Is there a truth in the countryside that "people are poor and inseparable, and their hands are cold and they don't bake lamps"?

As the saying goes in the countryside, "people are poor and inseparable from their relatives, and their hands are cold and they are not tortured." This sentence tells the sadness of people living in the world. Poor people are nothing in society. They don't even stand together when others talk. They just drink and deliberately leave you alone. Only those who have been laughed at know this taste.

There is a poor man in my village. When he was a child, he could not even wear shoes. He always picks up other people's clothes. Everyone looks down on him, and his relatives don't associate with him. But this man is eager to learn. Now he is the vice president of a large listed company. Every year he goes home for the New Year by special plane. Now his relatives associate with him again. This is a very real thing. People nowadays are very realistic. If you have no money and status, then you are nothing. Some of your relatives don't ask people for money now. If you have no money or status, there are relatives who are willing to associate.

As the old saying goes, no one in downtown asks if you are poor, and if you have money in mountainous areas, you can make distant relatives. If you don't believe me, just look at the wine at the banquet and persuade the rich first. There are many brothers with wine and meat, so it is difficult to meet people. Now everyone has so-called fair-weather friends. It's really hard. How many people can help you?

Three poor and three rich are too old, who knows whether it will rise or fall in ten years! I cherish those who like me and abandon those who don't like me. Why live for others?

People who go to work in the unit, those who have cars look down on those who don't have cars, that is, people will dislike you if you take someone else's car in the next town. It's very realistic, because you have no money and no position in the unit.

Therefore, men should have backbone. Although he is poor, he doesn't steal or rob, but there is no need to care about other people's opinions. He doesn't eat or drink other people's food, and he still wants to see it. I really don't want to see it. what do you think?

Now the countryside is the same as the city. The reality is that if you have no money to go back to your hometown, not many people will take care of you. If you hand out your cheap cigarettes, some people will give you face and catch them. If I don't give you face, you won't just pick up the cigarette and find a good point from your pocket, which will piss you off.

I played one in Dongguan when I was in my twenties, and my girlfriend was from Hunan. She asked me to return the money to her home in Hunan where I worked as a manager. After three or four thousand months' salary, I quit my job and went back to Hunan with five or six thousand dollars. When you meet your future mother-in-law for the first time, at least show it! I gave my father-in-law 1000 and my mother-in-law 1000, and I went to 2000 at once. (1978 two thousand is ok). At first, my mother-in-law and her family liked me very much. Every day, they go to the market with their girlfriends and shop to their heart's content. After playing for almost a month, I still had a few hundred dollars in my pocket, so I quietly told my girlfriend that we were going back to Guangdong, and we had no money in our pocket and didn't want to walk back to Guangdong to work. My girlfriend said she wasn't afraid, and all the money for working was mailed home and deposited with her mother-in-law.

So, we played for about ten days. I gradually felt that her mother's attitude towards me was a little subtle, so she insisted on leaving. My girlfriend still wants to play at home for a while. I said I would go to Guangdong first, and you bought me a ticket. My girlfriend said to go to her mother and get money to buy me a ticket. As a result, her mother said that a big man didn't even have the money to buy a ticket. What girlfriend can he find and wife can he marry?

At that time, I couldn't believe that her mother said this. She won't even lend it to me. I didn't expect such a realistic person. Her mother taught me a profound lesson.

Then my girlfriend gave me five yuan. I rode around the mountain road and borrowed the fare from my friend's house. It rained heavily that day and my friend's underwear was soaked through. My friend lent me 500 yuan without saying anything. When I arrived in Guangdong, I immediately called my girlfriend to say goodbye, and my friend lent him money to call him. I am very grateful to my friends, and let me feel the sincerity and enthusiasm between friends. I am also very grateful to my ex-girlfriend's mother, who made me feel her ruthlessness and indifference, as well as reality.

This is only the first time in my life that I have met such a realistic person. I will meet many realistic people now and in the future. However, we should not be pessimistic. Only when you are strong can you care less about the coldness and indifference of others.

"People are poor and inseparable, and their hands are cold and they don't bake lamps." This old saying makes sense.

People don't go to relatives when they are poor, let alone ask relatives for help when they are not satisfied. When you are in the spring breeze, you may feel that all the relatives around you are in harmony, but if you are not in the spring breeze, you will find that their attitude towards you has become different. I have seen many such examples. I have a neighbor. His parents are in poor health and take medicine all the year round. His relatives and friends are avoiding him for fear that he will borrow money. On holidays, he seldom eats at the main table when he goes to his relatives' house. The neighbor's family really had no choice but to run to the city to collect waste. He has made a lot of money in recent years, bought a house in the city and drove hundreds of thousands of cars. Now go home, no matter who you go to, you are a guest.

If you don't bake a lamp with cold hands, you freeze to death and don't bake a lamp. The lamp mentioned here is a kerosene lamp. When a person is cold, how can a little lighting help? Another meaning of this sentence is that lighting a lamp is a disgraceful act, and you can't lose your backbone for a little warmth, thus humiliating your dignity and backbone.

"People are poor and inseparable, and their hands are cold and they don't bake lamps." This simple sentence tells the truth of the world.

I think there is some truth in the saying that "people are poor and inseparable, and their hands are cold and they don't bake lamps", but it is not entirely right.

China is one of the four ancient civilizations in the world with a long history. We often hear all kinds of proverbs, famous sayings and common sayings, which are easy to understand. This is the crystallization of people's experience and wisdom summed up in the long history, and it is also a true portrayal of people's lives. "People are poor and inseparable, and their hands are cold and they don't bake lamps" embodies the human feelings in people's lives and the means of dealing with people. So what does this sentence mean?

"People are poor and inseparable." In other words, when people are poor, never go to relatives' homes or ask relatives for help. Because they will be afraid of you to borrow money, and occasionally ignore you, the winner will sneer at you.

Seeing this proverb reminds me of another limerick:

Downtown is poor, no one asks,

Rich people have distant relatives in the mountains.

Looking at a glass of wine,

To the rich.

Both of them reflect the real life of society and the position of money in people's hearts since ancient times.

"Cold hands don't bake lamps." In the past, people used oil lamps for lighting. At that time, people often said, even if your hands are cold, don't go to the lamp to keep warm, because the flame of the oil lamp is very small, it won't be warm at all, and it will also affect the surrounding lighting. Another meaning of this sentence is that people should have backbone, and don't lose their integrity and humiliate their backbone because of a little charity from others.

In a word, there are many proverbs and sayings in our country, especially in rural areas. They are a true portrayal of people's lives or a certain historical period, so there is a certain truth. But everything is not absolute, and what makes sense is not necessarily right. Just like the phrase "people are poor and inseparable from their relatives", although it reflects the portrayal of people's lives in real life, it also has some truth. But I don't think this is right. It not only reflects a social phenomenon, but also reflects people's attitude towards money from the side. They are used to using money to measure everything, including affection, friendship, love and so on. This should not be advocated.

The above is my opinion on the sentence "people are poor and inseparable, and their hands are cold and they don't bake lamps". Are you right? If you have different opinions, please leave a message in the comments section.

"People are poor and don't leave their relatives, and their hands are cold and don't bake the lamp" is similar to the two words in our hometown, "Don't look forward to the doll cloud when you are dry, and don't point to your home when you are poor", which is a relative reminder of indifference and a warning to the world that you are poor and don't steam steamed buns for breath.

When people are in poverty and hardship, they should work hard, not relying on the sky or the ground, but relying on their own spirit to stand on their own feet. Some things can't be counted on, whether it's a hand-cold baking lamp or a small shower in a dry doll cloud, it's hopeless. In the early days of reform and opening-up, material food was scarce, spring blossomed and it was green and yellow. My cousin went to my cousin's house to help build a house. My cousin said that working there could save some food for the family.

Cousin is very unhappy. When he came back, he stopped working. He pulled the scooter directly into the mountains to cut wood. After living in the mountains for a few days, he took firewood to the street and sold it to buy food. Helping others when they are poor will also make others feel that you are taking advantage of them. Of course, not everyone is so cold-blooded. After all, human beings have their own true feelings. If they are real relatives, they may also give each other warmth and help each other through the difficulties.

When listening to grandma's talk about the big group, grandma's family who ate the canteen was in famine, and her cousins were starving. At that time, I heard that our production team was ok, and there was a supply of sweet potatoes and miscellaneous grains, so I spent the famine year with the help of my grandmother's wings. So that after my uncle graduated from Xinyang Normal University, he never forgot to walk about 45 kilometers by bike on the second day of the first month of every year, regardless of the wind and snow. Although my uncle has no worries about food and clothing, he will buy clothes for pocket money. Nowadays, society is rich in material resources, so it is impossible to starve to death, but there will still be people in need. People's hearts are all meat, and like-minded relatives need help.

I feel that social development is still warm. Cold-blooded may exist, and there are other reasons, but it is a minority after all, or unless there is something wrong with itself. Personal point of view

The correct statement of "people are poor and don't leave their relatives, and their hands are cold and don't bake lamps" is that "people are poor and don't depend on their relatives, and their hands are cold and don't depend on lamps", which was first put forward by Confucianism, which makes sense and accords with real life.

Poor people mainly refer to

When you are poor or down and out, don't think about relying on the help of relatives, let alone going to relatives' homes, so as not to let relatives treat each other coldly and abandon themselves. You know, even a good relative can only help you for a while, just like when you have no food, relatives can only provide you with hunger, but not everything. If you rely on your relatives for a long time, you will be rejected and alienated, which will eventually lead to an embarrassing situation.

Hand-cold baking lamp mainly refers to

Don't warm yourself on an oil lamp no matter how cold your hands are. In the past, rural areas were illuminated by oil lamps. The flame of the oil lamp is very small, so it is impossible to warm the root of the oil lamp with cold hands, which also affects the lighting of the oil lamp. Moreover, in the past, rural conditions were limited, and it was too wasteful to use oil lamps to keep warm. Baking an oil lamp is a lazy trip, which not only fails to keep warm, but also loses its spine and hurts elegance, so freezing to death can't humiliate human dignity.

This sentence is more inspirational, and it is of great significance to educate and warn the world. Whenever it is in line with real life, people should rely on their own efforts and don't expect others. Live with backbone, integrity, dignity and don't stoop. When you are down and out, you have to work hard to make yourself strong. Don't try to attract others' disgust and indifference, and do anything that hurts and loses dignity.

Although this sentence sounds stinging, it is really in line with the reality of life, so keep it in mind all the time.

The above personal views are welcome to pay attention or comment.

It must be meaningful. This is a proverb and proverb summed up by working people with their own life experience and wisdom for thousands of years, which contains rich philosophy of life. These words have been handed down from generation to generation and are widely known. On the one hand, Mandy is catchy and easy to remember and spread. On the other hand, it is to advise the world to have backbone and integrity, to have dignity and to abide by principles.

It is said that people are poor, try not to visit relatives often, and be temperate. Some relatives will show an indifferent attitude, which is embarrassing; Some relatives will preach, but they are cynical and rich, which makes people helpless; What's more, some relatives will be disgusted and embarrassed because you are poor. Human feelings are cold and warm, and the world is cold because you are poor. Besides, even if you have reasonable relatives, you can only help you for a while, but not for a lifetime. Life depends on yourself. If you can see through the present, you can distinguish things clearly. He who sees through the world of mortals is nothing but ups and downs, and life is nothing but impermanence. Therefore, a person should have integrity and integrity. Although the phrase "people are poor and never leave their relatives" is tacky, the truth is the same, which tells the reality of society and people's worries.

It is said that no matter how cold your hands are, don't bake the lamp that breaks through the darkness and gives off dazzling light. Because in the past, the countryside was illuminated by oil lamps at night, which dispelled the darkness and made people's hearts bright. The oil lamp has a small flame and does not emit much heat, but it can illuminate the light and the future and give people hope. Baking hands with a lamp can not keep warm, but also block the light, which dashed the hope of life and lost the goal to pursue. He is a big fool, unwilling to be angry, and has no expressive character. Although there is no small oil lamp in reality, this sentence is to warn everyone not to lose yourself and your dignity for such a small profit.

I remember baking my hands with oil lamps when I was a child. At that time, the weather was too cold and my hands were too cold, so I put my little hand next to the oil lamp to keep warm. The part near the flame is really warm, but the whole hand is colder, because your hand is exposed, and that little warmth can't warm your whole hand, but the cold of your whole hand dilutes that little warmth, which is really not worth the loss. This also proves the saying that "in order to get a crooked-neck tree, you lost the whole forest".

Laozi said in the Tao Te Ching: "A gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement; The terrain is Kun, and the gentleman carries the goods with thick accumulation. " Meng Ziri: "Therefore, God will take great responsibility for the people of Sri Lanka, so we must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, starve their bodies and skin, and mess with their actions. Therefore, we should be patient and do something for the benefit." Therefore, everyone's success is not easy, and they have to go through all kinds of hardships to win spring. There is no happiness in the world, and there is no happiness gained by losing dignity. Only by unremitting efforts and hard pursuit can we win a little light and hope and finally get the ultimate happiness.

Work hard, my friend, and live up to the good times and the entrepreneurial era, and your dream will eventually come true.

People are poor and inseparable, and their hands are cold and they don't bake lamps.

Different people have different views on this issue. I think the focus of this sentence is the first half, and the second half is just a foil. People are poor and inseparable. Let's understand from the text: poverty is divided into money wealth and spiritual wealth, and spiritual wealth means more inferiority complex; The family is divided into poor relatives or rich friends. No matter what the situation is, I think the customs and habits that should be followed need to be honest! I feel sorry for it, but it's not an infectious disease. Don't steal, rob, delay or owe, we are not ashamed! We don't feel humble when our faces are hot and our asses are cold!

Today is the information age, but information doesn't always jump out of the screen. I think the poor should visit their relatives more often. This process may be the magic weapon to get rich, because I believe that the proportion of good people is mostly, and the information of getting rich comes from relatives and friends faster than news broadcast! …

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question. I am Xiaofeng, a post-90 s boy who is rooted in the countryside. I don't think it's quite correct. I feel a little extreme. Relatives are relatives. The communication between relatives is based on friendship, and there is not much conflict of interest. Of course, it is not excluded that some rich relatives will look down on people, but there is no way. If you are poor, you have to work hard, right? First of all, you can't. So no one can save it. Of course, if you go to your relatives for business, that's another matter. It is well-intentioned for others to help you, but it is duty not to help you. It is still useful to see Zhang say a word when Jong is watching. Jianghu doesn't kill, it's the way of the world, and Jianghu should talk about the way of the world, not to mention relatives. Now communication is more and more developed, but relatives are getting farther and farther away. Don't you think it's not just poverty? Is it really just because there is less contact between poor relatives?

"Poverty does not depend on relatives, and cold does not depend on lamps" is a rural proverb.

"Being poor without relying on relatives" means that relying on relatives can only satisfy your temporary hunger, can't give you comprehensive relief, and will be suspected.

"Cold without a lamp" means that it is useless to bake a lamp if you freeze to death. People will say that you are incompetent and look down on you.

To be a man of backbone, don't accept alms from others unless you have to. Be a man of integrity. Don't do anything useless.

In short, you should be ambitious and have the courage to solve difficulties.