I was born in the second generation of celebrities, but was rejected by my father Zhang Fengyi for being ugly. Now Zhang Boyu has counterattacked and become a male god. What do you think?

I accidentally opened Zhang Boyu’s Weibo. In my impression, he is just an ordinary actor.

The image of Fatty Wang in "Tomb Robber Notes" is too profound, but after reading some of his Weibo posts, I suddenly discovered that this low-key and unknown man is so likable.

There is a Weibo post where he wrote: "Fortunate people are healed by childhood throughout their lives, and unfortunate people are healed by childhood throughout their lives."

In the accompanying picture, he is pouting. With his mouth closed, a thumbs up, and a smile on his face, he told everyone that he was lucky and hoped everyone would be lucky.

What surprised me was how did the slovenly man in my memory become so masculine?

Looking at his subsequent posts, every one of them is very positive. The most impressive one was on November 25, when he posted a photo of himself and added a text:

"But only when you start to believe in yourself can you have a real life. - "Rocky""

A gray suit with short hair parted in the middle, a strong figure and exquisite His face shape looks very sunny. If it weren't for discovering it on his homepage, at first glance, he is really no different from Lin Gengxin.

Many fans commented that Zhang Boyu is getting more and more handsome, and they began to wonder if he had plastic surgery.

Today's Zhang Boyu, in the eyes of many people, is a complete acting god.

But no one knows what this so-called middle-aged male god has been through over the years. No one knows that this man who is now full of positive energy was once rejected by his own father for being too ugly, and he once fell into low self-esteem.

01 The Unlucky Second Generation of Stars

Everyone knows that Zhang Boyu’s biological father and mother are famous actors Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping. These two actors have been in the entertainment industry for decades. , casually speaking, there are more than a dozen works by the two of them.

As for the relationship between these two people, we have to start from the beginning. In 1981, Zhang Fengyi, who had just debuted, starred in the movie "Camel Xiangzi" and became famous. Then the next year, he was assigned to Emei Film studio. Lu Liping is 4 years younger than Zhang Fengyi. In 1984, she debuted in the first movie "Childhood Friends".

The real meeting was in the 1986 movie "Police Officer in the Year of the Dragon", in which Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping played husband and wife. What I never expected was that the two fell in love over drama. So they got married quickly and gave birth to a son, Zhang Boyu, two years later.

It can be said that the two people on the screen at that time were prosperous in their careers. However, for the sake of their children, Lu Liping chose to temporarily retire from the entertainment industry and focus on raising her husband and children at home. Anyone who has been a mother knows that taking care of children is a very hard job. There are endless chores to do every day, so they almost always dress themselves in whatever way is comfortable and convenient.

So much so that it is common for people to be unkempt at home. At this time, Zhang Fengyi was involved in the entertainment industry every day and never paid attention to his family. Because he was young and handsome, he was surrounded by actresses one after another.

So much so that when Zhang Boyu was 2 years old, Zhang Fengyi changed his mind. At that moment, Lu Liping hated Zhang Fengyi so much that she couldn't bear it and chose to divorce.

After that, Zhang Boyu followed Lu Liping even more. Three years after the divorce, Zhang Fengyi married Huo Fan, a dance teacher who was 14 years younger than herself. It is reported that this woman, like him, has been married and has a daughter. After getting together with Zhang Fengyi, the two never had children again.

At this time, Zhang Fengyi was prospering in the entertainment industry. He filmed "Farewell My Concubine" and "Peace Era" and won many awards.

But it’s different when you look at Lu Liping. In the spring of 1996, Lu Liping took her son to watch a basketball game at Xiannongtan in Beijing, where she met her second husband, the famous football player Tao Wei, and the two became "friends throughout the year." The two finally held their wedding in Los Angeles, USA.

Unfortunately, this relationship is not equal after all. One is a football player and the other is an actor on the screen. The gap is obvious. In just 5 years, this relationship broke down again.

At this time, Zhang Boyu was only 13 years old. Without his knowledge, Lu Liping divorced again.

The young Zhang Boyu encountered several family changes before he could taste the happiness of his family. All these events cast a shadow on Zhang Boyu, which was the source of his inferiority complex later on.

02 Two Dads, Two Attitudes

Although Lu Liping and Tao Wei were divorced, this year she met the man she loved most in her life. While filming the TV series "The Passionate Years", I met Sun Haiying, an actor from Shenyang Repertory Theater.

Son Haiying also has a tragic story. In 1979, he fell in love with a pharmacist and got married immediately. The following year, he gave birth to his son. They originally thought they were a happy family of three. However, when the child was 2 years old, he fell down and broke his brain, causing him to be paralyzed and incontinent. For Sun Haiying and his wife, this is undoubtedly terrible news.

Faced with her paralyzed son, the wife was in great pain. She couldn't bear to see the child in pain and couldn't help the torment of her soul, so she left a letter and left. From then on, Sun Haiying and her son depended on each other.

Unfortunately, one day in 1995, the child had convulsions almost every minute. Sun Haiying, who was filming in Xinjiang, rushed back without stopping, but after seeing her son for the last time, his son also left.

At that moment, Sun Haiying was heartbroken and could not let go for a long time. She kept blaming herself. So much so that for 5 years, he never thought about getting into another relationship.

Until they met Lu Liping, perhaps due to the same experience between the two, the two quickly became inseparable. In 2002, the two registered their marriage in Shenyang.

Since then, Zhang Boyu has another father, Sun Haiying. But this "Dad" made Sun Haiying wait for 12 years.

Because Sun Haiying was alone and had experienced the pain of losing his wife and son, he regarded Lu Liping, mother and son as more important than his own life. 13-year-old Zhang Boyu has already understood certain things. Coupled with his youthful rebellious period, he was unable to accept Sun Haiying for a long time.

But Sun Haiying didn't care. As long as Zhang Boyu wanted something, Sun Haiying would never say "no".

Sun Haiying once said: "My love for Zhang Boyu is a kind of responsibility, a kind of giving without asking for anything in return. I don't even care whether he calls me daddy."

Looking at my biological father. Zhang Fengyi never asked Zhang Boyu about him since he was a child. He would rather buy a Lamborghini for the daughter of his second wife than give any love to Zhang Boyu.

The most distressing thing is that after Zhang Boyu graduated from junior high school and went to study acting, Zhang Fengyi became furious and said: "If you want to do this, don't call me again in the future."

Zhang Fengyi relied on his son to say that he was not suitable for acting because his image was too ugly.

What’s even more puzzling is that on the day of Zhang Boyu’s wedding, his biological father Zhang Fengyi was not present. He didn’t come to such an important occasion. Was it because he didn’t want to lose face or because he didn’t want to recognize his son?

03 Two Dads in the Son’s Heart

Perhaps many people will think that Zhang Boyu’s choice should be obvious when faced with two fathers. But in Zhang Boyu's heart, he is very happy to have two fathers.

On Father's Day one year, Zhang Boyu published a long article thanking his biological father Zhang Fengyi and stepfather Sun Haiying.

For his biological father Zhang Fengyi, Zhang Boyu wrote: "If you want to blame any party, it means you are not thinking, speaking or commenting from my perspective."

Zhang Boyu also said that everyone around me is so appropriate.

The implication is that the relationship between Zhang Boyu and his biological father Zhang Fengyi is not as inconsistent as outsiders say.

Zhang Boyu also revealed that he once called Zhang Fengyi when he was drunk. He was restrained and mustered up the courage to tell his true feelings. This time he got a response from Zhang Fengyi. This is the second time in many years. It was the first time people interacted with each other so affectionately.

In fact, there are many misunderstandings about Zhang Fengyi's behavior as a biological father. At that time, Zhang Fengyi said that he was not suitable for acting, and he hoped that he could study more. At the very least, you have to go to high school. How can you study acting right after you graduate from junior high school?

Speaking of not attending Zhang Boyu’s wedding, there are two reasons. One is that when Zhang Boyu got married, Zhang Fengyi suggested that he keep a low profile and set up one or two tables for relatives to gather together. As a result, the wedding Sun Haiying managed the whole process and hosted 27 tables. This also made Zhang Fengyi, who had always been low-key, unhappy.

Another reason is that Zhang Fengyi is well aware of his relationship with Sun Haiying and Lu Liping. If he also attends, not to mention how unhappy Lu Liping will be, even outsiders will not know how to talk about it. It must be very embarrassing. Moreover, Zhang Fengyi generally does not attend other people's weddings. According to him, all the weddings he attended ended up getting divorced. Although he was a bit superstitious, it was all for the good of his children.

Looking at stepfather Sun Haiying. Zhang Boyu commented: "When I was at my lowest point and my heart was at its hardest, his few words could always soften and comfort me like a clear spring. He gave me exactly what I wanted in his position."

This stepfather loves Zhang Boyu as much as he treats his own son, giving him all his love. Even when there were rumors that Zhang Boyu and Zhang Fengyi were not getting along, Sun Haiying stood up to speak for him: " Zhang Boyu is a very filial son and has a very good relationship with his father, Zhang Fengyi, and my stepfather.”

Speaking of Sun Haiying, he can really be said to be the greatest father in the world, selfless. No desires or desires.

04 From low self-esteem to a male god

Because of his different experiences from ordinary people since childhood, even though Zhang Boyu was born in the second generation of celebrities, he did not feel so happy. Life always creates problems for him, and he has to accept so many complicated things at his most ignorant age.

So much so that he has had a very low self-esteem since he was a child, especially when facing his father Zhang Fengyi, who was always "harsh", "dissatisfied" and "strict". In addition, she is not very good-looking and a little chubby. In terms of image, she really cannot keep up with her father Zhang Fengyi.

Someone once said bluntly after the two had a dispute: "You are nothing like your dad, you are really embarrassing to your dad!" So for a long time, he suffered from extremely low self-esteem.

Fortunately, he has a strict biological father Zhang Fengyi, an amiable stepfather Sun Haiying, and a loving mother Lu Liping. The three of them are all artists of the older generation and have given Zhang Boyu great confidence in many things.

Teach him how to behave, teach him how to act, teach him how to become confident.

Over the years, Zhang Boyu has been adhering to the low-key style of two fathers, focusing on filming, and has begun to gain color on the screen.

Whether it is Captain Cao Wu in "The Legend of Chu and Han", Chen Guoying in "The Blood Talisman of Life and Death", or Fatty Wang in "Tomb Robbers Notes", and now Ma in "The Land of Hope" Hao.

Zhang Boyu has always persisted and worked hard to dedicate his best to everyone. Although it is far out of reach compared to two dads. But he always maintained a progressive heart.

Let yourself become more stable and better.

Looking at Zhang Boyu now, he is no longer too ugly as Zhang Fengyi thought, but has slowly turned into a male god. The most important thing is his state of mind. He no longer feels inferior. He is full of positive energy and always sticks to himself.

As he wrote on Weibo:

Human beings are both frailer and stronger than they imagine. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears with just one sentence. Sometimes, I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way.

—— Maupassant "A Life".