What's the experience of being an old man's nanny?

Aunt said that she has been a nanny for more than ten years and has taken two jobs to take care of the elderly. Every time, she was deeply moved.

The first old man is an 80-year-old grandfather who suffers from Alzheimer's Harmo's disease, also known as Alzheimer's Harmo's disease.

Grandpa has Alzheimer's disease, but he likes to run around, and he can't find it if he is not careful. Although his family tied his home address card and telephone number, they were also worried about the safety of the elderly.

Aunt is invited mainly to ensure that the elderly will not be hurt by accidents, so her main task is to keep an eye on the elderly.

Patients with Alzheimer's disease usually have not only memory disorders, but also neurological disorders. My aunt's grandfather has reached the point where he can't express himself and communicate normally.

With the aggravation of his illness, like a child, he likes to stuff anything on the table into his mouth.

Aunt said that it is really hard to live like this when people are old. Grandpa was a unit leader before he retired. He paid great attention to his appearance before he got sick, but his clothes were often wet by involuntary saliva after he got sick.

Grandpa has three children, but his aunt has taken care of him for almost a year. The most common is his daughter, who comes almost once every two or three days. One son only showed up once during the Chinese New Year, and the other son only visited the old man two or three times.

Every time my daughter goes, she will bring some food and change clothes, take the old man to bask in the sun, rub his shoulders and back, and talk to him-although the old man can't understand what she is saying.

The son, who only appeared in the Chinese New Year, said that his aunt was very sad, "It is better to die quickly"-this is the biological father who raised him hard.

Aunt said with emotion that it is really too difficult for people to be old, especially those who can't take care of themselves, and they have to increase the burden and pressure on their children.

This grandfather has pension and medical insurance, and can take care of his own money. What if his son still says that he is an old man with nothing?

My aunt's second family is two elderly people in their 70s.

The old couple were university teachers before they retired, and their income was not low. Both their sons and daughters have married and started families abroad.

A few years ago, when the couple were in good health, they stayed abroad for several years, but after all, in their later years, they had basic diseases and needed to see a doctor or be hospitalized from time to time.

The cost abroad is not low, and the old couple are back, with pension, medical insurance and living security.

However, when they get old, their health gets worse and worse. Both sons and daughters have their own families, so they can't come back to take care of them, so they have to hire a nanny.

Aunt is the tenth nanny they have hired. Although the old couple are inconvenient to move, they are very picky about life. The nanny in front either doesn't pay attention to hygiene or doesn't work hard. In short, she has all kinds of problems.

Although menstruation is worried about the bad temper of the old people, it's good that their salary is not low.

Old people don't eat much, and they are vegetarian on weekdays. The food is easy to cook, but it's definitely not enough for my aunt to do so much work every day and follow them to clear the soup.

But the old man wouldn't let her stay in cook the meat, saying that he couldn't stand the smell.

Although the aunt is angry, she is also very sympathetic. No matter how much money the elderly spend and how much delicacies they buy, they are also full of eyes and their digestive ability is gone.

The two old people are inconvenient to move and rarely go out. What they talk about most at home are their children and grandchildren. I miss them and hope they can come back often.

But after all, it is abroad, and every time a child makes a video call, he agrees, but it doesn't make sense.

Aunt said that in this life, people have trained excellent children, but when they are old and need affection, they can't be with them. What do you want?

The three old people served by the nanny aunt have their own misfortunes. But I have to say that it is really too hard to take care of yourself when you are old.

Even if you have money in your hand, you can't enjoy life. It is more used to pay for medical expenses or ask people to take care of themselves.

Old people have children, but when they really need children, even if they have filial piety, they also have their own families and jobs, so it is impossible to completely put them down to accompany them.

When people are old, how to arrange their old age is a problem that many people are considering.

Having a nanny to take care of yourself may not lead a happy life. After all, people are emotional animals and want to enjoy the family happiness of their children and grandchildren around their knees.

Others have no pension and no security. They are totally dependent on their children and their faces.