Tell me why many post-90s are unwilling to get married now.

The Meaning of Marriage Isn't the meaning of marriage that two people choose to stay together for life because of love? Nowadays, marriage has become a "180,000 bride price. If you can't get it, you won't get married. " "My mother said that my name must be written on the house." "If you don't have a house, a car or a deposit, you won't consider getting married." Marriage itself has become a prerequisite for material needs.

But what are the benefits of getting married? I hope someone can cook you a hot meal? Just order a takeaway; Or do you want someone at home to clean up the room? Then an aunt can still be, even cleaner and better than the person to be married. If you want someone to drive you to work, it's not impossible to fall in love. Why do you have to get married?

People who don't want to get married are now out of breath, not to mention the large expenses of getting married, trivial things such as hotels, banquets, wedding dresses, makeup and wedding photos, as well as mortgage and car loans after marriage. It may be less than two years, both parents are forced to have children, and the woman is pregnant, waiting for labor, giving birth and confinement. It may be difficult to bring children to an age where they can't breastfeed, and then women will return to the workplace. How many companies will ask women if they plan to get married and have children in the next three years when recruiting? If so, most of them will not be hired.

There are not so many harsh demands on men. Isn't there a saying? A person is a teenager until he dies, and a flower when he is rhapsody in July. A woman, not to mention forty, urges marriage from one to thirty, and all kinds of gossip. There must be something wrong with this girl, otherwise why not get married? If marriage is only for two people to fulfill their parents' requirements, and for the sake of reproduction, Bian Xiao feels that the meaning of marriage is no longer simple. Although many people are still being urged to get married, I still believe that no one can urge me as long as I don't want to.