Is it right or wrong for couples to have a winner when they quarrel?

Of course not.

In fact, it is very normal for two people to quarrel when they are together, because their growing environment, educational environment, communication circle and network were all different before they got together, so the two people have different relationships. People's ideas are also very different, and their attitudes towards one thing are definitely different. When two people's opinions conflict, it is very easy to quarrel. However, quarreling between two people is not necessarily a bad thing. On the contrary, It is a good opportunity for us to get to know each other better and communicate in depth.

As the saying goes, men are from Venus and women are from Mars. Due to different physiological structures, men and women have different thinking modes. Most of the time when girls quarrel, it is just because they are expressing their grievances and accusing the man of not understanding enough. Self and love yourself, and boys quarrel mostly because of talking about things. Girls are more emotional, while boys are more rational and problem-solving. Therefore, after calculation, both parties are actually not wrong, so there is no need to pursue who is right and who is wrong. Although there is no need to pursue who is right and who is wrong, we also need to solve the problem. Only in this way can two people achieve success on the road of love. Positive result.

My husband and I have typical complementary personalities. He is an impatient person and I am a chronic person. Therefore, when we were boyfriend and girlfriend at the beginning, we basically had a small quarrel every day and a quarrel every three days. We had big quarrels. It was a very difficult time. Although he had to apologize every time we quarreled, he would always say that I was wrong, and I was not good at expressing myself. I always felt aggrieved that he didn't love me or understand me at all. Otherwise, why would he always say something wrong? Do you want to compete for superiority? But fortunately, both of us are people who focus on communication and problem-solving, so every time after a quarrel, we would talk about what went wrong when we were calm afterwards. I began to know that he only wanted to solve the problem, and he knew that I Emotions need to be channeled, and we have been working together for more than a year. Now we rarely quarrel, and we can communicate and solve problems in a timely manner.

Therefore, when couples quarrel, they do not necessarily have to distinguish right from wrong, but should focus on solving the problem. Whether it is the boy or the girl's fault, the two people should communicate well afterwards. If they feel that their emotions have not been affected by the other party, If you take care of them, you can clearly tell the other person that you need to be understood, tolerated and comforted. If you feel that the other person is a bit unreasonable, you can also clearly say that you really can't take into account the other person's emotions on such occasions, but you can make up for it afterwards and express your feelings. Love, then I believe that no matter how unreasonable people are, they will never be unreasonable again.

As long as two people love each other, there is no problem that cannot be solved. Quarrel should be a channel for you to understand each other better. Over time, you will have more and more tacit understanding, understand each other better, and your feelings will become stronger. The better.