What must you know about the education of military children?

Recently, because of the relocation of the military reform, the education of military children has once again become a hot topic of discussion. Here, I want to share my views on the education of military children.

After studying psychology, I have a clearer understanding of the role of 0-3 years old parents' company in the healthy growth of children.

0-3 years old is the golden age for children to grow up. If parents can accompany and take care of them during this period, it will cultivate children's stable sense of security. When children grow up and step into society, they will be braver and more confident than other children in the face of setbacks and difficulties. 0-3 years old will lay the foundation for a child's life.

As far as many military families I have observed are concerned, many mothers have taken on the heavy responsibility of raising their children, which is also good in some ways. At least mothers can take care of their children when they are young. I think military wives are undoubtedly more worried about the lack of fatherly love when their children grow up.

When children are young, they should be more attached to their mothers. Mothers provide food, drink and sleep for their children, while fathers need to provide strong support for their mothers.

However, due to the particularity of military occupation, many times my father is not at home. What can I do as a soldier and father at this time?

1. Provide strong emotional support to Junwa's mother.

You can't take it for granted that a wife has children. It's hard to take care of children at home alone. At this time, if you don't get emotional support and comfort, it's easy to collapse. You should be able to understand the anxiety and anxiety of Junwa's mother in the process of taking care of her baby for the first time.

Some military wives are prone to different degrees of postpartum depression after giving birth. At this time, military baby fathers must not feel that their mothers are melodramatic. At this time, it is very important to fully accept the emotions of mothers. If necessary, you need to find a professional organization to solve the problem!

As a father, it is necessary to provide financial support to the mother of the child.

In order to take care of children, many military wives have to quit their good jobs and devote themselves to taking care of children. At this time, the child's mother has no economic income and will fall into certain anxiety. At this time, as a soldier, we must affirm the value and contribution of the military baby's mother to take care of her children at home, especially when her mother-in-law does not understand her daughter-in-law. As a soldier, we must learn to handle the relationship well from it, and we must not turn a blind eye and avoid problems. You know, taking care of children at home is no easier than going to work. Otherwise, how can you say that mom is a 24-hour nanny?

Of course, as the mother of a soldier's baby, she also has the responsibility to set up a good image of a father and a soldier for her child. At this point, we can learn from the practice of Obama's mother.

Obama lived in a divorced family until he died in a car accident in 1982. Obama only met his father once. He never paid alimony before his death, but Obama's mother Ann never spoke ill of his father.

In fact, whenever I talk to my son about his father, Ann always talks about the advantages. She told Obama that his father was smart, humorous, good at musical instruments and had a good voice. ...

Ann may be naturally open-minded, so she just told Obama the truth, or she wanted her son to be proud of his father, so she talked about all the advantages, but whatever the reason, her approach achieved good results-Obama had all the advantages of the old Obama she said.

Therefore, military wives, when facing children, can talk more about the advantages of military wives' baby fathers!

Some time ago, I read many articles about the relocation of troops. The relocation of troops has brought a lot of troubles and worries to many military families. Military wives are considering whether to bring their children with their husbands, but they are worried that the education level in the relocated areas will not keep up and the children will lose at the starting line.

A paper order has made thousands of families sleepless. I can't help feeling that my personal strength is really small. In the big historical background, people sometimes have no choice. But in this case, as an individual, you can still do something without a choice.

I often think, but what is a good education for children?

In my opinion, the best education is not scrambling to buy school districts, attend remedial classes and attend prestigious schools. A good education is to let children grow up in love. Nothing is more important than family reunion.

I can't help thinking of a little girl in the first grade of primary school in our campus. Her parents do business in Lhasa, Tibet all the year round. When she was a child, she went to kindergarten with her parents in Lhasa, Tibet. When she was in primary school, her parents sent her back to her hometown in Hubei, because her parents thought Hubei's education was better.

But every time we ask her where she wants to go to school, she does not hesitate to say that she wants to go to Tibet. She said that because mom and dad were there, she didn't think the teachers here would teach the teachers in Bilasa either.

Huang Lei wrote in a letter to his daughter Duo Duo, "I must be pessimistic but calm and honest: we only have this life. Therefore, these most common emotions are the most precious happiness for us. I hope you can live like this in the future: protect your lover and children, and each other. "

Of course, some military wives will also worry that the family will be reunited and people will be happy, but the hardware teaching resources around the children are not good. You can't deceive yourself!

This is indeed a problem, but I still think people should keep changing. It is better to pay attention to yourself than to the teaching resources around you.

When children are young, the influence of family education is undoubtedly greater than that of society. The king of education is to cultivate yourself persistently. When you cultivate yourself, you won't be so worried about the teaching resources around you. Isn't there a saying that the best school district room is the study!

The most ideal state-what children know, we understand; What children don't understand, we do. At least, we have to have an intersection with children. This long search process is not only for yourself, but also for children. Children's starting point is their parents' shoulders. Therefore, children will never have the same starting line.

Then, it doesn't matter whether you are in a remote area or in a big city in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. Children in remote areas may not lose at the starting line. Besides, now is the Internet age, and many resources can be enjoyed online.

Sometimes, children's education is about basic skills, as well as parents' attitude towards life and feelings about life. In other words, parents will participate in education for life.

I always believe that the best education is to let children grow up in love. I hope that every child of a military family can grow up happily, regardless of relocation or separation!