Change husbands and wives

I feel that my husband is in good shape recently. The reason is that he has a new wife.

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? Communication with her husband every day is always angry, and her daughter gave her husband a name called Bar Jing. No matter what topics are exchanged, he always has different opinions and opinions. When he said this, he was always unconvinced and wanted to argue with him, so he began to wrangle. My expression can't keep up with his rhythm. When I talked about it, I ignored it and became a supporter of his point of view. I was very angry. He was so complacent that he started killing me. I'm black and blue all over. I began to hold a grudge and ignored his love. Distance caused a slow cold war, and practice proved that this method was not feasible. I began to suppress myself and didn't say anything uncomfortable. As long as he was in a good mood, my mood changed with him.

Drift away

In the face of his model, I feel depressed, and my heart is very painful. I found my sense of accomplishment in pain. I am very happy when I am with the children, and I am also very happy when I study and grow up. So I went to work, washed and cooked, and arranged my time to be full, so there was no chance to get angry. There is no communication when I go home. Home is a place to sleep and eat, without the warmth of that year. He was so bored that he started chatting online. In the daughter's view, he betrayed his family and her daughter began to fight with him. In this way, our home has become a battlefield full of smoke.

Pain leads to change.

My health is threatened by family discomfort. I have had operations on breast nodules, hysteromyoma and gastric fibroma. Under repeated physical warnings, I struggled in pain, changed in pain, and did not know how to cherish myself. I once had a silly idea that you won't change until I die? I had an epiphany when I asked him such a question. Why should I trade my death for his change? Why don't I change it? That feeling was like a flash of light, and I wanted to change it. I no longer expect others to pay attention to me and love me. I want to love myself. I always wanted him to buy me a necklace and a ring. These are all pits in my heart, which is evidence that I am not willing to spend money for myself. Fill in the hole, take the rest away and buy yourself a bracelet. When I spoke of my inner desire for the necklace, my husband said, why didn't you say such a small thing earlier? He bought me a necklace. Wow! My own change is immediately changed into my husband's change.

Who am I?

Who am I? Wife, mother, daughter, aunt, sister, aunt, but ... I forgot that I am myself. All these years of hard work are because I lost myself. I am very painful and brought pain to others. When I realized that I was homeless like a vagabond these years. Where is my home? How can I go back to my home? I looked everywhere for my way home. Roots are the source. I contacted my parents first. The linked road needs to be repaired by yourself. At this time, I found my parents and I standing on two independent hills with a rolling valley in the middle. How to build this mental road? I asked my mother the story of my birth. I asked her how she was feeling. My mother's answer is very popular. I was locked at home just one month after I was born. My mother goes to work in the production team, earning cm, not eating or drinking. A weak baby was locked in the house. The feeling of fear and abandonment makes me feel so distressed. I try to love myself and care for that young heart in the way I want. At the same time, I hugged my mother and thanked her for raising me in any difficult situation. When I dare to face it and build roads, bridges and roads, my inner strength is getting stronger and stronger. Taking care of my parents is to fill the valley between mountains. I am glad to wake up in my parents' lifetime and find my own way home.

When the flowers bloom, butterflies come.

Find yourself lost, start to grow, and start to care about yourself. Only by loving yourself fully can you love others. I used to love others in order to please others and find my sense of existence through the recognition of others. There are prayers and expectations in my heart, and there will be disappointment and resentment if I don't get the desired result. It's different now. I found myself. I just want to be happy. It doesn't matter to me whether others are happy or not. I can only be responsible for myself. When you love yourself, it is a kind of enjoyment and compassion to love others again, which brings happiness and happiness to people around you. I am a flower, and I am only responsible for my own glory. It doesn't matter whether the butterfly comes or not. When I put down what I wanted, everything was just right.

Create beauty

? Life is as dull as water, and every day is a repetitive life. How to make the calm water ripple? We can create opportunities. We can throw a stone into the water. The big stone will have a big ripple and the small stone will have a small ripple.

Home is the harbor where we live. I still stay at home most of the time. I adjusted my lifestyle, set myself eight life events, and tried to keep the wheel of life from deviating. My husband is a dutiful son, and I will arrange time to accompany him to visit the elderly. Daughter is the core of the family. I will pay attention to my daughter's inner needs. What children lack is not material nutrition, but psychological nutrition. I will try my best to satisfy my daughter's spiritual growth. Go out to play with my husband in my spare time, go to Jining for dinner, buy some clothes and look around the park.

In life, I will create what I want now. For example, I have a little backache recently, and the doctor said not to bend over and pout. My husband goes to work every day. What should I do if my clothes and shoes need washing? Find your own way and stick to these tasks. My husband hasn't come back at six o'clock, so I called to ask him when he will come back. He said he would be back around eight o'clock. So I brushed my shoes and watched a movie "bad mother" recommended by my friend. Halfway through the movie, I brushed my shoes and felt very tired, so I lay in bed and rested, when my husband called. Ask me if I'm awake [covering my face]. My immediate thought was that he suspected that I was sleeping. Another voice denied it, and the husband meant to come later. Are you kidding me? I deliberately spoiled and said, I brushed your shoes when I slept. My tired waist hurts a little now. I rest in bed. I didn't cook. There is no food at home. Husband said: How can you be a disobedient child? I thought he was talking to people around him! ) I told you to lie still. Why did you move again? I will do such a job. It doesn't matter if you don't cook. What do you want to eat? I know. "I think you are also very hard. Anything that can help you, try to help you. Honey, I want to eat flavored eggplant. " I pretend to be a sissy. Wait, don't do anything. I'll do the rest. "Thank you husband, love you!" The phone over there has been hung up.

? I went on to watch the movie bad mother. I think I am also being a "bad wife", doing nothing, coaxing and drinking, and working for my husband who has worked all day. But I feel his joy, and he feels good to be needed. Why not give him what he needs, keep his edge and be a woman among innocent girls? The past is the past, so why bother yourself?

I have a thick skin now. If he doesn't know how to give it, he will have the cheek to ask for it. He will flirt with him in different ways and he will enjoy it.

? This change in my thinking is also forced by life. I didn't like my husband all day. This is not good, this is not good. I have a headache as soon as I hear him speak. I have to change it. There are children, and relatives and friends of the elderly are not easy to explain. If I don't change, I will be full of grievances and injustice. What should I do? Since the husband can't change, let's change wives.