My in-laws say they take care of the children, and my in-laws smell stinky. He doesn't often take a bath or wash his hair. It's so hot that he changes clothes every five or six days. What to do?

First of all, I used to have a similar situation at home, so I feel I have a say. Not long after the child was born, the father gave up smoking for 40 years for the sake of the child's health. He also likes to hold children, and he has basically stopped drinking wine that regards him as his life. It can be seen how much the elderly love children. I'm not saying this to show off. I want to say that in order to have a good living environment for children, adults or the elderly, we should change some bad habits that are not conducive to the healthy growth of children. The growth of children is no small matter. Even Chairman Mao said that we should start with dolls. Your father-in-law's behavior will certainly arouse his parents' disgust. You mean in the countryside, right? Many old people don't pay attention to personal hygiene. But this is a very common thing, you should understand. Besides, they certainly won't let you hire a nanny ... then the children won't be around them, close to them and can't see them all the time. Besides, it costs money to hire a nanny, and the old people will definitely not like it. You'd better discuss it with your husband. After all, he is easy to talk as a son, even if it is heavier, the old man will not care. You tell your husband that some bad habits must be changed for the healthy growth of children. Without changing children, there will be no good environment for growing up. Is this what you want? If you don't care about children's health, we can only ask a nanny to look after them for their healthy growth. Then you won't see children and unfamiliar children often, so don't blame us and children! The typing on the mobile phone is very messy. Please forgive me if the preface doesn't match. I forgot to mention that the father's quitting smoking and drinking is directly related to the pressure given by his son. You can try my method. I hope your child will grow up healthily and happily.