, valued and cherished since childhood. She is full of sunshine, rain and dew, colorful.

Children's sunshine mentality is always discovered and appreciated by teachers, and they have been class cadres and are very active in school. When other parents can't communicate their troubles because their children are rebellious and disobedient, my daughter and I are already very close friends, talking about life, the future, love and society together.

Any relationship needs to give everything, but the strongest thing is that each other is the only one. Love, no spare tire. Son, don't have a second child. If I have another child, I can't pay as much as the first child, so I can't care about this and that. The strongest is the triangle, and the happiest is the family of three. I insist that the only child is the beginning and source of happiness.