What should I pay attention to when living with my boyfriend?

If you decide to live together after careful consideration, please tell your parents. How about testing your parents first, telling stories about your cohabiting friends, or listening to the opinions of your parents and cohabiting couples?

If your parents approve of cohabitation, congratulations. You can talk less, but if your parents don't agree, don't quarrel with them. After all, they love you the most in the world. In daily life, they will gradually infiltrate your boyfriend's kindness to you, let you accept it slowly, and then tell your parents about it when the time is ripe.

1, want to be tired of each other

In modern society, men and women are basically unmarried in love. Because women want to be tired of men. If men don't agree to live together, women will either be sad or have to live together. Because women care about living with men. So she can cook for men and spend more time with them.

Step 2 be open-minded

In modern society, men and women are basically unmarried in love. They are open-minded, even when they grow up, their parents have no right to interfere with their freedom, and they think there is nothing wrong with cohabitation. Moreover, the two are in love, and both men and women have the right to decide whether to live with each other. In fact, all these fully explain the common phenomenon of this era. Strict family education is also one aspect, but it can't keep up with the trend of this era. If two people have no opinion on this, they will naturally agree.

3. Want to marry each other

In modern society, men and women are basically unmarried in love. They want to marry each other and think that living with each other is more free than living with their parents, or for other reasons. Anyway, they are married, and they can make each other live more comfortably if they don't care about it sooner or later, so men and women naturally come together.

. It is best to rent a house to live together.

In modern society, men and women are basically unmarried cohabitation in love. Because they think it's appropriate to rent a house and live together. But I'm in love. For example, men go to work to rent a house, and women think so, so it is easier to take care of each other together, and the two will reach an understanding in this regard and live together. Therefore, why the love between men and women in today's society is basically "unmarried cohabitation" is actually inseparable from the progress of modern society and people's ideas, and also depends on personal choice and self-restraint.

Be prepared for each other's shortcomings. The space where two people live together can't be as relaxed as when they live alone. The gorgeous background of the encounter may include laziness, laziness, laziness, lack of cleanliness, making dirty clothes messy and so on. No matter what the tone, the shortcomings may be exposed at once like a scourge. At this time, we must first learn to see clearly all the shortcomings of each other and learn how to accept each other's adjustment to life. Keep your privacy and respect each other's privacy. Cohabitation, in a sense, is to spread yourself out with each other. In fact, exposing your privacy too much will not only make the other party feel fresh, but also treat the other party's privacy too much, which will make the other party feel suffocated. You know, even after marriage, only when you have your own space can you develop cohabitation and marriage healthily. You can't be a nanny just because you live together. Cohabitation is different from married life. Even the closest couple, housework needs to be shared by both husband and wife in life. In cohabitation, just because love is sweet, you can't want to take care of each other too much, undertake all the housework, or let others do all kinds of things. You're nobody's nanny. Of course, the other party should not be allowed to be a free servant. For example, through washing clothes, dragging and dropping, and reasonable distribution, we can find more fun in living together. Cohabitation is not a marriage and does not require financial sharing.

Cohabitation is to make each other closer, but please remember that cohabitation is not marriage, and intimacy is not economic sharing. And to tell the truth, each can reduce unnecessary contradictions, the other will be respected, and the marriage will become happier in the future.