Tell me the correct method.

People are kind, gentle and intelligent. If you go the right way and do the right thing, you will succeed, but even if you have a good chance, you may not succeed, because you are anticlimactic, give up halfway and have no patience. Leave the place where the older generation lived and get married. Husband and wife may be separated halfway, so it is better to get married somewhere else. After 31 or 35 years, you can benefit from it.