What should a boy say on the first blind date?

Men and women who meet for the first time may be confused and don't know what to do to become a successful blind date. The following is the specific process and precautions of blind date. Don't talk big when you meet for the first time.

When boys and girls meet for the first time, no matter which side, try to say: Stop it, stop bragging. The best state is: awkward, giving people a very comfortable feeling, feeling that this person is very cultivated. Last week, when I asked the man with a question on a blind date, he always answered irrelevant questions and unconsciously extended the question. Obviously, he asked him: I take the liberty to ask who introduced our aunt to you. He

To sum up: whether a person has self-cultivation or not, the first contact is with words. Or one of the most important factors in blind date.

Wearing clothes for the first time.

Boys and girls must pay attention to their clothes. Once they met a man wearing a down jacket in winter with an empty cotton sweater inside, which gave a very bad impression. Everyone likes to be respected and valued. If so, they will definitely deduct points for blind date. Girls, too, will dress themselves up beautifully. No matter how you look at it, the result of plain face will only make men dull. Remember: men always like beautiful women, and women always do.

No matter what you look like when dating, you must pay attention to your clothes. Last time we talked about dress, now let's talk about how to dress appropriately. First of all, you should dress according to the season. Whether you are a boy or a girl, don't blindly follow the trend, and don't wear any clothes of Hari Hahan. Don't wear professional clothes. Of course, you can choose the former under the age of 25 and the latter over the age of 35. Or not all men are suitable for wearing pink shirts.

When you meet for the first time, avoid talking about your parents.

Today, I will introduce the taboo words in dating: Try to talk less about your parents when dating. Why? Talking too much will make the other person feel that you are not mature enough, and secondly, you will feel insecure with you. If you are a man, you will be associated with 24 filial piety. If you are a woman who wants to be king at home in the future, you can sum up one sentence: If you want to fail in blind date early, then move your parents out. Nine out of ten sentences are about parents, and the tenth sentence is about them. Congratulations, you will be eliminated by T.

Generally speaking, people who meet on blind dates should know something about their parents and family. There is no need to ask them when we meet for the first time. You can't help asking: Are your parents still working? Click here. There was once a GG who said: at home, parents' words are imperial edicts. It is absolutely unpleasant and even disgusting for a 30-year-old to say such a thing.

Suitable topic for first blind date

There are often problems with TF. Since there are so many things you can't say or mention on a date, what should you say? In fact, when we meet for the first time, we should talk about each other's work as much as possible. For example, you can introduce where you work and what you mainly do. This is usually said by men first. First, MM can understand what you do. Second, MM can also observe your speech through this. TF said that my job is poor and my income is not high. How can I express it well? The method is simple. You can just say: I think young people should practice more. I will read some similar books or study in my spare time. The following TF is free to play, but one thing is that this is only applicable to TF under 30 years old. If you are a male TF over 30 years old with a low salary, you need to put it another way. See tomorrow's post for details.

Time control of first blind date

It is often important to control the time of blind date. The best time to meet for the first time is about two hours, and 2-4 pm is the best. Why? For one thing, lunch has already been eaten, and for another, this election will not be too expensive. According to psychology, when men and women meet for the first time, the best time for them to talk is about 1 hour, because they usually decide to meet again after the first time. I'll talk to you tomorrow about the choice of blind date location.

The prologue of the first blind date.

Today I want to talk about the prelude of blind date. Many times, when men and women meet for the first time, they always like to ask: Have you eaten? Is it convenient to come over? In fact, such words should be placed in the third and fourth sentences. The first and second sentences should be: Hello, nice to meet you, with a natural smile when you speak. Don't underestimate this sentence. It's far warmer than how I feel about you. It's not that you can't say those words, but that you should speak some natural languages on this occasion. Eating and convenient transportation are all conversation topics, which are not suitable for opening remarks.

It's best not to shake hands on the first blind date.

Some people say that for the first time, if you feel good, you'd better shake hands. Actually, it's very risky. How can I put it? When the two sides haven't confirmed their feelings, don't feel good about yourself on the grounds of "we talked very speculatively" or "we are very interested". Sometimes it's just a superficial phenomenon. Don't shake hands on the first blind date. One is unnecessary, and the other is easy to give people the illusion of dealing with business.

Be sure to be on time for the first meeting.

The first blind date, we must have the concept of punctuality. Many men think that women are always unpunctual. In fact, they are all only children now and don't pay much attention to the concept of time. They always think it's okay to be late. Even some people don't know where to go in advance, so they wait until then, or there is a subway or taxi anyway. In fact, they would rather leave early than be late. Imagine, there is no time at all.

The first meal on a blind date

When eating, I usually invite my sister to dinner. MM said she had already eaten, but she was only being polite. You must not think that she has eaten. If MM doesn't care where to eat, she can choose Pizza Hut and other places to eat. One is that the price will not be too high, and the other is emotional. If you like MM when eating, you can take the initiative to add dishes to each other. Eating western food can best reflect whether MM is a lady. Don't be too nervous. Ask MM first when ordering. If MM says it doesn't matter, you can order some general food and ask MM if there are any taboo foods. Don't shut the door too tightly. After dinner, if you are still quite speculative with each other, you can continue walking. Finally, whether you are interested in further development or not, you must ask MM for contact information. It is best to control the first meeting time within three hours.