Memories of the derailed woman (self-report of the derailed woman)

If you are a woman, if you are on the verge of cheating now, as a person who has experienced it, I will advise middle-aged women with my own cheating experience, and really don't cheat. After all, the disaster caused by impulse depends on your life to pay for it.

My name is Wang Li. When you first saw me, you would never have thought that I was a 40-year-old woman. My face is wrinkled and my skin is slack. I don't even believe this old face is me. And the consequences of all this are caused by myself, and all this stems from my own derailment.

My family was still very happy. My ex-husband and I both have our own jobs. Whether it is the economy or the family, we are still a good family. But in my later work, I met the man who made me fall in love at first sight. I divorced my ex-husband at all costs, just for the so-called love. It never occurred to me that he abandoned me mercilessly because his wife was pregnant. Now I, everything is culpable of punishment.

First, my family broke down and my ex-husband refused to forgive me.

When I learned that I was being played by men, I decided to return to my family. It never occurred to me that I was stopped by my ex-husband. He cursed me openly, like a woman who had nothing to do with him.

I admit it's all my fault, but I never thought cheating was a curse. Once you are bound, you can't escape.

Second, relatives and friends have different eyes and have nowhere to hide.

When I decided to divorce my husband, after repeated quarrels, all my relatives and friends around me knew about my affair. My neighbors who used to laugh at me gave me strange eyes.

Everything in the past cannot go back, and it is impossible to go back. Even if I repent again, those people will no longer look at me with normal eyes.

Third, the most painful thing is that my parents also avoid me.

People often say that parents are our closest people. Then you can try. What will your parents do to you when you cheat? I still believe that they love me very much, but they are all human beings and ordinary people. They think I've humiliated them and ignored me.

If you ask me if I regret it, it must be that I regret it. But it is impossible to start all over again. I did something beyond morality on impulse, and I have to bear all the consequences myself.

Women, cheating for a while, regret for life, remember!