Young people born in Beishangguang don't want to stay in their hometown. Where should they work hard?

A hit drama some time ago pushed an already hot topic to the peak, that is, "Beishangguang doesn't believe in tears." Beishangguang has given too many temptations to young people. I feel that Beishangguang is so glamorous and I should have a place. Different people have different choices whether to run to or escape from Beishangguang.

Recently, many people have consulted me on WeChat. Should I continue to go to Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen or stay in my hometown to find a job? I found that many people are struggling with this problem!

I asked them, what do you think attracts you to big cities? What don't you like about your hometown?

There are many answers, but in my summary, big cities are more: "the future"! The future is like an aphrodisiac, paralyzing the vision of many people!

The "future" can make them endure only wearing masks to go out for several days, the insecurity of food and water, the paralysis of ground traffic and the crowded underground traffic without dignity, and the rising prices that can't keep up with the pace of making money.

I think most people yearn for big cities and miss brightly lit streets, noisy bars and cold office buildings. . . . And these often don't belong to you. Big cities are too rich and contradictory. No matter how imaginative your thoughts and actions are, you can always find like-minded people here. It seems that everyone has a chance to succeed here. Every day, the newspaper network reports how much money a company has raised. It seems that you are the next one. It seems that the next ceo is yourself. It seems that many girls are very close to you. . .

Another is that most people want to conquer this city through their own efforts in big cities, and they can brag about it when they go home, as if they were champions of ancient high schools!

There are still some people who feel that although they have worked hard for several years, there is no result, but their personal resources are here, and they are reluctant to lose them! In my opinion, you have so many resources and contacts that you can't help you get along well. Don't worry about these circles and connections! Relationships that don't help you are your own fantasies.

However, reality is often cruel. Many people are addicted to obscenity every day and always feel more and more bored to realize their dreams. . . From the initial ambition to the confusion and helplessness behind it. . . Time is the cruelest consumable. Everyone has worked hard for several years, but they can't achieve any results, and they may not be able to grasp both sides. . . Become a monkey in the field, afraid of picking up sesame seeds and losing watermelon!

What's more, you know your weight, but you have to rush in and consult me when you are confused. . . In fact, although I am separated from the consultant by two mobile phone screens, I can feel the helplessness on his face.

In fact, what I want to say is that the Internet is so developed in this era, where to work is not so important, and you can still make a lot of money at home. Why go to a big city?

All your dreams can be realized online. I don't understand why I have to go to cities with severe smog and abnormal traffic congestion.

If you really like that city, it's different. You just want to stay here, just Feng's song:

"Laugh here, cry here. Born here, died here. . . . . . "

Then be strong and stay there no matter what, because you like that city! Even if one day you are not in that city, you still have the shadow of that city, and that city is already in your heart.

Nowadays, it is common for people to have several hometowns. No matter which city you are in, no matter whether you return to your hometown or not, there will be a shadow of your hometown in your memory and a local accent in your words. If you feel unhappy in Beishangguang, you can go back to your hometown to see the brightest moon in your hometown.