My family is fine, but my father-in-law always drinks and plays crazy and throws our things. It's really unbearable.

Under normal circumstances, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to solve. You have become a problem for your parents-in-law. This kind of problem is really a headache. It's definitely not good for your daughter-in-law to handle such a thing. Only your husband will come forward. When your father-in-law is in a good mood, let your husband or relatives of your husband's father (more convincingly) put this question aside. At this age, quarreling all the time will not only hurt feelings, but also have a bad influence on the next generation. Your children don't grow up very well in this atmosphere. What's more, both of you are trying to start your own small family as soon as possible. Out of sight, out of mind, maybe the two old people won't be able to play together!