People who speak too well often can't make friends.

There are always some people who will feel warm and cordial when they meet for the first time, but after a while, they will feel unfathomable.

Most of them are good at talking and not flattering, but they can pick out all the good things. Such a person gives people a feeling of being close to old friends at first, but after continuing to associate, you will be surprised. Why do they always talk so well?

Don't you have no temper, no dissatisfaction with yourself, and no opinion at all?

Of course not, it's just that they don't show it easily in front of people. For them, none of the friends who communicate with beautiful words are regarded as real friends by them.

For us, people around us who only say nice things to us are often not worth making friends for the following four reasons:

First, it is difficult to know what medicine they are selling in the gourd.

People who get along with each other don't talk much, but they always praise you and praise you in many things, which is actually very scary.

Because all his praises have not actually been taken away. All his smiles and beautiful words are just habitual superficiality. He won't really tell you the true face of the matter even if he sees it completely.

In him, you can only see his deliberate recognition, comfort and smile, and the most real things are hidden in your heart.

With such a person, he will always be a supporter, advocate and admirer. But all this is just for him to maintain a superficial close relationship with others. Not only for you, but also for others like you.

Second, they never really put themselves in your shoes.

Another feature of this is that he will only join in the fun on the surface of things, and will hardly really put himself in your shoes.

When something bad happens, he will verbally advise you to relax and let you see more good things, but he won't feel your inner discomfort and loss. People like this who don't feel the same way with each other and just keep saying good things about each other, at this time, you must have a feeling of "speaking easily while standing" for him.

Indeed, they have never made you comfortable with words, and you will feel "fake" after these words. Their kind words are rarely implemented, mostly just for the comfort and intimacy when they get along.

Other than that, there is nothing else.

Third, always comfort and praise you, making you like floating in the clouds.

One of the disadvantages of dealing with such people is that if you are easily swayed by a few words, it is easy to drift away from his kind words and gradually lose your mind.

Because he always chooses good things to say, even if bad things happen occasionally and you are depressed, he can always avoid important things, avoid the problems you should have faced, pick out places that can arouse your interest and cheer you up, and rekindle your mood.

You will find that he always seems to be such an "optimist" whenever and wherever. But "optimist" is actually a mask for him to get along with others. He is just good at comforting and complimenting each other.

Thereby increasing the comfort and excitement of the other party when getting along with him, and making the other party mistakenly think that they are already very close friends.

Fourth, all kinds of shirking when you really need help.

The reason why such a person is best not to be intimate is because in his heart, he never regards you as a true friend.

He is only happy for you, never angry or sad. How can he be really happy? If you pay attention to his happiness when he is with you, you will find that most of the happiness stays on the skin and does not reach your eyes.

For those who don't treat you as a friend, but feel intimate and happy with you in the scene, they will shirk all kinds of things when you really need help. Moreover, most of these excuses make it difficult for you to tell the truth from the false.

Even if he is rejected, you can't find an exact point to expose him. On the contrary, his superb way of speaking will make you feel that even if he doesn't help you, you still owe him a favor.

People who talk too well like this will be deceived by their apparent enthusiasm when they meet for the first time, but in the subsequent communication, they will make you feel like a "smiling ocean".

But there is such a "smiling ocean face" that always speaks well. You'd better just smile and don't say too much.

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