How old does a normal man need to be to get married?

Speaking of how old is the best age to get married? What age is the best person to marry? There is no exact answer to these questions. At least with the development of society, the progress of the times, and the different living areas, the answer will change. For example, in ancient times, when the population was small, rulers encouraged early birth and childbearing in order to increase the population and enhance national strength. At that time, girls got married and had children at the age of 16, or even earlier. Those who were unmarried after the age of 20 were considered old girls. At that time, boys got married when they were about seventeen or eighteen years old. However, things are different now. Society has developed and the population is too large. It is too late to implement family planning, let alone early birth and childbearing. Now, generally speaking, the larger and medium-sized cities are, the later they get married. It is normal for men to be 34 or 35 years old, and there are also many women who are unmarried in their 30s. Moreover, the more developed countries get married later, the average marriage in Britain and the United States is much later than in my country, and more and more people choose not to get married. The more backward regions or countries, such as rural areas, get married relatively early. As far as we know, most rural boys get married at the age of 18, and they like to find a 20-year-old girl to marry who can help with farm work. It can be seen that different regions, different countries, and different eras have different requirements for the age of marriage. Considering that most of the readers of this article are urbanites, we will discuss today: What is the appropriate age for young people to get married in contemporary cities in my country? What is the best age to choose a partner? Speaking of this issue, maybe the traditional view is that men and women are 25 or 26 years old, and it is best for men to be 1 or 2 years older than women. In fact, the traditional view may not be correct. For thousands of years, everyone thought that the earth was flat and that it was carried on the back of a turtle. Whether something is right or not can only be known through careful consideration and practice. Survey research shows that in modern times, in large and medium-sized cities in my country, it is more appropriate for a girl to marry a man aged 32 to 35 between the ages of 24 and 25. In other words, it is best for girls to get married before the age of 25. It is appropriate to marry a man who is 5 to 14 years older than you. If a girl does not marry herself off as soon as possible when she is 25 years old (26 years old at the latest), then it will be more difficult for her to marry well in the future. But boys are fine. As the saying goes, "a man is like a tweed at 40" and "a woman is a piece of shit at 40." Nowadays, more and more boys are born in big cities, and most of them get married after the age of 30. There are many reasons why I say this. Let me talk about it further: Reason 1: Judging from the changes in appearance and body shape of men and women, girls are generally older than 25 years old, and they are getting older and weaker day by day, and the speed is very fast. It seems a bit old. Women are like the moon, which reaches its full moon at the age of 25. Why do girls age so quickly? In addition to genes, it is also because women have their period once a month and lose their body's essence over time. Boys are different. Boys grow and develop more slowly than girls since childhood. They don't start to decline until they are about 30 years old, and the rate is much slower than that of girls. A eldest sister in her 50s said that when she was 20 years old, she fell in love with a man who was 16 years older than her. Later, her parents said that the age gap was too big and it didn't work out. But 30 years later, she said that the man looked younger than her. . As the saying goes, "women can live without aging, and men can age without aging." This sentence fully illustrates the physiological differences between men and women. We say that boys are at least 5 years older than girls. This is the truth. The maximum difference of 14 years is a psychologically acceptable range, but the optimal difference is about 9 years. I will talk about the reasons below. Reason 2: From the perspective of genetics and the birth of offspring, the health of the offspring mainly depends on the mother, because the baby has to grow in the mother's body, and the intelligence of the offspring mainly depends on the father. This is genetic. Young mothers ensure healthy offspring, while only older fathers have a greater chance of smart offspring. It is also due to the physiological differences between men and women. A woman's IQ basically stops growing when she reaches the age of 18. This is why many older women still look naive. Men are different. Men develop later than women, but men’s IQ development is constantly growing, a bit like endless. The older they get, the smarter they appear. What we mean by smart is not a good memory, but a strong ability to analyze and solve problems. Modern scientific research believes that the IQ of offspring is mainly inherited from the father.

This is exactly the opposite of boys. It is easier for boys to find jobs if they are highly educated. There is no way, men and women are just different, different in every aspect. Therefore, when people live in this world, the most important thing is to understand the situation clearly and not to make subjective assumptions. Some parents don’t understand anything, so they tell their daughters to continue studying, as high as they can go, and as good as they can get. At the end of their studies, they are getting older, and they can’t find a job or a husband. Here, this life is over. It may be a good thing for national development, but it may be a tragedy for oneself.