Please make sure that you have really worked hard on prose before giving up.

I only think of myself before. I spent my last penny on the bus and brought two big boxes heavier than me. The mobile phone is dead, and Cary has no money, which is seven kilometers away from her residence. Walking all the way with the box, the wheels went on strike halfway, so I had to stop and drag. Singing "What does his pain mean in the wind and rain?" I beat my own blood and looked at the long road ahead.

Sometimes I feel that Beijing is so big that it still can't accommodate many people's dreams. Why drift? Probably just to return to China in rags, probably just to prove myself that I can take root in another city and stop wandering.

I have been running around for the project recently and met too many people. 1980 There was a buddy drifting north. Floating in the animal year, I suddenly patted my head and shouted: I am 36 years old.

I asked him, do you like Beijing? He shook his head and said he didn't like it, but he was used to it, just relying on it, relying on the so-called free air here. You can see countless people who have their own faces. You don't know what their stories are, but you won't criticize anything. We don't have to be forced to date, we can still talk about so-called dreams.

Sometimes I think, why do we choose big cities?

Finally, one day I understood, admit it, it was for my own ambition. You want a different life, you just want violence, you just want to toss, you just want to tell yourself that being young is nothing. So you fell down, so you were frustrated, so your values were shattered, and only one thing remained to support you: you are still young and unwilling.

We are in our twenties, and young age is probably our only capital.

Can hard work really achieve everything?

I want to tell you, yes.

But sometimes the truth is so cruel that you just can't do it.

There are pyramids in this world, and at the top of every industry, almost all people who are naturally suitable for this industry stand. In the words of our profession, this is called God's reward for your food.

So you come into contact with unfairness, and sometimes you comfort yourself that the world may still be fair. When you grow up, you finally admit that the world is unfair. Someone can pay 80 points and get 150 points; And you have to work hard for 200 points to get the result of 150. Just like when you were a student, when you did a geometry problem, others could work out the answer at a glance, but you took a big turn and found that you just didn't think of drawing a center line on the map.

You are finally enlightened, and others have already gone ahead.

With the same efforts, others are happy, and you only have yourself. So many people ask me, then why should we work hard?

Why work hard? Surprisingly, most people who ask this question don't really work hard for it. I have seen many people say they want to write a book, but they can't even think of sitting in front of the computer for three hours. I heard that many people want to do projects, but they don't even want to do some in-depth understanding beforehand; I met many people who were going to give a speech the next day, and didn't even do a PPT. Then they complain, then they complain, and finally they don't even know what they are complaining about.

Strangely, people can always reach a certain position in a field after hard work. Only they know whether this position is satisfactory to all parties. Hard work can't accomplish everything, it can only tell you the farthest you can go.

But isn't that life? There is always a certain point in life, and after you get through it, you find that life suddenly improves. Maybe it's your luck, but more importantly, you finally opened the door for yourself.

Many people didn't even walk to that door, but you did. You can finally say to yourself, yes, I can live in a city, and I won't starve anywhere after that.

This is the meaning of hard work. Leave the rest to time.

I have a good friend. The girl gets up early and gets greedy for the dark every day, but she doesn't get enough sleep every day, but she still dresses herself up so that no one can see her fatigue. Yesterday, she had acute gastroenteritis. She gritted her teeth and went to the hospital without letting anyone know. I happened to go to her house and saw the medicine she took.

I said, what a coincidence, I had the same problem. My friend smiled and said to me, hello, patient, long live the patient.

Walking in the world, everyone with a wound, like a soldier, passes through thorns and puts armor on his heart. From then on, he was invulnerable until he really met that person and completely surrendered.

In fact, while you envy others, you might as well look at yourself. Will people keep saying that your life is really good? It's nourishing to see your photos. However, no one knows that you are busy until three o'clock in the morning and have to get up the next morning. Someone sees your puffy eyes and asks you what's wrong. You thought you had found a savior and wanted to talk about it, but after a few words, there was nothing to say.

But at least, you are not walking a tightrope alone. One day, we will meet, smile at each other, encourage each other, and then go our separate ways.

You're not the only freak in this city. Because me too.

I have met some people who work from nine to five and sometimes have to work overtime, but they can make their lives very interesting. They have their own hobbies and are not afraid of loneliness; They have their own life circle and often get together; They have their own insistence, even if no one cares. I admire everyone who can find pleasure in a quiet life. There is no idle life, only an idle attitude towards life. Poor heart, living in 10 thousand places is the same.

Over time, we will eventually become rich or pale because of hard work or degradation. Don't wait until you finally meet the person you like, only to find yourself so pale.

In your twenties, you have nothing, but you have a future.

In our twenties, we are all anxious, running and afraid of going the wrong way.

This is our twenties, bitter and struggling, but also lucky; Simple, idealistic, but also know some truth; Stumbling, stumbling, sometimes black and blue, but not ready to give up.

Go back to my sophomore year and talk about some of my experiences.

Sophomore summer vacation, the first venture failed, no money. I didn't go back to my hometown and stayed in Beijing. I work as a handyman in the kitchen of a small restaurant in Tucheng Road, southwest of Dazhong Temple, because working in the restaurant can control my eating and drinking. At that time, I hardly had money to eat. At first, I agreed to pay 900 yuan every month until school started. Do everything every day, wash dishes, do odd jobs and deliver vegetables.

The boss is from the northeast, a big one. School is about to start, so go to the boss's wife to settle the salary. People threw me a sentence: if you leave suddenly now, you will tear down the hotel. No salary. The University of Political Science and Law is across the street, behind which is the police station. You can sue where you are in love, or you can call the police and take me away. No salary!

After listening to her fluently finish this sentence, I know that people have already prepared these words, and maybe there was no shortage of summer jobs for students before. Hehe, I am a fish-killing cook. If I quit, I can tear down your hotel. You flatter me!

I left without saying anything.

I didn't go back to school I went to the hardware local products store in the market and spent more than 30 yuan to buy a big black chain with thick arms and a dark ordinary iron lock. 1 1 half past one in the morning, when the hotel started to invite guests, I went back to the hotel, closed the big glass door of the hotel, put a chain on the door handle and locked the big lock. Let's work together!

The boss and proprietress stood at the door and scolded me angrily. I ignored them, smoked cigarettes and learned from them. I either called the police to take me away, beat me away or paid my salary. At this time, many people have gathered outside to watch the fun and ask me what's going on. I said I would work for two months for free.

There were more and more people around, and applause rang out from the crowd. My former colleague quietly gave me a thumbs-up at the door. Finally, the boss gave me 1800 through the door. I opened the iron lock, pulled out the chain and turned away. I see the boss's face is gray. Go back to the local product store and say that the chain and lock are not suitable. Just return it to 30 yuan.

From then on, I learned that people are always cheap animals. Walking in the Jianghu, you must drag it! As long as you are weak, you will be discriminated against and despised in any corner. I think poverty is not a state, but a state of mind.

People, more rogue temper, less down and out! Why do villains succeed and gentlemen fail? Once humble, there will never be a bright future. Children don't mix well in society because their parents inherit too many inferiority complex genes.

Seeing a lot of people kneeling on the internet begging for opinions, I just want to say that this is a joke! Kneel down and you will never get justice and fairness. Kneeling will never get pity, and Americans will definitely not kneel when they protest. Great men are great because we are all kneeling.

Since then, no matter how poor I am, I have never worked. In Qingdao, I lost everything in stock trading. I'd rather pick up rubbish than work. That is, the days when I slept in the park to collect junk, let me thoroughly understand the world and human nature.

I wonder if anyone is watching.

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Someone asked how the landlord is now. Tell me about yourself.

I am 32 years old. I have a suite and two cars in my own city, and my career is in an explosive growth stage. But when I was studying, my grades were only above average. Usually, if you don't study hard, you will soon take a surprise exam, which often gives the class teacher a headache and likes to make trouble. For example, during the SARS period, the whole school was closed, and several buddies and I climbed up the barbed wire to play games. As a result, we were caught by the school doorman when we came back. It's not that I like to show off, but that I'm tired of the same life in my bones!

I attended several class reunions and didn't want to go, but the old monitor called and had to give face. At the party, I found a rule that the students who used to be honest and obedient basically didn't get along well, and stayed in a certain unit in a certain city with a fixed salary of several thousand yuan a month; In the past, those who caused a little trouble and made the class teacher have a headache, and those who were more active in thought basically got along well in society. Having a house and a car is the minimum, and they are generally bosses who can control others. In other words, people who used to be too honest usually work for people who love to toss their brains and have flexible minds.

A few years ago, I worked in a good company with a monthly salary of 1 10,000, which is not bad in the eyes of my friends and classmates, but the monthly salary is not enough for the house price of one square meter. So, I'm tired of fidgeting again ... my family background is not very good, and we can't be rich second generation. Through our own tossing, there is still hope to be a rich second generation father. The prince and the prince will be together. What kind of people would you rather have? It is based on such a reluctance to be dull that I am now.

It took four years for bamboo to grow 3 cm, but in the fifth year it grew wildly at a rate of 30 cm per day. It only took six weeks to grow 15 meters. In fact, in the previous four years, the roots of bamboo have extended hundreds of square meters in the soil. The same is true of being a man and doing things. You don't have to worry that your efforts at the moment will not be rewarded, because these efforts are all for taking root. When the time is right, you will climb the unattainable peak! Life needs to be reserved-how many people can't live in that 3 cm.

I didn't write this passage, so I posted it to you because I like it. Please don't be surprised if you see something familiar. )

Now I seldom refute anything, because I can't get anything from refutation. If the other person asks me for advice, I will talk about my own ideas for his reference. If the other person wants to give me advice and lectures, I will listen patiently. I seldom refute anything now, but every day I deeply reflect on what I can learn from others and absorb. With excellent people, you will become better and birds of a feather flock together.

The so-called growth means that you can accept yourself now more and more, get along better with yourself who is lonely, lost and frustrated, then accept it and face it. Everyone will be down sometimes, but don't let it affect you, just be yourself you like better and meet someone who doesn't need to please.

When the mentality changes, the scenery in front of you changes, even the mobile phone used in your pocket changes. I used to use apples when I had no money, but now I have some money. I use the old Nokia, and the new one can't reach 300 yuan. It can be used normally without charging for three days. I feel that this mobile phone is better than Apple. ...

When I was a child, my parents often told me that money is hard to earn and shit tastes bad. People who are really rich are all related to their background. There is nothing in our family. You should study hard and find a good job to support yourself. Don't expect us. We are incompetent. During my time at home, my life was always poor. I didn't succeed until I left my parents. My idea: If our parents are poor, there is no need to listen to them. If we listen to them, we can only go their way. They failed. Did we catch up? Some things are meaningless if you think too much. Many difficulties are in our imagination, some things, one day we really did it, and found that the so-called pain and suffering are the results of our own stupid fantasies.

Why do people lack ambition? Just because people are poor, you can't make long-term plans when considering anything. In order to make a living, they have to think about how to make money to eat and how to make money for their children to study every day, and they have no time to think about other things at all. I don't have the capital to get in touch with some new things, such as attending business parties and traveling, which used to be very common daily consumption, but they are luxury goods for the poor, which is really sad. Where our time is spent, our value is there. If you just watch TV or push for ten years, why is there amazing income? ! If we just recharge our batteries and train leadership crazily in this decade, what kind of attitude will life show us? ! Ten years to sharpen a sword, we believe that we can create miracles. ...