Let him say fatal first.

"Just you, this life is like this."

If this is a person with fragile self-esteem, then this sentence will crush him, and even make him angry and do irrational things, not a lover, not a leader, not anyone. When you say this to a man, he must hate you in his heart.

2. Destroy a boy's dream:

"Can you stop thinking about these unrealistic dreams all day? Life is just getting by. Can you grow up? "

With a bang, his heart can fall and stand aside. In fact, you must have had many dreams, including many unrealistic ideas. You share them excitedly, and when you are interrupted by the cold, the loss can only be swallowed hard.

Compare him with other men:

"Why are you inferior to xxx's boyfriend everywhere? Thoughtfulness is not as good as others, Excellence is not as good as others, and even showing love, I can get less sunshine than others. Tell me, what's the use of asking you? "

He may have some shortcomings, but he may also be trying to make up for them. Maybe he hasn't fully developed his ability in some aspects, so he hasn't become an advantage. He may not be "someone else's boyfriend", but he is the one who makes your heart beat. However, the heartbeat can't be eaten as a meal, and the devaluation of the comparison can't be used as a driving force.

No one is perfect, and no one is an iron man, let alone King Kong. Otherwise, there wouldn't be a song about men crying. Crying is not a crime. If he is your lover, if you stab him in the heart with a sharp knife, you will eventually hurt yourself, because the bitter words gouge you out of his heart.