How to communicate with your husband? He has been having a hard time recently and he doesn’t want to get over it!

A person's heart knot is like a knotted rope. It must have a starting root and a development process from simple to complex and then to a dead knot. The knot that appears in marriage, then There will also be roots. This root must be related to your feelings, or it may be developed through long-term interactions and exchanges, or it may be prompted by inadvertent habits and emotions. It’s not that he hasn’t said it before. Maybe many people It will show up when you are dissatisfied in your marriage. This kind of behavior will not talk to you calmly, or even when you complain and talk many times, you will not realize the problems between you, so as time goes by, you will gradually close up and Losing the motivation to talk again

And as a partner, you don’t know what he is thinking, and you don’t understand where his heart is, then it is enough to show that the feeling and mutual understanding between you have been Disconnected. Since this feeling is disconnected, it will not be as simple as you think. If he talks to you carefully, you will be able to understand. The reason why he doesn't talk is because he feels that talking to you will have no effect. , you can’t understand it, so I won’t say it anymore

Regarding the current situation, it’s not about asking him what he thinks or where his heart is, but you should find the root of the relationship between you and promote the development of it. Where does this problem lie? Find it, and then adjust the problems and interactions between you based on the actual problem. This may gradually cause him to melt away and open up to you again

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