What is the most chilling thing your mother-in-law did?

In p>15 years, she had a cataract surgery and was recuperated in my home. Before that, we didn't have much contact. After getting married, she stayed at the place where her father worked for a month and got pregnant, and then she went back to her parents' home. From the birth to the hospital, from pregnancy to birth to discharge, no one in her husband's family called me, and no one came to see me in the hospital, so we were unfamiliar and didn't overlap. A few days after she was in my house, my baby had a fever at two o'clock one night. I was in a hurry to get the medicine. My baby cried when I left. At that time, I slept in the master bedroom, my mother-in-law slept in the guest bedroom next door, and the toilet was between the two houses. I went to the kitchen refrigerator to get a cooling sticker, just as my mother-in-law got up and went to the toilet. The child cried in the room like this, and her mother-in-law actually closed the door after going to the toilet. At first, the door was open, and there was no language communication between them.

The next day, the child still has a fever, so I'm going to beat the child to the hospital. I told my mother-in-law that I don't think I can come back to cook today. I asked her what to eat and I bought it directly, and then I took the children out. As expected, the child had to hang water, with a total of three small bottles hanging until 11: 3, when her mother-in-law called just after leaving the hospital. Asked what I was doing, I said I had just hung water for the baby, and I said I would buy something to eat and go back. The mother-in-law said, don't buy it, come back quickly! At that time, I wondered if my mother-in-law had cooked the meal. Look, I'm busy at night, too. I'm tired!

the first sentence when I opened the door at home, my mother-in-law said, your second master (father-in-law) has come from my hometown, so hurry up and cook! I'm surprised, don't you care about the child's illness at all? When I came back, I didn't want to ask my child. I can't help it. I told my child, why don't you lie in bed for a while and mom will cook something for you? I hung up the water all morning, and the child was very weak and wronged and wanted to cry. She held my leg and kept saying that I should hug her, mom hugged her, mom hugged her, and cried while I was cooking, but she still cried. After all, I had to wash and cut vegetables most of the time.

After a while, my father-in-law arrived. It was summer and the weather was very hot. He went to the room at the first time to turn on the electric fan, fanned it for a while and came out. When he saw his granddaughter sitting in the ground crying with my legs, my father-in-law came over to my daughter and said, Grandpa, will you give me a hug? It's time for my mother-in-law to talk! "So-and-so, you come here, haven't you ever heard a child cry? I'm tired of hearing children cry now! You don't fan the electric fan you drive, do you? "

I don't know how that meal ended, but I was really cold to my mother-in-law from now on! ! ! ! I'll never forget it! ! ! !

the most chilling thing about my mother-in-law is that she threatens me with death!

every family has a hard book to read!

after marriage, my mother-in-law lives with us, she helps me take care of my daughter, and my two in-laws go to work! Before I go to work, I have to buy good food and make good meat dishes. She will fry a green vegetable and cook the rice with a rice cooker. I take care of my children during the holiday at night, and I do all the cleaning at home, so she helps me look after my children for eight hours at work! Maybe people are good at being bullied! After a long time, I became a demon. Sometimes my husband and I had a little quarrel, but she pushed her son away to argue with me instead of her. I put up with it!

shortly after my husband died, she turned her emotions on me! Once I went out for a walk in the market because I had a little conflict with my husband, and I didn't come back until 12 o'clock in the evening. She waited for me at home and cursed me and told me not to come back after I left. Considering that she just lost her lover, I have to endure it!

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What I can't stand is that I learned a snack technique and made my own snack service. Because I came back late, you asked me why I went out to sell things for so long. I replied that I wanted to sell more and wait for the guests to buy more. You got angry, and said that my children were not easy to take care of, and that I was late. Then I simply called my two sons and your daughter who were still at work to go home, saying that you were going to die, and came to help her collect the body. I apologized before you called. Mom, I was wrong. I shouldn't just think about making money, not thinking about you, and I couldn't stop you from calling your son and daughter back to kill me! What is the essence of drama? It's only now that I know. If you don't want to take your grandson, you don't have to use this method. These humiliations and pains can't be said. From then on, I don't have to go to work, and I don't have to ask for help. From then on, she doesn't live with me. From then on, I also understand that a good wife and a good mother in modern society are ironic to women, so don't suffer from good woman syndrome!

every mother-in-law used to be a daughter-in-law when she was young. Under the same roof, everything is happy at home! Everyone is for this family, so why should women embarrass women?

I am an only daughter. I got married in the early days when both families agreed and looked forward to the marriage. My husband and I lived alone in my in-laws' family, and it took less than half an hour's drive back and forth in the same city.

Because my husband's financial ability was still acceptable, my parents refused to help with the children, and my own parents were still at work, so I began to be a full-time mother after I graduated from college and gave birth to children.

Although my mother-in-law began to be cold-faced and unhappy when her granddaughter was born, she asked us to go home from the hospital to take care of ourselves from the first day of my daughter's birth. I was inevitably a little flustered when I went online from a novice, but my parents often came to help, and my life was quite happy.

When my eldest daughter was two years old, her parents-in-law stopped working in her early 5 s because of a factory fire and moved in with us soon. Happy days are getting less and less.

My parents-in-law are more unruly and snobbish. First, they all dislike daily necessities, and their personalities are more exclusive and patriarchal. They basically ignore their daughters. Although they are extroverted, although they don't go to work and live with us, I am much busier and more tired than before, but because they are my husband's parents, I also feel my responsibility to take care of them. Ren

often takes her two-year-old crying daughter alone to cook the whole family's meals, waiting for her parents-in-law who go out from morning to noon to come back or waiting for them at home to play cards, giving priority to their preferences in everything and trying to make their opinions and demands as imperial edicts. After ten years, I was so confused and cautious that I could endure it anyway.

What woke me up was that my father died at that time. My mother told my husband in advance that this last ceremony was more important because I was an only daughter, and my family was too small. I didn't have any brothers and sisters to help my husband to change shifts with colleagues or take a vacation to attend a worship ceremony. My husband said yes (and finally went to worship ceremony)

I thought it was a small matter. My husband usually changed shifts or took a leave of absence for his parents-in-law's birthday or travel. My parents-in-law don't agree with my mother-in-law, who gives your mother (mother-in-law) the right to yell, and dare to ask my son (son-in-law) to do something, just don't let my son go to worship (father-in-law) Actually, I have been busy for many days. < P > My parents and I are honest and easy-going. My parents treat us very well and often take care of me, my daughter and my parents-in-law. < P > When we buy a house, My parents always lend us money for emergencies when buying a car.

My parents-in-law only care about traveling around by themselves, and we give them pocket money. The only time I borrowed money from them (it was agreed to pay it off in one month), I refused to lend us the emergency car payment (my mother-in-law agreed and my father-in-law disagreed).

My father died suddenly because of myocardial infarction. At that time, only my mother was left at home. My relatives and friends asked me and my daughter to spend more time with my mother in case she couldn't get over it.

My parents-in-law started to make trouble again. After my father died, I took my children back to my parents' house. Just three days later, my mother-in-law stressed that no one was cooking and washing dishes at home and asked me to go back to my parents' house. I didn't agree. Just seven days later, my mother-in-law mentioned it again and asked my husband to take me back. I went back. I was stupid. I was still awake. They only looked at me as a free servant. < P > What made me completely awake was that my father died a year ago and my grandmother's birthday. I took two children to prepare for a birthday party (just one meal). My mother-in-law blocked the door and said that there was no food. What would we eat at noon? I stupidly answered no. There are three kinds of fish in the refrigerator, about five or six pounds, and pig's feet, pig bones, eggs and purple lai ... There are many other kinds of vegetables. After I finished, I went down the stairs. My father-in-law actually started to chase after the stairs and beat people, yelling at you to eat a big meal, so that we didn't have to eat a big meal. My mother-in-law tried to stop me. My mother was completely stunned and angry. My father-in-law kicked her out and didn't allow her to come in.

Since then, my heart has been cold. I have treated them with sincerity for ten years, so I will not care about them. But these two things will always hurt me. It turns out that in their eyes, I am not even as good as a free servant.

My in-laws don't take care of the children, but they help brother in law bring up two! Before the Chinese New Year, the unit was busy, and the nanny had an early holiday. She wanted to send her children back to her hometown for a few days. Her mother-in-law disagreed and refused because she was busy cleaning the house. Her son is ten years old this year, and her mother-in-law has never spent a penny since childhood! Marriage is a house bought by my family. After marriage, in order to solve her son's problem of working in two cities, she gritted her teeth to buy a house in Beijing and tried to borrow some money from her in-laws to make a down payment. She refused for various reasons. Obviously, one or two million yuan was given to others for interest, and we watched helplessly as we couldn't make up the down payment. This incident became the last straw to crush me and give them up, and cut off contacts decisively! ! Selfish and mean old man's wife was also punished. They supported brother in law to do business and closed down this year. They still owed a lot of money. The loan sharks they let out were also cheated, and they couldn't get them back. brother in law's sister-in-law divorced one after another. Now, her in-laws are taking their three children, which is a pile of bad things. The older they get, the more worried they are! ! !

years ago, her nephew got married (we are not in the same place as her nephew, about three hours' drive). She arranged, "If you ask your leader for three days off, you can say that you have never asked for leave at ordinary times, and now something is wrong at home. . 。” I thought she told everyone to go back to the wedding. As a result, people said, "Let * * (my husband) drive your father back, and you will stay at home to look after the children for three days." "Go back for one day, do things for one day, and come back on the third day." Hehehe, a four-year-old who just went to kindergarten, and a one-year-old who just crawled and can't walk. . . I said I couldn't take it alone

In a couple of days, people said that I would take the small one back, and her aunt, who is older, should take it with her. . . The family went back and left me alone. . . Provided that I don't go to work on weekends. . . To show dissatisfaction. . . I didn't send my daughter back. . .

the list of similar things is endless. . .

Maybe I felt how to please her when I was in blx (I bought her a suit and 1 yuan after she first proposed to go back), but I still can't get into her home.

Now I feel that every daughter-in-law is trying to be nice to her husband's family when she first got married. None of them married for the purpose of being angry, but they live with why they don't even want to call their mother now because not every mother-in-law can stand the name of mother.

Tell me about me, in the hospital, just now. (When pregnant and having a baby, people only go to other people, and don't care about anything:) I have a side cut during childbirth, and I bleed a lot. When I sit up, I will feel dizzy. After two hours of observation in the delivery room, I will come out and lie on the bed, and my child will have a miscarriage. My husband will clean up with my mother-in-law and see that I haven't moved. My mother-in-law said that she doesn't care about her own child. There are too many other things to talk about for days.

When I moved, I took my coat and cotton-padded jacket and wrapped their clothes without telling me ... After I moved, I lost my pink cotton-padded jacket directly ... Without telling me, when I looked for clothes in winter, I didn't find them, and she simply said ... It was bought for me by my mother during the New Year when I was 12 years old ... It was a little big, but I didn't wear much at home. My mother died ... there is no such dress anymore ... I feel particularly uncomfortable ... A pink cotton-padded jacket that I cherish very much ... There are a few pink pompoms decorated, especially girls ... < P > I don't care about other things. Only when my son was one year old and just learned to walk, I accidentally got pregnant and needed to go to the hospital. At that time, I pulled my child's waist for a day as if it were broken. Besides, my husband was earning money alone at home. Finally, my husband stopped for a week, taking care of me and taking care of the children. From then on, I really remembered

One time when I came home from work, it happened that a guest at home was drinking with my husband in the restaurant. I said hello and went back to my room to change clothes. When I went to dinner, I heard her husband say, "You feel uncomfortable that Xiao Zhang and I are not fighting, don't you?" . This sentence really enlightened me. This word may not be appropriate here, but it really made me understand the bumpy life of my husband and wife for more than 2 years. My heart, I've been wronged for so many years, and I've been much nicer to my in-laws than to my parents, because my parents said, It doesn't matter what you do to us, others won't say anything, but you must be nicer to your in-laws in all aspects, so others won't say you're unfilial, so I've been careful not to do that well, but my husband still finds fault from time to time. At that time, he is afraid of quarreling when he gets off work. This time I finally understood that the original root is here.

Our mother-in-law has done so many chilling things that she doesn't want to go again. It's very sad to think about bringing up the old things. Some people may not believe that there is such a mother-in-law, but some elderly people have developed their character. She is the kind of person who is very strong, has no way to change, and has no wisdom, so you can't convince him. The generation gap people talk about is not caused by age, but by personality. Although some old people are there, they will cater to this modern society, and some ideas of catering to this young man will change. Some people just keep thinking that although it's 199, he will still look at the problem with that old idea from the 196s and 197s to the 195s and 196s. Just like our mother-in-law, when I have a baby and have no milk, my husband will buy some fish, chickens and pigeons. Our mother-in-law will say, "People used to eat everything, but they still have milk without eating anything." It's no use eating this and that all day. " I'm really uncomfortable to hear him say that, but what can you do? At that time, it was still a caesarean section. Even if it was not for the children to drink milk, it was appropriate to make up the body, but