Intimacy

What is a crisis of trust?

A crisis of trust is a term used to express a serious crisis in the relationship between people. It means that the moral principles and norms of a certain society or group are not understood by people. Compliance is a phenomenon in which people lack a moral connection and agreement, and neither party can trust the sincerity and loyalty of the other party, so they dare not entrust the other party with important responsibilities.

What is trust?

In the book "Heart Code" written by Lin Chongde, it is said: "Trust is when an individual feels at ease with the people, things and things around him. A reliable and trustworthy emotional experience.”

In layman’s terms, it means getting along well. Just imagine the scene when you are lying on your own bed or in a bed in a foreign youth hostel with closed doors and windows. More reassuring?

How does trust arise?

The book "Heart Dictionary" says: "Trust occurs when an individual feels that someone, something or something It occurs when there is consistency, predictability and reliability. ”

At home, the only people who can break into your door are your parents and family members, but in a shabby hotel, it is obvious that someone can break in through the door. There is a high probability that the person is not a good person. From this point of view, the latter obviously brings greater insecurity to people.

How does trust disappear?

When an individual feels that someone, something or something has lost consistency, predictability and reliability, trust naturally disappears.

How to solve the trust crisis?

Trust is an indispensable and important factor in the relationship between relatives and barbarians. Please cherish the trust that the other party has in you. In the relationship, please be cautious in every step. , be cautious, be cautious again. When a crisis of trust occurs, the following points should be considered.

Trace back to the source. When a crisis of trust occurs between two parties, to a large extent there is a communication problem between the two. Due to the lack of communication, mutual distrust arises.

At this time, we should find an appropriate way. The two of them sit down and have a serious chat, talk about their true opinions and thoughts, and understand each other's feelings about this. Use communication to get to the root of the problem.

To make changes, after finding the root of the problem, the most important thing is to make changes. Not only must the other party see the willingness to change and the determination to eliminate the crisis, but more importantly, let the other party see Feel the change in your actions as a result.

Both parties work together to build a better trusting relationship through activities that contribute to trust.

Make a choice. What you have to do after communication and changes is to make a comprehensive judgment and evaluation of your relationship, and make the next choice to determine your relationship.

If the crisis of trust is caused by a misunderstanding, after the crisis is resolved jointly, the crisis is eliminated and trust is re-established, the disharmonious factors should be ignored and the relationship reconciled. If the situation is irreversible, it is better to leave first to avoid being hurt again.

Good thoughts attract good things, bad thoughts attract bad things. When you think about everything in life with a positive and positive attitude, your world will become brighter and full of sunshine.

When you think about life with negative thoughts, you will fall into boundless darkness.