What should the second grade children do if they are angry and don't study and want to play mobile games?

This is a common problem. On the one hand, the media and teachers have repeatedly stressed that children should not be allowed to use electronic products such as smart phones and IPAD to prevent children from playing games; Some eye-catching articles are titled: A mobile phone ruined a student. On the other hand, children like games very much, and they can't stop playing them. They try to escape the monitoring of teachers and parents in various ways. This cat-and-mouse game makes parents and children very tired and damages the parent-child relationship.

Let's take a look first. Is there anything wrong with children playing games? I believe it will happen. Look at the news and you will know that there are reports of dead people from time to time in internet addiction schools all over the country. By rights, parents should know these reports. Why did they send the child in? Why are there so many schools that quit Internet addiction? The reason is that many children are addicted to games and cannot live and study normally. Instead, try it.

Then why are these children addicted to playing games?

Before answering this question, let's talk about the concept of internet addiction. Parents, born after 70 s and 80 s, were not born in the Internet age, but only used the Internet as adults; After 90 or 00? It belongs to the Internet age. In today's society, the internet is an inseparable part of our lives, and making friends, working and studying are inseparable from the internet. Children surfing the Internet is like wandering in the streets of a city. The time spent using the internet will only get longer and longer, so we can't use time to judge Internet addiction. According to the medical knowledge of the United States and China, Internet addiction refers to the improper use of the Internet, a long-term, involuntary and compulsive online behavior, which has an impact on real life and work. This is Internet addiction.

In order to prevent children's internet addiction, the common practice of parents and teachers is to prohibit the use of electronic products such as smart phones and prevent children from having the opportunity to surf the Internet and play games. It is unrealistic to stop children from surfing the internet. It's like a child growing up by the sea. In order to prevent drowning, he is not allowed to go into the water. It is not appropriate not to play games. Video games are what parents used to do, such as jumping grids, digging nests and having fun in the wild. Children who don't know video games can easily not speak the same language as other children; And the game has great charm, which is beyond the management's control. Even some children, under the supervision of their parents, have been very restrained, successfully admitted to the North, went to college, nobody cared, and played games desperately until they abandoned their studies and were dropped out of school. There are such people almost every year.

Playing games online is the general trend. It is difficult and inappropriate for parents to resist this trend. What we can do is to follow the trend and control the direction.

First of all, don't play games when children are too young. The reason is that children's virtuality and reality are inseparable, and it is easy to enter the virtual world of the game and not get out. Therefore, children must first have a sense of reality and find their own interests and pleasures in life. Secondly, we should make rules for playing games, such as time planning, playing for half an hour a day or playing several times a week. Secondly, children can be exposed to some programming ideas and talk about the process of making games. Conditionally, children can play a small game through small software to break the feeling that the game is a mysterious thing.

For children with addiction tendency, on the one hand, parents should take strict measures to resolutely put an end to surfing the internet and tell him the mechanism of addiction; On the one hand, we should guide and find the points of interest with our children in life. Parents are not punishing their children, but solving problems. There are many reasons behind children's internet addiction. In real life, children are frustrated, dissatisfied with reality and have no sense of accomplishment. He escapes from reality through games. At this time, it is not just to quit Internet addiction, but to solve psychological problems.