Knowing that I gave the bride price money to my parents, my husband turned against me. What should I do?

Your husband's falling out is a sign that many people will have.

Every place is probably so particular about marriage. Before marriage, the man must prepare the bride price, and then get the consent of the woman before the marriage relationship between the two sides can be determined.

The bride price varies from place to place. Some places are many, and some places are few. No matter how much, if there is true love between men and women, the amount of bride price can't stop two people from going to the wedding auditorium.

Of course, there are also some people who care too much about face. In order to win a sigh of relief, they have to raise the gift money very high, which leads to the breakdown of the relationship between the two families and eventually leads to the wedding jam, and the two have no chance to hold hands.

Therefore, no matter how you look at it, bride price money is a very sensitive topic.

In some families, the man gave a bride price, and after the woman accepted it, the man didn't ask them what to do with the money. As a woman's family, after receiving the bride price money, the way to deal with it is different.

Some families will return the money to their daughters after receiving the bride price money. After all, the newly formed family will have to live in the future. Some people, after receiving the bride price money, will accept it, thinking that they deserve it. After all, they have raised their daughter for more than 20 years and married someone else.

Of course, the bride price money was given to her mother's family, and her husband turned against her. This is not the only one who has encountered such a thing. I am a married person, and I have encountered such embarrassment.

Of course, when we got married, the bride price was not much, but it had nothing to do with the amount of gift money. As a daughter-in-law, you can talk about where the money goes. After the money is given, I don't know where I went, and both sides are inevitably unhappy.

I didn't even dare to ask about the gift money for my husband's family at that time. This is a very sensitive topic. It seems that whenever this topic is touched, two people will have a big fight.

I think my wife is really not good enough at this point. The money was left by herself or given to her family. Just let me know, it's understandable, and I probably won't care. However, she didn't mean to say it, so I don't know which song she sang.

Looking at social news now, many people are deadlocked because of the whereabouts of bride price money. Some families often ask for hundreds of thousands of bride price money, and if the man can't take it out, the woman's family will also make things difficult. After the man took it out, the money was taken away by the woman's parents and used elsewhere.

This is the case with one of our neighbors. My daughter asked for many gifts. After they got the money, they didn't give it to their daughters, but to their sons and wives. As a man, it's hard not to be angry.

According to the old custom, the woman has the right to dispose of the gift money and spend it wherever she wants. This is their right. Even if the man feels wrong, there is nothing he can do. However, because many parents become more reasonable and want their children to live a better life, they usually return the money to their children.

No matter who the bride price money is finally given to, I don't think we should be offended by this matter. If money is gone, you can earn again, and once feelings are gone, it is difficult to recover.