Why do parents favor the eldest child?

You don’t need to be sad about this. You have to adjust your mentality. Everyone has his or her own path to take.

Your parents are partial. This is your parents’ own problem. You really don’t need to say anything cold or anything like that. You have your responsibility and your future. Your future does not depend on your parents. Escort depends on what kind of path you create for yourself. I know you may complain in your heart and feel angry and wronged, but these are all tests that life brings to you. This is the fact that reality tells you.

As a parent, it is impossible for a bowl of water to be balanced. Everyone has a selfish side. Parents usually favor younger children or boys. Then one party is disobedient and always makes his parents angry. I think you belong to the former. This is nothing spectacular. It's not necessarily a bad thing if your parents don't favor you. It can make you mature and independent earlier, which will be beneficial to your future in society and as a person.

On the contrary, children who are favored and pampered will become very selfish as adults. People who are too selfish are annoying. Of course, if your parents go too far, you shouldn't remain silent. You can talk to your parents about your grievances. Let your parents know how you feel. But don’t misunderstand that your parents don’t love you. It’s wrong to think so. They still love you.

If you don’t believe it, if someone comes to your house and beats you, your parents will risk their lives to protect you. Just be tolerant of your parents' favoritism. Be more understanding and tolerant, and the world will be peaceful. Learn to be content. As the saying goes, he who is content is always happy. If you always have a contented heart, you will be free from worries and happy all the time. May you be free from worries and be happy and joyful all the time.

I only want to say one thing to you: your self-improvement, self-confidence, and self-reliance will eventually give you support in life. You must make sure that you cannot lose to reality or test, and a thousand-mile horse will shine because of its bole. Don't feel sorry for yourself because your parents don't look up to you. You should do what you should do, and you should use facts to prove your own worth.