No matter how good the relationship between two people is, when you reach out to a man for something, you lose.

No matter how good the relationship between two people is, when you reach out to a man for something, you lose. Valentine's day is coming. My boyfriend asked his girlfriend what she liked, so he bought it for her. Without saying anything, my girlfriend said, "I like it as long as it's from myself." But the girlfriend got nothing but some verbal greetings from her boyfriend. In fact, what a woman wants is not what you asked, but what she didn't say. You can give her to you. You asked him about her, proving that you didn't really want to give it to her, but just kept saying it. Anyone can talk all the time, but there are few guarantees.

Whether a person loves you or not is also reflected in those small details, and many things will become worthless when expressed. Only if you really work hard will it be valuable. Remember, the candy you reach for tastes different from the candy you give yourself. Emotionally, what you want on your own initiative is completely different from what others pay on their own initiative.

If a person really likes you, he won't ask you if you want it, he will take the initiative to let you. On the other hand, if you ask for it, the actual meaning will be different. Therefore, no matter how good the relationship is, if you reach out to a man for these three things, you lose. Only what you are willing to give you can be regarded as real use value.

1, if you want the other person's hobbies, you will think that as long as there is a toast before marriage. But when they get married, they still have to face the most realistic problems. Most people's emotions are often lost on toast. Some people have been actively looking for each other's love and toast, but they have never understood that the items you get on your own initiative are very cheap. Why? After all, these people lost on their own initiative and got hurt.

Xiao Jing is such a girl. She works in the same unit as her ex-husband. He also saw Koizumi's good looks and took the initiative to pursue him. She often asks him out for dinner and shopping. At first, the other party didn't feel anything for him, but he was embarrassed to refuse her. But Xiao Jing never gave up. She still sticks to her feelings. She firmly believes that one day, the girl will be moved by what she has done.

She thinks men are just shy, and he won't fall in love with them until he gets married. Soon after they met, Xiao Jing got pregnant, and then they got the certificate in a hurry, without even having a banquet. During Xiao Jing's questioning, her husband was indifferent to him. Xiao Jing thinks that if you want to tie a man's heart, the child will be quiet when he is born. But Xiao Jing couldn't think right. When the baby is born, she still takes care of the baby alone and changes the diapers of his breast-fed baby every day. In the end, Xiao Jing couldn't stand such a day and chose to divorce him.

In fact, Xiao Jing was wrong from the beginning. You can get each other's love without my initiative. It's easy to see that they are cheap. Feelings can't be forced. He obviously doesn't have you in his heart, so you need to pretend that he loves you. True feelings are the investment of both sides, and they are managed by two people together, not the neglect and indifference of the other side.

2. Asking for money When women's economic development is at a disadvantage, you will also reduce prices, especially when you reach out to men for money. Women, whether before marriage or after marriage, should keep their wealth free and not give up their jobs because of men. Only when you have money can you have confidence.

It's a lie for men to say that they support you. In the end, you have to rely on yourself. Maybe his attitude towards himself was good at first, but it was different after a long time. Therefore, women can't rely too much on a man. You can live more and more splendidly and smartly on your own. A man, even if he loves you very much, will not always be willing to spend money for you. He wants you to be rich and free, instead of relying on him for everything.

Men say they support you, that's all they listen to. It's never true. Only women with high emotional intelligence can rely on themselves, but men can't. Only by relying on the money she earns can she live more confidently and have the right to chat and talk more.

3, to accompany for women, the material requirements are not enough for spiritual companionship. Sometimes, she doesn't need much money from you. She just wants you to spend more time with her. But when women long for men's company, men find you clingy and annoying, and don't want to spend time on you at all.

When a man can't accompany you, it means that he has no you in his heart. If this person really likes you, how can he let you go? If a man really likes you, no matter how busy he is, he will always find time to go shopping with you and won't leave you alone.

Everyone's time is precious. If a person wants to spend time on you, he must love you very much. If he can allocate his energy to you, it means that he has given you the whole world. Only the feelings offered to you are true. In fact, only he knows best whether the other person is sincere or false to you.

Emotionally, a woman should never give up her dignity and moral bottom line in order to be a man. Whether you want emotion, economic development or companionship, it will be very cheap. It is only true that the other party offers it to you.