Talk about classic and realistic love.

1. Finding a suitable lover needs to meet two psychological needs, one is a sense of security and the other is a sense of belonging. The sense of security is that you are sure that your partner will not leave, and the sense of belonging is that you are sure that you will not leave. We are all over the age of listening to love. One day, you no longer need vigorous love. All you want is someone who won't leave you. When it is cold, he will give you a coat, when your stomach is uncomfortable, he will give you a cup of hot water, and when you are sad, he will give you a hug, so he will always be with you, not to say how much you love, but to be serious about "don't go." Love is like sand on the beach. The tighter you hold it, the faster it will run. When you love me, I love you desperately. But if you don't love me, I will stop at once and never be a bitch. Love is what you want. When two people fall in love, it is called love. Only one person posted it, so it's better to forget the Jianghu before it's too late. The most precious things in the world are free, the air is free, the breeze and the moon are free, and love is free, but it is not easy for us to cherish these free things. Tu Lei Six. Whether a person really likes you depends on whether he will take the initiative to find you. Qilu said that if he looks for you every day, he will have nothing to say, even if it looks normal, in fact, he misses you very much; If he likes to ignore it, then when you find him, it is probably dispensable. If he doesn't talk to you for a long time, it may be equivalent to not loving. Love is active, because love is impatient. 7. Perhaps, the person who is loved is always grumpy, because she is convinced that you will not leave her, while the person who actively loves is good-tempered, because he is afraid of losing, so he embraces everything. 8. In love, companionship and understanding are more important. No matter how good a person is, but he can't walk with you, then he is a passer-by. No matter how many shortcomings a person has, he may tolerate you everywhere and accompany you to the end. This is the end. 9. When two people are together for a long time, women will love men more and more, and men will become more and more casual. Men will say that women are always thinking, and women will say that men have changed and don't spoil her as much as before ... In fact, everyone has not changed, but time has changed. Because they have become close and accustomed to each other, women will no longer fantasize like being in love. In any case, please don't be lazy about love, otherwise it will be very dull. Then we quarreled and broke up. 10, men should always feel grateful and guilty for their women. Because she gave you her life and gave you the whole person. If you don't do well and protect her, you should always reflect. -Tu Lei's classic realistic love talk 2 1. Someone who wants to take you home is on his way. People who want to have dinner with you like to eat sweet and sour. People who miss you will come to see you from all corners of the world. Second, two people who really love each other will not lose to the appearance distance, height and age, the former mistress, the gossip of others and the opposition of their parents, but will only lose to not cherishing, not working hard and not trusting. Third, whether a woman really loves you depends on whether she is willing to accompany you when you are hungry and cold; Whether a man really loves you depends on whether he still takes good care of you in the spring breeze. Fourth, if you devote yourself wholeheartedly, you can be moved, but not necessarily moved. The companionship of getting along day and night may produce feelings, but not necessarily love. Don't lose yourself to love. -Tu Leiwu, when I was young, I felt that love was a match made in heaven; When I grow up, I find that love needs a suitable match; It was not until the end that I realized that all love can't escape fate, whether it is together or forever apart. 6. How can I keep a good impression fresh forever? After all, enthusiasm will always get cold. Psychology shows that a good impression can last as long as 4 months. Once surpassed, it is love. True love is not a good impression at the moment, but I know it is not easy to meet and it will be a pity to lose it. Seven, in this world, there is always a person who makes you helpless. Even if he is useless, even if he has a bad record, you still have to be him. This is the pi of feelings, endless. Eight, don't be too picky, love when you are tempted. The ability to love also has a shelf life. Unless all conditions are right, love may be too late. Relationships always expire when you are ready. 9. The real person who can accompany you to the end is not the one who you are sleepy until late at night, but the one who can let you sleep when you tell him that I am sleepy at any time, because you never have to worry that there will be no tomorrow after tonight. Ten, people will meet a lot of warm-hearted people in life, and they may mistakenly think that they like it, but it is just a moment of goodwill. After all, the heart is not the answer, but the mind is. Eleven, it is easy to call a wife, but it is difficult to call an old woman; It is easy to hold hands, but it is difficult to hold hands for a lifetime; It's easy to say I love you, but it's hard to say it to only one person from now on. Love is not a whim, but a decision to be together and never part. Twelve, you will always meet someone who sings to you in a tone-deaf voice, runs with you on a rainy night, paints with a paint tray in your black-and-white life, understands your nonsense, sees your smiling face clearly, walks through the crowded crowd and hugs you. Thirteen, the most important thing in choosing a lover is three criteria: don't lie to you, protect you and accompany you. The first is his quality, the second is his sense of responsibility, and the third is his patience. Women's feelings for men are roughly like this: they begin with feelings and are loyal to their responsibilities. -Su Qin XIV. The so-called beautiful love: the heart of love at first sight, the sweetness of first acquaintance, the appreciation when knowing each other, the acceptance after familiarity, the persistence after dullness, the support in difficulties, and the persistence in fleeting time. When you meet the person who can really make your heart beat, you will suddenly understand that liking someone has nothing to do with those rules and regulations. If you think it's right, those are clouds, and only freedom and pleasure are the criteria for judging. -Liu Manchuan's "The Ability to Love at This Moment" XVI. People together, no matter how noisy, will find their own steps and the speed will recover; Centrifugal people, no matter how small, will take the opportunity to find an excuse to slip away. May you have a love that makes you feel at ease. Seventeen, a relationship did not come to the end, most of the reasons are not three views, not personality, nor empathy, but when we face emotional problems, we often seem so weak and fragile. Eighteen, in this grinding love world, no matter what your reason is, please refuse. I like it if I like it. If you don't like it, you don't like it. Just a sentence. When you think you are doing good for each other, you have already hurt each other deeply, and the last thing that hurts you is yourself. Nineteen, what makes women forget is feelings, and what makes men forget is feelings. Feelings precipitate with time and disappear with time. In the final analysis, they are different species, so who can understand whose deep love and who can understand whose departure. Twenty, love at first sight is the end of love, two of a kind is the beginning of love, heart-to-heart is the process of love, heart-to-heart is the sublimation of love, everlasting is the promise of love, and growing old together is the end of love! Twenty-one, the best state of love is to make plans to spend your life with you and be ready to leave at any time. 22. Sometimes the disappearance of feelings is just like the deterioration of food in the refrigerator after the power failure. The refrigerator is right, and the food is right, but the power is out. Twenty-three, scraping a thank you is enough, and so is love. There is no need to scratch off the words "thank you for your patronage" before you let go. 24. I have been looking for that kind of feeling, that kind of feeling of holding a pair of warm hands and moving forward steadily on a cold day. -Zhang Ailing 25, love is like this, there is no reason to tell, what you want most is not what he wants. Even if you have thousands of advantages, he only craves another person's shortcomings. Twenty-six, some people are good to you, first sweet and then bitter. At first, you felt so attached to each other, but in the end, it grew weaker and weaker, and soon you broke up. And some people are slow to heat. At first, you will feel so cold that you don't even want to talk about it. The longer you keep in touch with him, the better he will be to you. Because the people who loved you wanted you. People who love you to the end want to be with you. Twenty-seven, I can't let go, which probably means that even if there are other people around me, even better people, I can't help but think of you. 28. For a girl, the best dowry is lifelong love and eccentricity. Twenty-nine, a good relationship is not a desperate pursuit without looking back, but a willingness to accommodate each other's pace and move forward together, saying good night before going to bed and good morning in the morning. Thirty, two people together, more is not to change each other, but to accept each other, which is tolerance. If you just want to change each other, it is not life, it is war.