Should my nephew wake up when my aunt dies?

Yes, it can be said that the nephew is a direct dutiful son.

Folk funeral customs, old age, descendants of Pima Dai Xiao. Filial men should wear linen straw hats; Filial piety (including daughter-in-law) covers coarse cloth; Other relatives have a white cloth around their waist, and some clothes are covered with black gauze.

The amount of mourning for the family depends on the age and family situation. The eldest son is filial, followed by other sons and daughters-in-law, and the family is open to nephews and nieces. A lonely old man who has no children or daughters should also have Xiao before his death, otherwise no one will hold a spirit tablet or portrait. The main filial piety cloth is as long as the coffin cover, and the rest is slightly shorter.

When it is worn, it is tied with hemp rope, which is called "Pima Dai Xiao". The dutiful son should kowtow to the bearer. If he has something important to do, he should take off his mourning clothes. If his father dies, the "funeral stick" held by the dutiful son is made of bamboo; If mother dies, it will be made of paulownia wood. This is Gu Yan's "Father's funeral is outside, so the staff is taken from bamboo;" Mother's Day is also included, so the staff is taken from Tung. There are many young people in the towns of Dai Xiao, and Daizha has an armband with the word "filial piety" in white on a black background.

When the old man died, he was the most particular about crying. Many men cried themselves hoarse. The woman counted and answered, as if crying. There are also neighbors who come to "cry". Most of the opening remarks are: "Dad, Mom, you died so hard ...". In the future, the content can be played at will, and you can vomit. All relatives and friends of the deceased can burn incense and order three incense in front of the mourning hall. If there is a flame, you should shake it out by hand. Put your hands in the fragrant rice, kneel down and kowtow four times, and stand up and bow. When burning incense, the main filial piety should kneel with him.

Fry a plate of eggs in the middle of the night, cut a plate of meat or the favorite dish of the deceased before his death, and pour three glasses of wine with a pair of chopsticks, with one end next to the gv 10 and the other end covered with a bowl rim. The main filial piety first spilled wine on the ground, knelt down and kowtowed four times, and then burned paper, which was called begging. When the tray is removed, the perfumer will light a handful of incense and give it to the drinker. The younger generation of the deceased can attend, and the ceremony is similar to incense, except that there is an action of "screening wine". Women can only say "bye-bye" without bowing.