What if there is a generation gap with parents?

We grew up in a very different environment from our parents, and different environments affect people's views and opinions. As we grow up and have our own ideas and opinions, there is a generation gap between us and our parents.

The generation gap is simply the psychological distance between people of different ages due to the gap of ideas. It's like a ravine separated by generations. Actually, the generation gap is normal. With the progress of the times, the speed of change is getting faster and faster. The generation gap no longer exists only between each generation, but between the same generation. Although the age gap is not big, or the growth environment is different, there will be a generation gap.

The quarrel between us and our parents on trivial matters is actually only the surface of the generation gap, far from the essence of the generation gap. The essence of the generation gap is actually the difference between us and our parents in outlook on life, world outlook and values.

The friction and unpleasantness brought by the generation gap is not the fault of any party, but the differences in growth environment, experience and ways of dealing with people affect a person's growth. Shaped a person's outlook on life, values and world outlook.

The generation gap is not an occasional disagreement, a rebellion of youth, or excessive secretion of hormones. It is the collision and friction between a person and others' worldview after forming an understanding of the world. This is an inevitable phenomenon of rapid progress.

Therefore, in the face of the generation gap, we should correctly understand, respect the differences between us and our parents, and don't blame. At the same time, we can also try to communicate and let parents gradually respect and tolerate the ideas and opinions of the younger generation. Only in this way, living under the same roof can reduce the friction and trouble caused by the generation gap as much as possible.