Why do many people become unhappy after being admitted to graduate school?

Many college students will choose the postgraduate entrance examination in their senior year, and the process of postgraduate entrance examination is particularly hard. The postgraduate entrance examination party has made a lot of efforts in the four years of college. When they thought they would be happy if they were admitted to graduate school, they were not. Recently, someone asked, why do many people become unhappy after being admitted to graduate school? I think their attitude towards things is still different. Let Bian Xiao talk about my opinion!

After all kinds of hardships, they want to go to the university they want to go to for further study. When they are admitted to graduate school, they should be happy. Why do they feel unhappy? I think they are under too much psychological pressure and are not optimistic about the problem. We can roughly calculate the age after graduation, which is about 23 years old. When they are admitted to the graduate school, they must continue their studies for three years. Three years later, they will be 26 years old. At the age of 26, many people get married and have children, and many people also start to buy cars and houses. Graduate students will definitely feel more stressed after seeing these phenomena, and it is still a question whether they can find their favorite jobs after graduation. They may also consider their family situation and study for another three years, which means that their parents will have to work hard to earn money for another three years. Who you are, you will also consider so many factors. When you have these pressures, you will definitely not be happy.

In fact, this is the case, but after being admitted to graduate school, you must successfully complete your studies. Your family will not blame you for not buying a car or a house because of your studies, nor will they blame you for not getting married and having children because of your studies. These are the reasons why they are unhappy. Of course, there should be reasons in their own study. With the growth of age, there will be more things to consider, but after graduate school, I will try my best to finish my studies smoothly and find a good job after graduation. You can think about these things, but you can't blame yourself It is more important to look at these problems optimistically. If you are too pessimistic, you will be under great pressure and naturally you will not be happy.

The above is Bian Xiao's view, so what do you think is the reason? Come and talk about it in the comments section!