We say that we don't love our son if he is naughty, and we get angry and don't like him if he is naughty. Now he always asks my mother if you are angry or that you won't give me anything.

This is a manifestation of the child's lack of security. Even he sometimes cries just to verify whether you love him or not. So, in fact, on the contrary, no matter how badly your child behaves, you should tell your child that you love him and the family will always love each other. Even if you hit him, let him know that it is to help him correct his mistake, and hit him because he loves him. After the child's inner desire for love is steadily rewarded, he will establish a sense of security and grow into a firm, cheerful and kind person.