The bride's price is not a burden. Tell me about it.

Bride price should make way for love. I think the bride price is dispensable in getting married. The bride price should not be a stumbling block for two people who love each other to get married. Bride price should make way for love. However, in real life, too many people pay too much attention to the bride price. Many people were originally in love, and finally broke up because of the bride price.

Every time I see the news that two people who love each other have broken up because of the bride price, I feel particularly sorry. It is not easy to find a person who likes himself and likes himself at the same time in the vast sea of people. If you meet him, you should cherish him. In any case, you should not be ruined by the bride price. As parents, don't be so persistent. Everything should be based on the lifelong happiness of children.

Don't let the bride price become a burden after marriage. When many parents marry their daughters, they always feel that they need a little more bride price from the man in order to make their daughters pay more attention to the woman's family. It is understandable that parents have such an idea, but the bride price really depends on the specific situation of the man. If the other party has good economic conditions, it doesn't matter if it wants more, and the other party will be willing to give it, but if the other party really has no money, the woman insists on not letting it. Even if the man wants to borrow enough money for the bride price, both husband and wife will have to pay their debts together after marriage, and there will definitely be problems in married life.

Regional differences of bride price In this matter of wedding bride price, I found that we Cantonese are not so particular about it. Generally speaking, women don't expect much. Those who have money can give more, and those who have no money can give less. It is rare to make a big fuss because of the bride price.

My family is a rural family, and it is not easy for my parents to support me through college. I'm married, so I should ask men for more bride price. However, when my husband and I were getting married in 20 13, my husband's family had average economic conditions and no savings, so I only gave my parents 20,000 yuan. Although my parents are a little unhappy, they have no problem.

And my parents didn't have any savings at that time, so they didn't prepare any dowry when they got married. Even the only motorcycle is for parents. Both families can understand each other, so they won't complain about anything. The relationship between the two families is also very good after marriage. It is said that I have paid a lot. My husband and two younger brothers got married before him, and the bride price was less than 1 10,000.

Compared with many northern areas, the bride price they want to give their daughters is not 12,000 yuan, but easily hundreds of thousands, which makes many parents with sons have to prepare the gift money for their daughters' marriage very early. I think this is a very bad atmosphere and should be changed gradually.