What is a trough (how to spend the most difficult trough in life)

Clue:

No one's life is smooth sailing, ups and downs, ups and downs is the whole of life. It is normal to struggle in valleys, slopes and land where life can be the highlight of success.

What is the low point in life? What is low tide? To put it bluntly. You are a loser, and the loser is at the bottom, which is not bad. What should losers do?

I remember Yu, the founder of New Oriental, once said that I used to be a little grass that no one knew.

He said, when you are a grass on the horizon, what reason do you have for others to see you from a distance?

If your thoughts are the seeds of grass, you will always be a trampled grass. If your heart is the seed of a tree, you will grow into a towering tree one day.

So, what should people do when they are at the lowest point in their lives? Walking in the rivers and lakes, it is inevitable that you will encounter bumps.

As a social person, I am frustrated in work, life, feelings and frustration. When our career was a fiasco and our life was a mess, love birds also flew away, or encountered other emotional trivia.

It is very likely that you will be miserable at work, have almost no place to stand, and become a street mouse that everyone cries and beats and everyone despises. After all, this is an era of speaking by strength and ability.

When you make a mistake at work, or are excluded, you are alone, walking on thin ice at work, and you can hardly get along.

Save yourself

What you need to do at this time is to save yourself, stabilize yourself, and don't mind other people's eyes and words.

Because the mouth grows on others, no matter what they say. First, keep your job, stand firm, learn to lower your eyebrows, learn to bow your head, and strive for greater living space for yourself.

Don't explain anything to anyone, no one will believe what a down-and-out person says.

On the surface, they are sympathetic. In fact, if something really happens to you, not many people will really help you and give you advice. One and a half years is enough. Those who support you in adversity are true friends.

When something really happens to you, most people standing on the dry shore watching the scenery are watching, but as long as they don't bump into people when they are down and out, it's normal. After all, it is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.

As long as you're down and out, don't talk more, talk less or don't talk. Only in this way can we better protect ourselves and avoid being caught by others.

Silence and caution are the best ways to protect yourself. Because, you are a loser, everything you say is pale and powerless, so you must stop talking.

Man becomes the sea and the earth becomes the king.

Walking in the wind and rain, I have hit my head and bandaged the wound, keeping a low profile and then keeping a low profile.

Maybe when you are down and out, you can only get a foothold and survive by lowering yourself into the soil.

Talk less and do more. Although the situation will not change for a while, be yourself first and have a clear conscience.

Actions speak louder than a thousand words, and actions are always more convincing than explanations.

Do your own job and do what you like. Learn to be alone when you are most frustrated, enrich yourself in loneliness and silence, and make your heart strong and your wings full.

Perhaps, the immediate setbacks and setbacks will make you a better person in the future.

Accumulate strength silently

At the bottom, we have to survive and move forward, but we need to make more efforts to have greater strength.

When you are not understood by the whole world, you can only try to lower yourself, develop yourself, read books, learn new skills and constantly enrich yourself. In order to come in handy in the future or broaden your living space.

People living in this world have to experience cold weather and get wet before they can learn to hold an umbrella for themselves in the wind and rain.

Always tripping over others, learn to get up, quietly accumulate strength and strengthen your legs.

Those who can't beat you will eventually make you stronger.

Learn to reconcile with yourself.

At the bottom of life, you found your place and adjusted your mentality.

I also know my weight and see people and things around me more clearly.

Someone joked that if you want to recognize the people around you, bad luck once is enough.

A person's life is full of various variables, including work, feelings and life, which are changing all the time, and the only constant is change.

When you learn to change with constancy and brake with quietness, then you learn to grow.

When you struggle to climb out of the bottom of your life, there will inevitably be new transformation and new take-off.

There is a seed in your heart. When you go ashore, you will find that you have grown into a big tree.

Temper a person's will, polish a person's mentality and strengthen a person's wings in adversity.

When you get out of the bottom of your life, you will find that you have wings to fly again. And you are brave and strong, not afraid of wind and rain.

Conclusion: an old lyric: to survive, dry your tears first and walk over. One day in advance, I have to bear the burden of suffering at night. The morning wind rises, the sun rises and sees your shoulders. ...

Through the rain, through the wind, out of the trough of life. There must be more beautiful scenery waiting for you ahead. Because people can't be unlucky forever, and bad luck becomes good luck at the end. This is called no big luck.

On the day of dormancy, you completed your best transformation and growth. Walking in the valley, whoever can survive the best will finally land successfully. There are few ups and downs in life, so we should live a strong life.