It feels like losing something very important and forgetting what it is.

It is said that people in love are poets, and people in love have zero IQ. Sometimes it's true. When a person is in love, it is very different from when he is not in love. It will change many things, both external and internal. Some things have grown up, but some things have to be discarded. What can you get if you don't give up? Let me talk about things that should be discarded in love. What you want to throw away in love 1, something related to old love. There is an idiom called "thinking about people when seeing things". Some people like to leave or collect things from their ex-lovers, which will make people often miss the past, compare and influence the present relationship, and give the other party an impression of not forgetting the old feelings and being single-minded. Remember, there is no tomorrow if you can't let go of the past. Throw it away decisively. 2, on behalf of a single decoration. Single bedside table, single person sofa chair, etc. These are all single items in the single era. After falling in love, you should change it as soon as possible. Pairing is more conducive to entering the marriage hall as soon as possible 3. Over-personalized items. Nowadays, young people like to show their personality. Many people will keep some personal items in their rooms, but not too many or too non-mainstream. Personality is too unique to be close to, and it will lead to emotional alienation over time. 4. Too childish things. Some young people, especially girls, like to put some childish dolls or decorations in their rooms. Some items or clothes used in daily life are also full of "cute" spirit, which can reflect the cute side of women, but too much will make people feel immature and unpretentious. 5. Something that gives people a feeling. Some sharp objects or plants and decorations with sharp corners are easy to give people a feeling, make people feel uncomfortable, and make the feelings of both sides exert invisible pressure, so it is best to reduce such objects between two people. The above are some common items that easily affect love, but there are also some personalized problems, such as the influence of the other five elements' likes and dislikes, and so on. For another example, some couples, who have harmonious feelings outdoors, are easy to quarrel and get angry when they get home. This is probably the influence of your home atmosphere, so you should make some targeted adjustments. The above is for friends' reference only, so don't copy it mechanically, which is counterproductive. Love cheats 1. 1 if single. Single men and women who want to add peach blossoms to themselves can put a peony painting or a pot of peony flowers on the right side of the living room, which will invisibly have the momentum and temperament of peony and attract the opposite sex with good conditions. It is worth noting that boys can put dragon patterns or dragon ornaments on the left side of their homes, which means that they will have the temperament and momentum of dragons and attract girls with good conditions. 2. Feng Shui for girls to increase men's popularity If female friends want to increase their men's popularity and attend friends' weddings or wedding parties, they can have fun with others and have a good mood. Men represent sunshine, so more exposure to sunshine, "birds of a feather flock together" can also increase their popularity among men! In addition, single women can also put a big mirror in the bathroom, because they can look at it every day and increase their confidence. Taking a bath with 12 petals means that 12 boys can be caught in the net! 3. The bedroom is probably the most important space to change a woman, especially when you are in love. When you are in love, make sure the bedroom is placed. For example, putting a fresh and lasting sunflower (Gerbera jamesonii) or tulip at the bedside will give you inspiration. 4. The bedroom is a place to restore the spirit, and the surrounding air will be inhaled when sleeping, so it is also important to pay attention to the cleanliness of the bedroom. Never hang a photo of another single woman in a single woman's room, which will only make her look lonely, so take it down immediately and post a photo of a couple. 6. If you want to catalyze your love fortune, you can put some candles in the southwest of the bedroom and use a red lampshade. Second, if you already have a lover or partner 1. The new layout, bedding and tables and chairs use wooden products or wooden underframe as much as possible, and use less iron; Bedspreads and chair covers are best covered with five-color mandarin duck patterns; It is best to have pictures of Yuanyang playing in the water on the bedside and double pillows. 2. Avoid the feng shui of peach blossoms. If you want to avoid peach blossoms, you can't put potted plants, empty vases and broken vases in the bedroom. And the door or the door in the room can't face the mirror directly. 3. prevent feng shui from getting involved in a love triangle. if you don't want to get involved in a love triangle, the location of the dresser at home is very important. Try to put the dresser at an oblique angle or parallel to the bed, so that the dresser will not face the bed. Moreover, it is best to lean against the wall. If you don't lean against the wall, you will lose money besides a love triangle. 4. If the two parties get together less and leave more, you can put a pair of mandarin ducks, love birds or swan ornaments in the southwest of the living room, which will help maintain a stable relationship between the two parties. The light in the bedroom should be comfortable, soft and too dark, which will easily make your love lose its luster. Too bright light tends to increase sexual friction. 6. The bed affects love, and love is not smooth. Besides, the big mirror will be suspicious of the bed. 7. The layout of the bedroom should be neat and elegant, and there should not be too many sundries, which can increase romance. Build your love nest and hide dumbbells under the bed. If you can use a lot of blue in the bedroom layout, you can give full play to the energy of water! I suggest you try your best to make your choice in curtains and sheets. A talented personality will attract many people of the opposite sex, but you always lack an opportunity to express yourself and get to know someone passively. At this time, you might as well put some sports gadgets and fitness equipment in an inconspicuous place in the room to stimulate your energy, which will have an inexplicable inspiring effect. With this decoration, you can make remarkable achievements in the magnetic field of work, the acquisition of power and the bonus points of love. Sticking photos with friends on the wall can help your feelings and interpersonal relationships to be smoother. You might as well post photos with friends, colleagues, etc. On one wall of the room, it can not only increase topics, but also increase interaction. In terms of lamps, don't choose a single lamp, try to choose one with many light bulbs around. When choosing the pattern of bed sheets or table towels, don't consider plain fabrics. Try to choose lively and rich patterns, including striking houndstooth patterns and human patterns, which are all made by the strength of everyone, so that wealth will be more prosperous, career will be more open-minded, and love will be smoother because of extensive contacts. White is the lucky color of love, and it has the characteristics of pursuing perfection. People with this personality often have a certain cleanliness addiction, so in addition to spotless rooms, they should also have clean windows, and the requirements for the environment should not be a little dirty, otherwise they will form spiritual inexplicable boredom. Using more gold elements can help your emotional fortune better! Therefore, the main use is "golden" white and beige floors, walls, home appliances, soft beige fluorescent lamps and so on. This pure and perfect image can not only make you feel refreshed, but also make it easy to get married. The only thing to note is that it is best not to have dead ends in the room. If it is really unavoidable, it is best to fill it with lockers or other items, because the dead angle belongs to the earth on the five elements, and the earth and water will be greatly unfavorable to you who are the love star and the moon star. If gold can enhance the energy of love, it can not only help you increase the opposite sex, but also bring wealth invisibly! You can use gold-plated edges or pressed gold bars, gold things or furniture, or white sheets and curtains. In the choice of lighting, it is suggested to choose fluorescent lamp, whose white light will promote the aura of gold. See if the floor of your room is made of wood. The wooden floor will weaken the energy of gold, destroy the fortune of love and bring many twists and turns to your love. It is suggested to use marble, ceramic tiles and other materials similar to the earth to enhance the golden atmosphere, which has the function of stabilizing and calming people's hearts, invisibly dissolving tension and pressure, and can help you develop love and have a worry-free fortune! Big is beautiful. Feng shui study is best based on grandeur and style. In terms of decorative materials, you can use more gorgeous porcelain and stone carvings, or put some crystal decorations in front of the table, which is of magnificent significance. Stone can best set off the noble characteristics of Wei Zi. Interior decoration should be as simple as possible. It is best to avoid complicated or excessively rich patterns in the choice of sheets and curtains. It's best to keep the principle of "big is beautiful" and use more plain color blocks to help you be more confident and invincible in love! Lace makes you more attractive to the opposite sex. The most indispensable decorative patterns are bookcases, bookshelves, calligraphy and painting works on the wall, etc. You can cultivate your bookish spirit invisibly. As for the colors and styles of sheets, curtains and carpets, we should choose white and beige, but we can add some lace designs to strengthen women's feminine characteristics, which will help our thinking to be more stable and clear. "Dot" is also a kind of Dolly. You may wish to choose a circular dot pattern, which will add points to love and study! What you want to avoid is the feeling of some monitors with large color contrast and too bright tone. Remember to keep them clean. A messy nest will make your charm fail! Don't forget the layout style of small potted plants. You may wish to use some religious elements flexibly, such as oriental wood carvings, totem curtains, crosses of western religions, statues of the Virgin Mary, etc. Can bring you inner peace and strengthen the charm of love. Some favorite potted plants and plants can be placed by the window of the room; In the choice of carpets and sheets, straight stripes are the best choice, while in the curtain part, pay attention to avoid using curtains that pull up and down, such as roman blinds or blinds. Xiao Ka has made great contributions in many circles of friends, and it is always difficult to meet someone who suits him. At this time, in addition to good relations, we should also know how to attract the favor of the opposite sex with the gentle charm of girls. Basically, blue, purple and gray can be used as the basic colors of shading. The patterns of bed groups such as sheets and pillows can be chains, plates, people gathering, etc., including the patterns of thousands of birds and human figures, all of which have the meaning of power. Use birthday gifts, postcards and small cards sent by friends as decorations. On the one hand, they can be used as souvenirs, on the other hand, they can catalyze your heterosexual relationship invisibly. Don't use small items with feminine characteristics. Full of earthy flavor, it is most suitable for elders and nobles to give you guidance in love and even bring you a good marriage! You can choose beige, yellow and orange as the main colors of the bedroom. Stone is the best decorative material, which can increase the energy of the earth. The floor should avoid wooden materials, ceramic tiles or traditional floor tiles are the best, and beige and yellow are the best. The shape of the lighting should be as flat as possible, and be careful not to have any totem or bronzing on it. Constantly changing and creating a beautiful marriage can refer to the description of smart number 2 in the layout of lying. In addition, because of its lively and enthusiastic characteristics, your kind temperament enables you to get along with others and you can have a good heart-to-heart relationship. If you want to promote the opposite sex, you have to go out more than lying down! Outward development can not only bring opportunities to make good relationships, but also the opportunities created by your running around. Tip: No matter good luck or bad luck, don't be happy or discouraged. It is bad luck to enjoy all the blessings. In the past, good luck and good deeds were the basis of good luck.