My mother-in-law came to stay for one night, and my clothes were dirty and torn. I threw them directly into the trash can. Is there a problem with me doing this?

My husband is my college classmate, and his home is in the countryside. He grew up without a father and grew up with his mother. Mother-in-law is a typical professional woman in China. She is willing to give everything for her children and has no complaints about suffering. It is difficult for my husband to finish college by himself.

It can be seen that her husband is not only filial to her mother-in-law, but also admires her. Influenced by my husband, I am full of admiration for my mother-in-law, but admiration belongs to admiration. However, because of my different living habits, and I especially like cleanliness and attach importance to space privacy, I expressed my request not to live with my mother-in-law in the future before I got married.

I could see that my husband was a little reluctant, but he finally agreed. This is not because I am biased against rural people, but because of different living habits caused by different life experiences. It is inevitable that people with different living habits will have conflicts when they live together. My mother-in-law, in particular, used to have a hard life and developed bad habits in diet, dressing and personal hygiene, which I can't accept a little.

My mother-in-law is also very conscious. After marriage, she seldom comes and occasionally stays at home, but my husband and I often visit her. Of course, I won't spend the night at home.

I heard that my grandson was ill the other day, and my mother-in-law was impatient. She came unannounced and brought a bag. Judging from her posture, she is not going to leave that day. Knowing my habit, my mother-in-law rushed to the balcony as soon as she entered the door, took out a set of clean clothes from her carry-on bag and went to see her grandson.

Looking at the clothes changed by my mother-in-law and throwing them directly on the balcony floor, I have an unspeakable feeling in my heart. I used to want to pick up my clothes and put them in my bag, but when I picked them up, they were dirty and torn. I felt that I could hardly wear them, so I wanted to throw them away and buy her a new set.

My mother-in-law has been taking her grandson with her since she came, and she doesn't want to leave at all. Husband said that mom doesn't come often, so let the children sleep with her for one night. Although I was a little reluctant, I was moved a little by my mother-in-law's performance and agreed.

After breakfast the next morning, my husband went to work and my mother-in-law was playing with her son. I quickly took the opportunity to go to the mall with my mother-in-law to buy a new suit and threw her dirty clothes into the trash can downstairs.

When I came back from buying clothes, I saw my mother-in-law running around the house. I asked her what happened. Why can't she find the clothes she changed yesterday? I said, don't look, I threw it away!

My mother-in-law almost cried when she heard this, saying, Why did you throw away my clothes without saying a word? I thought she was worried about clothes and said with a smile, how can she wear clothes like that? I bought you a new set.

Just then, my husband came back in a hurry. That's when I felt something was wrong. As soon as my husband came in, he asked me angrily if I had thrown away my mother-in-law's clothes. Say that there are 10,000 yuan in the clothes that my mother-in-law prepared for her children!

As soon as I heard this, I quickly told my husband what had happened and dragged my husband to rummage in the trash can downstairs, but it was gone. I feel a little guilty, saying that my mother-in-law doesn't know how long it took to save so much money, so let me throw it away!

Instead of blaming me, my husband praised me for doing the right thing and comforted me that you were kind, only blaming my mother for being anxious to accompany the children and not telling you! I am ashamed of what he said, because I didn't think so at first. They don't blame me for throwing away my mother-in-law's hard-earned money because of my unintentional mistake. I am really touched and feel really lucky to meet them in my life. I secretly decided to accept my mother-in-law from my heart!