How to avoid being a licking dog

Today, I will talk to you about a popular word, licking dogs. In fact, there were many names of licking dogs in the early days, such as spare tire men's girlfriends and so on, all of which were similar. Refers to a girl who has no bottom line to please her. Even if it is rejected 100 times, it will continue to insist. Then 10 1 was rejected. So licking a dog is really pathetic. They are both emotionally weak, but it is useless. Girls don't stay with you because they feel sorry for you.

Let's talk about the characteristics of licking dogs first.

One, chasing girls to chat.

The first thing to wake up every day is to send a good morning to the girls. The last thing I do before going to bed is to say good night to the girl. Chat with girls often during the day. As long as the girl doesn't reply to the message, you will wonder if the other person is angry or if you did something wrong. It is anyway. I think I need to interact with girls constantly so that I can be young.

Second, I dare not express my position.

When a girl does something very outrageous to you. If it were anyone else, you might have turned your back on me long ago. But this thing is done by the girl you like. You may feel uncomfortable at this time. But you won't express it. You may still be thinking, am I wrong about her?

Let's talk about the characteristics of licking dogs first.

Third, please always.

If you like a girl, you will always please her. I hope I can keep him in this good way. For example, helping girls, buying gifts for girls and so on. But many times girls don't buy your account. She won't accept your help or gift. As a result, you did all this, but there was no return.

Fourth, apologize.

When dealing with girls, you tend to be cautious. Once a girl reacts badly, you will blame yourself for saying the wrong thing. But the reality is that the girl may be just a little busy, or encounter other things, and she is in a bad mood, which has nothing to do with you, but she takes things seriously and then apologizes inexplicably.

5. Dare not upgrade the relationship. In fact, you have many opportunities to interact with girls. You have added several times to meet alone, but you have never dared to upgrade your relationship, because you are afraid that the other party will refuse, and you will not even be friends in the end. In this way, your relationship will only stay in the friendship zone.

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Sixth, sensitivity.

As long as a girl doesn't tell you to go out to play, you think something will happen to her, or go out to play with other boys, and then send a crazy message saying that you know how worried I am. These are all bad behaviors. If there is, change it. Most boys can't catch up with the girls they like mainly because they don't have specific methods and clear ideas. Next, let's take a look at what kind of person will become a dog licking without other members of the opposite sex. If a person knows too few girls around him, it is difficult to find a girl who can talk to himself, because boys will think that this girl is their true love, and if they miss it, they may be gone. In fact, there are many such girls.

Seven, strong dependence

In fact, there is another very important reason for kneeling is to rely on psychology. Your emotions depend on each other's feedback, and then on some routines, without thinking about yourself. No girl will like this inferiority complex boy. When you like a person, you will see all his advantages, and these advantages will be magnified. The more you like him/her, the less you feel worthy of him/her, and naturally you will kneel down. When you kneel, you are showing your low value, which naturally leads you into an increasingly passive interactive framework. Finally, let's talk about how to avoid kneeling for investment in yourself, whether it's love or normal social interaction. You have to understand that this will never change. Whether others like you or not depends on whether you are good enough and attractive enough, not how good you are to him and how much you have paid. You should spend time, energy and money on yourself, because if you love others, you must first learn to love yourself.