A 66-year-old fat mother has been with her husband with terminal cancer for 3 years. How is it now?

Now many young people don't know "Fat Mom" Maria. After all, she was the most popular in the 80 s, and now she has rarely published new works. But beyond her career, her love life is more noticeable.

Accompanied by her husband with cancer for three years, such a fat mother is very popular among fans for her husband's "disappearance" from the entertainment circle. She and her husband Rick 2 1 year's marriage have gone through many hardships together, but they are still stuck in cancer. But the conditions are ruthless and people are affectionate. For the fat mother, she has always believed this and has always done so.

An uncontrollable situation

In fact, many viewers who pay attention to fat mom should know her husband's illness. After all, at the beginning of this year, when the fat mother and her husband were flying, they accidentally left the ventilator and medicine that her husband carried with them on the plane. So this low-key woman who didn't want to bring her private life into work made a rare exception and publicly asked for help, making a big fuss.

Many people think that she makes a mountain out of a molehill, but for a fat mother, what is left on the plane is related to her husband's life. Now the husband has been relying on ventilators and drugs to maintain his life. Once something goes wrong, they must use the ventilator urgently to save lives. Therefore, even if she is told by the public or attacked by someone, she is willing.

Because of this, the fact that the fat mother's husband was ill was known to everyone, but since then, I have rarely heard of this couple. Until two days ago, when Fat Mom and Li Lixia held a live concert on the Internet, they couldn't control their tears instantly because netizens asked about their husbands.

While singing the song "Love", I tried to control my emotions and didn't want to be too painful. So after the song, she also specially explained that "my husband is ill, but our family takes care of him." He must be very happy. This is a tear of happiness. " Trying to smile, but still crying uncontrollably.

In fact, life now is really satisfying for fat mom. After all, three years ago, the doctor diagnosed her husband's terminal cancer, and he only had 1 year to live. Now he has been with himself for three years, and the fat mother is very grateful to fate. But I can't help thinking that my husband will leave himself eventually. They have been married for 2 1 year, and the fat mother is used to having her husband around. I wonder what she will do if that day really comes.

Broken and happy fat mother said before that she and her current husband are half-way couples. It took her a long time to meet the right person, and so did her husband. Looking back on the previous marriage, Fat Mom thought it was a dark life experience. She can't figure out why marriage can completely change a man.

Before I married my ex-husband, he was obviously gentle and considerate. But after they got married and had their own children, their husbands became lazy. In desperation, the fat mother who let her ex-husband take care of the children and went out to support her family came back from performing everywhere, only to find her husband living in her own house with another woman, and her anger was predictable.

But when I was young, my fat mother didn't have her present constitution. How can she beat that man? Finally, she was bullied by her husband and asked the police to come to her door. Such an absurd marriage originally made the fat mother give up hope for men. But when she met Rick, she thought the world was beautiful.

Rick will accompany her to do what she wants and be very friendly to her children. He encouraged himself to act and sing and become his most loyal fan. As long as there is an opportunity, I will give my wife a hug before the performance, stand under the stage and watch her perform, and take her to celebrate after the performance. Here Dick rekindled the fat mother's enthusiasm for life.

Although Rick has had a failed marriage and brought several children, family happiness is the most important thing. In this way, the fat mother became the mother of six children, taking care of their food, clothing, housing and transportation. As a father, Rick treats all six children equally. For a long time, fat mothers felt very happy.

But the diagnosis three years ago really disrupted the life rhythm of the fat mother. Looking at her husband lying in the hospital bed, at the age of 63, she was afraid that her husband would leave. People say that young couples will always be partners. When they miss each other's boyhood, can't old people be companions? Fat mother dare not think. Maybe her dependence on Rick has penetrated into her bones.

In these three years, chemotherapy and medicine have become the most common things Rick does. It must be very painful for a fat mother to know that her husband is harassed by illness. But she can't guarantee that she will be cured, and she doesn't want her husband to give up the chance of survival. Today, because the treatment cost more than 6 million yuan, the fat mother insisted on her attitude and never gave up.

The well-known ending

Before her husband got cancer, in fact, my fat mother had a major operation. At that time, she felt hopeless, but she left a will when she was lying in bed, but her husband didn't give up on her. I have been encouraging her to cooperate with the doctor and think about waiting outside the operating room. Fortunately, the fat mother recovered after the tumor in her stomach was finally removed.

So when it was her husband's turn, the fat mother also thought that she would recover amazingly one day. Although many doctors said it was impossible for so many years, the fat mother believed it. How can Rick, who can't bear to part with her and her family, say goodbye easily?

Because her husband has lung cancer, she is very particular about food. For her husband, the fat mother has been upgraded to a full-time housewife. She made all the scenes of cooking and taking care of children at home into small videos, which also fulfilled her dream of becoming an actress. Besides, you can kill two birds with one stone and take care of your husband. It's not great.

Many times, in fact, fat mothers are very optimistic and cheerful, especially in front of their husbands. She pretended to be strong and encouraged her husband, but she cried silently where others could not see her. I believe this live broadcast is just the release of her pent-up emotions. But she is still full of "tears of happiness", and her heart must be fragile.

It is natural for people to live, die and die. Fat mom also wants to make herself more relaxed. One day when her husband leaves, she will go this way. But it is said that when you really find it in yourself, it is far more difficult to do it than to say it. On those nights when I didn't sleep well, I got up again and again to see if my husband was still there, and my fat mother felt that she was going crazy.

In fact, in the face of major diseases, as ordinary people, we really can't do anything to change the outcome. But it is also a good choice to try your best to do your own thing. Preparing every meal for her husband, accompanying him to treatment and cherishing every moment with him may be the most important thing for a fat mother to do.

Conclusion The conditions are ruthless, and even the rich will be particularly powerless in the face of life. But as long as you have a clear conscience, do your best. Even if the ending is hard to change, at least I won't have any regrets. Fat mom is like this, so should we.