Some people say that "people are always annoying and owe three years to die." What's going on here?

People are always annoying and die after three years. That is to say, when a person is old, it will lead to "dislike" and "dislike" for his children and grandchildren, because when he is old, he will lose his ability to work and can no longer work for his children and grandchildren as before. Some old people used to serve their sons, daughters-in-law and grandchildren, but now they are old. Some old people have worse physical fitness and are more likely to get sick.

Although people will be attracted by "dislike" and "dislike" when they are old, they will still have a lot of trouble with their children and grandchildren in the three years after their death, because they have to spend money everywhere on burial and funeral. In the past, most people were in financial difficulties, and many people would lend money to the deceased for funerals such as burial. In addition, many places still have the custom of "burning paper on the grave" for the dead old people at intervals, and their children and grandchildren have no peace for three years.

People are always annoying and die for three years, which is observed and summarized by working people in their long-term life practice and is reasonable. In real life, there are many elderly people. When they have the ability to act, when they can serve their children and grandchildren, and when they can earn money and bring benefits to their children and grandchildren, their children and grandchildren will not dislike the elderly in life, nor will they be kind to them. Once the elderly lose their capacity, they can't work for their children and grandchildren. Once they can no longer serve their children and grandchildren and earn money for them, many old people will be "disliked" and "unloved" by their children and grandchildren, and even some children and grandchildren will abuse and mistreat them, sometimes it is really "terrible".

Let's take active actions to care for and treat all the old people in our family well. No matter what the old people's present situation is, all their "love" and "kindness" to us in the past can never be repaid by our children. And this statement is obviously unfilial to the elderly. Growing up, the old man raised you with a handful of shit and urine. When an old man needs your support, he says he is disgusting. This is completely irresponsible and unfilial. Some old people are very reasonable people when they are young, but when they are old, they become bitter and do unreasonable things. Many people blame them, and their children don't understand them ... so many bad things have happened. Many times it's not what they think, but the process of their aging.