Ten gold standards for men to choose their spouses.

1, virtuous, this is an eternal female virtue. 2. The most important quality of a woman should be kindness, and all virtues are filial first. I wonder, how many men with bad karma are suffering from the splint between their daughter-in-law and their biological mothers? 3. Knowing books and manners is the requirement for women to keep pace with the times in the new era. Women's temperament and upbringing are the inspiration to enrich their hearts, and also the place to really distance themselves from others. 4. Have a stable income. Only when women live independently of men can they be independent and self-respecting. 5. Innocence is a bit childlike. If a man really likes a woman, he should take care of her innocence to the greatest extent. A woman who has not lost her childlike interest can make her long and boring eyes enjoy it relatively. 6. sensible. The most important thing for a man is dignity. She can attack me at home, but she cannot satirize or laugh at me in public. A woman who doesn't know how to protect her husband's dignity doesn't matter. 7. Reject luxury and don't be too enthusiastic about the opposite sex. She has a good habit of living. Smoking and drinking all night will not happen to her, nor will she kill time in bars and nightclubs. She knows that her value is not to please the opposite sex, so she won't take the initiative to talk to other men. It's Chun Xue. 8. Complete trust and relative freedom. In fact, it is human instinct to like the new and hate the old. No one can guarantee that he will only have a crush on one person in his life. I advise all women who are going to get married to study the knowledge of health psychology, fully understand their husbands' hobbies of staring at beautiful women in pictorial and web pages, and don't be picky because of these subconscious behaviors. Otherwise, it will push the marriage to death. He wanted to be alone for a while without asking questions, so he took a cup of tea and closed the door gently. 9. There is not much material desire. This is very important! From frugality to luxury since ancient times. Besides, her complacent and optimistic nature enabled her to continue her youth. Excessive vanity often makes men who are not "rich" nervous and even at a loss. My daughter-in-law should be able to ride a BMW and a bicycle; Stay in a five-star hotel, don't dislike camping tents, and suffer a little to be the host. 10, thoughtful and tasteful. Thinking made her disdain to interfere in other people's gossip. She has always been an insulator. Good taste enables her to express her style creatively. I can't stand that my wife can't walk when she sees anything. It's not that I'm poor and don't like her! Ten golden standards for men to choose a spouse II. A relatively simple and beautiful girl. Most boys believe in their eyes. If a beautiful girl can attract their eyes, she will be deeply attracted. If a beautiful girl can leave a pleasing, relaxed and happy first impression on boys, it will inspire boys' hazy and persistent love, and perhaps it will also inspire boys' extraordinary courage and become a princess forever in boys' minds. Second, a smart girl is very intelligent in speaking. If a girl's wise performance can make boys change their view that most girls are cold "ice beauties" and attract others' recognition with her wise talk, then a girl with wise talk and wise thoughts, with her clever talk and supercilious wisdom, will definitely make boys feel good and completely impressed. Third, a sunny girl with a cheerful personality. Boys like girls' easy-going and cheerful personality, can have the same language and similar hobbies, can have good standards of making friends and social restraint, and can bring and infect friends and colleagues around them with the sunny side of their own personality. Such a girl will become the focus of attention, and the boys around her will willingly become bees around you. Fourth, the rich knowledge girl. Unlike in the old days, when judging women by the standard of "women without talent are virtuous", modern society mostly requires girls to have relatively rich connotations and relatively open modern knowledge. Similarly, boys are rarely willing to marry a girl with a big chest and no brain to go home. After all, most boys still like girls who are rich in connotation and can face the society calmly. Fifth, an intellectual girl with a little knowledge of the world. Girls with tolerance and a little worldly wisdom are generally popular girls. Boys like girls who care about themselves, girls who can talk and laugh with themselves at rest, girls who can give themselves face in public, girls who can maintain their boyfriend's image among friends, and girls who can make a little noise in their own world. Six, a healthy girl who loves life. A healthy girl who loves life is the goal pursued by all boys, and it is also the type that all prospective mother-in-law especially likes. Because they love life, attach importance to family, have a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, treat people with generosity, and their health is beneficial to future generations. Therefore, boys especially like girls with healthy body and healthy personality. Girls who are filial to their elders. Children nowadays are mostly self-centered. If they can always think of others, or often put themselves in others' shoes, then they are definitely the type that boys like, especially girls who have the traditional virtues of China women and can honor their elders, and they are the objects that boys dream of. Eight, girls with temperament and ability. Being able to do a certain degree in her career and be competent in her own work, as long as she is not a "workaholic" and can properly handle the relationship between work and life and the relationship between family and work unit, it shows that she has unique coordination ability. Such girls are also the objects that some boys are keen to pursue. Nine, ordinary girls who love their families. Girls who play crazy are discouraged by most boys, especially girls who don't even go home, or girls who don't have strong family values, and most boys avoid them. A girl who doesn't even care about her family, you can't expect her to love this family, love her family, or even run everything well in this family. Ten, a kind girl who is diligent and housekeeping. Girls don't have to be beautiful, but they must be kind-hearted. It is a boy's blessing to be born in a famous family or a rich family, but if he is an evil girl, it will also bring a lifelong pain to the boy. Therefore, a kind-hearted girl who can keep a house diligently can bring happiness to her family.