Prose: People should be middle-aged, but don't wronged themselves.

When people reach middle age, they feel that the world is getting smaller and smaller, so small that sometimes they can only accommodate themselves, or because of fatigue or stress, escaping from reality has become a luxury.

At this time, it is also an eventful autumn of life. I am very tired in all aspects of my body. The crisis of career, health and family makes me feel a little overwhelmed.

Of course, vicissitudes and confusion will come together, which makes people feel involuntarily. Sometimes in the dead of night, they can only feel sorry for themselves. I often comfort myself that there is no need to take some things too seriously and make myself too tired and embarrassed, but I still can't control myself after all.

I can't bear to mention the glory of the past, dare not repeat the same mistakes, and dare not touch my own regrets. When people reach middle age, they have to think about poetry and distance.

There are warm things in life. With more experience, you will learn to be kind to yourself. Half your life has passed, and you have suffered, been tired, cried and laughed. In a word, if you have a healthy body, you will have more happiness.

People can't do it in middle age, and they don't have to blame themselves. It's too late to gamble now, and not being confused is the best state. Some things can't be compared, and some things can't be impulsive. I know that life will not be smooth sailing, so I won't wronged myself or force myself to do things against my will.

Learn not to stay up late, don't care, and don't be serious. At this age, world outlook and values have been established. Only by doing our best and shouldering our responsibilities and obligations, no matter what the outcome is, we must bear it without hesitation.

No more sighing, old face, no more youth, no more red dust, accept the reality that the wind and frost of years will erode everything, and too much time can't be left in the sand of years. Cherish it to be worth it, and a little regret can be perfect.

People don't know until middle age that loneliness, pain and failure are indispensable condiments in life, and they can't control them. People don't understand until middle age that life can be imperfect, but even a little flaw must be true. Even if life is not rich, the process must be happy!

When people reach middle age, they accept the reality frankly and face life indifferently. There are fewer and fewer things that can convince them, and more and more things that can make them tolerant.

Perhaps not believing in fate, but understanding the way of life. Everything in the world, no matter what the reason, only believes that existence is truth and cause and effect is purpose.

The gentleness in human nature is becoming more and more obvious. It seems that we have seen clearly the right and wrong, good and evil in the world, and we are more sympathetic and calm when things go wrong.

So after middle age, I learned to change with time, not complaining about life, not afraid of change, even if life is a little melancholy, it is quietly hidden in my heart.

I gradually understand that whether you complain or not, life is still the same. It looks calm, but it is still undercurrent. Worried or not, life will not change because of your mood, and complicated things can only be treated simply by yourself.

When people reach middle age, they must never be wronged. If they are not complaining and demanding, they will be more calm, less sad, less disappointed and more free and easy. Life never believes in tears, and your crying can't be pitied by life.

As we all know, there is no word "easy" in the adult world. Even if there are more sad things, you have to bear them alone, because we know that when no one is distressed, you have to feel sorry for yourself, and no one cares about your vulnerability. You must learn to be strong.

In this world, you set yourself free and you gain hope. How can I have all the beauty in life? It doesn't matter if you are disappointed. Only without regrets can perfection be achieved. There are always thorns on the road to success, and dreams will not come true overnight.

Middle-aged people are exhausted, not to mention being hard on themselves, so that their fragile hearts don't bear unnecessary pressure. Some troubles are just hard for yourself. Let go, let go, is the antidote. Live with peace of mind, don't care about other people's eyes, don't hide, and live your true self according to your own way of life.

The lifestyle of middle-aged people is actually very simple, with a smile on their faces. Only by looking down on gains and losses will we be broad-minded; The lifestyle of middle-aged people is nothing more than a transparent mind, ignoring spring flowers and autumn moons, and no longer being sad.

Middle-aged people know how to be kind to themselves. If they are tired, they will have a rest. Money will never be earned and things will never be done. When you are tired, listen to a light music to relax and feel the charm of music healing; If you are sad, watch a movie, tell a few jokes and adjust your mood; In a bad mood, make a pot of white tea, find a quiet corner, let the mood calm down, and deeply understand the truth of Zen tea blindly.

Therefore, middle-aged people know that only by cherishing life, not staying up late and not being sad can they keep healthy, simple happiness is happiness, and knowing how to rest can make them healthy. Health is a great wealth for middle-aged people, and no matter how busy they are, they can't be ignored.

When people reach middle age, peace and optimism means being kind to life. Being indifferent and calm means being the best you can be, having the truest feelings and keeping the best mood. This is the performance of not being wronged.