A biased video of mom. Tell me about it.

In Do You Know, Mother Kong said to her, "In a family with many children, parents need a bowl of water to be even, so that the family can be quiet. Although brothers and sisters should be humble to each other, they should make this concession and that concession, but they can't make a concession. After a long time, there will inevitably be a gap between father and daughter. "

But many parents don't have such awareness. Even, she is used to being weird, and she doesn't feel weird herself.

She thinks it's good for her favorite son. But I don't know that her unfairness often hurts two people.

People who are not optimistic are cold-hearted and weak. Favored people are fearless and lose their skills.

Su Mingyu in Everything is OK is the one who is not optimistic. Because no one loved her, she had to love herself. She went out to travel at an early age, but she made her own career. But although she succeeded, she always lacked love in her heart and her feelings for her parents were very weak.

Su Ming's success is the favored one. But with his mother's preference, he became a baby boy. By the time his mother died, he was unable to cope with his own life.

"Do you know" has been saying such a sentence: "The beloved son of parents must be far-reaching. "

If you really love your children, please make sure that a bowl of water is even. Don't coddle the child you love into a blooming orchid, but cultivate Su Mingcheng.

I wrote an article about son preference the other day. Because it also involves the partiality of parents, many readers leave their own stories in the background.

I found a man's contribution in it. His parents have two sons, so there is no preference for boys, but he said: "Parents' partiality is more terrible than preference for boys. Because, you have no idea, what is the reason for their partiality. Because I don't know what it is. For many years, you want to be kind to your parents, to prove yourself, to show yourself and to get their love. Until the end, you suffered too many blows, and then you had to accept the reality yourself. There is no reason, she, your own biological mother just doesn't love you. "

He said that he is in a state for his mother now.

Every time his mother asks him to be selfless to his brother, every time she makes her strange eyes so vivid, he wants to laugh.

Because of what she said, he can't be moved any more. He looked at his mother and told such a lie, which made him feel very funny. He even wanted to die and didn't want to live.

He said, I think it's ridiculous. One is for myself, because I have believed such a lie for many years. The other is to feel ridiculous for your mother. How can a person act so well?

He once recorded his mother's strange face. It's just a video of Su Mingcheng of Su Like Mingyu apologizing, and he keeps watching it over and over again.

He said that no one knows Su Mingyu's idea better than when he watched the video: "Remember it, remember her every face and every word, and then keep telling yourself. You will never be cheated again, and you will never be hurt by this person again. "

Su Like looked at Mingyu, wondering if he was his own. He even wishes he wasn't his parents'. So her parents are not good to him, and she doesn't have to be too sad. It's not her own anyway.

But she is her parents' child.

For as long as he can remember, his mother only liked his brother. He doesn't know why his mother hates him so much and always beats and scolds him. Even if he was praised by the teacher and told his mother, her mother wouldn't feel very happy.

He worked hard, studied hard and helped his parents do some farm work since he was a child. In the eyes of outsiders, he is the best child. But in the eyes of his mother, nothing he does is as important as his brother.

When he grew up, he went out to work early and suffered a lot. No matter how hard and tired he is, he has never told his family. He managed to save a part of his savings. He originally wanted to be filial to his parents, but as a result, his parents gave all their savings to their youngest son to splurge.

His mother told him this way: "You have suffered yourself, don't let your brother suffer." . You earn more money and make your brother take fewer detours. You are his own brother, shouldn't you think of him? "

Damn it, no matter how much he suffered, how much he suffered. His mother just can't bear to let her brother suffer a little.

If it's just this kind of suffering, he will endure it.

However, his parents have reached the point where they can completely ignore his life and death. He broke his leg while working elsewhere that year. Just in time for the Spring Festival, the workers all went home. He can't call his parents, ask them to give him some money, or find someone to take him home.

But his mother actually said: "You work outside to earn money, even if you don't give money to your family, you still want money from your family. Tickets are so hard to buy, how can I pick you up on New Year's Day? Take care of yourself. I can't go home anyway. "

That year, he dragged his injured leg out and bought a box of instant noodles before he starved to death. His wound cracked several times, but the pain in the wound was not as cold as his heart, which made him unacceptable.

My parents didn't even call him that year. And he later learned that after the New Year, her parents actually took their younger brother to travel. They have time to play with their youngest son, but they have no time to care about the life and death of their eldest son.

At that time, he really felt that he was not born to his parents. Since then, he has completely lost his love for his parents. They don't look for him, and he doesn't look for them. They asked him for money, and he gave it if he had money. If you don't have it, you won't give it.

This state lasted until he got married. He saved some money, so did his wife. They have made plans to buy a house.

He went home to discuss it with his parents. They don't have to pay. Tell them when you see a suitable house in your hometown.

Later, his mother called him and said that there was a good house at home. He asked a few friends and they all said that the property was good. He's like, give his mother a part of the deposit first, and solve it first. Wait until he and his wife come home for the weekend.

Then, he gave his parents 654.38 million yuan.

Her mother said that paying 65,438+10,000 would have many benefits.

Do you know the result?

Her mother wrote the name of her youngest son on the house she was looking after. At the weekend, they went home to look at the house. Her mother said, "You are all working outside and can't live. When your brother was using the house, I solved it for him first. If you want to buy it, take your time later. "

His wife was in a hurry and asked his mother, what about 100 thousand yuan?

His mother said, "Who are you? Ask me. I can spend my son's money as I want and give it to whoever I want. It's not your turn to talk about me. "

He didn't have the strength to get angry at that time. He just thinks it's funny. He asked her mother, "My brother needs a house, so I don't need a house when I get married. If you give him the house, give me back the money. "

His mother hit him that day and his wife couldn't stop him.

His mother cried and said, "You forgot your mother before you got a wife. You are a baiwenhang. He is your own brother. Why not buy him a house first? You asked me for money. I gave birth to you and raised you. How much should you give me? I'm your real mother. What's wrong with asking you for 65438+ million? I gave you all your life. "

He was dragged out by his wife that day.

On his way back to the city with his wife, she kept crying and said to him, "I will marry you if I have no money." In the future, we will live together and never come back. It's all bad for you, and I will be good for you in the future. "

He said that he didn't know how to spend the rest of his life without the comfort of his wife.

When he got married, his parents took care of nothing. He has no hope for his parents either. This made him feel much better. However, he doesn't want to have anything to do with his parents, who always want to take advantage of him.

Every time his family needs money, his mother will cry, morally kidnap and ask him for money. He should do something, and he shouldn't do anything. He just wants to laugh at his mother's performance.

He said, "My mother always said that I married my daughter-in-law and forgot my mother. But I think my wife is much more considerate than my mother. My wife at least shares my interests. I am sick and in pain. She will take care of me. My mother can't wait to tear me down and supply my brother. "

Teacher Wu Zhihong said that parents love their children is the biggest lie.

The man said, "My parents don't love me for no reason."

Su Mingyu is unpopular because she is a girl. What about this guy? He is a son, but he is not loved by his parents. He is also the child of his parents. Why don't his parents love him?

Many years ago, I wrote in the countryside. An old man gave birth to four sons, and she didn't love her eldest son at all. At that time, she said this sentence: "There are too many sons, not rare. Coupled with the poor family, I feel that more children are debts. There's already one anyway. This really happened, and nothing happened. "

My best friend's husband is very rich, and she is also very good. However, her husband only wants one child, regardless of gender, as long as one child. He said, "Let's give all our love to this child. There are more children. If we are biased, how sad children should be in this life. "

My best friend's husband is also an unloved child.

Now that the second child is released, I have no objection to women having a second child, but if they have a second child, please remember what Mother Kong said:

"In a family with many children, parents need a bowl of water to be flat, so that the family can be quiet. Although brothers and sisters should be humble to each other, they should make this concession and that concession, but they can't make a concession. After a long time, there will inevitably be a gap between father and daughter. "

Because once the bad blood comes, parents are unkind, children are unfilial, and there is no peace at home.