Dear pregnant mothers, will you always worry about the health of your baby after pregnancy? What should I do?

After pregnancy, mothers will inevitably become blx, all kinds of parenting knowledge, all kinds of assumptions, and then all kinds of worries, which feels like falling into a vicious circle.

Just like myself, I just got pregnant for more than 4 days, but I didn't have a fetal heart embryo bud, so I was inevitably uncomfortable. I waited for a two-week reexamination in fear and trembling, but the result was still not. The doctor suspected that it was an empty gestational sac, because it was not good to double the blood Hcg, so I made an appointment to arrange an abortion. My husband and I went home dejectedly, didn't sleep well all night, and the next day we were unwilling to go to another hospital for examination.

In the later period, all kinds of check-ups were going through one level after another. Down's screening failed again. We charge 2,2 yuan for non-invasiveness. My husband means that there is no need to do it, and my children will certainly be fine. But I am afraid that I can't afford to gamble after seeing the tragedy and pain caused by too many families refusing to have a prenatal examination. Those days when I wait for the results after non-invasiveness, I can't sleep because I don't know how to choose if it is certain or high risk. My children have been with me for so long. Fortunately, it passed smoothly with low risk.

Now my baby is almost 8 months old. My deepest feeling is that when the baby was not born, I was always worried about whether the baby was healthy, whether it could be born smoothly, or all kinds of worries. If the baby coughed occasionally, would it worry about whether the baby caught a cold? This is probably the so-called motherly heart!

In fact, the purpose of saying so much is that our baby is far stronger than we thought. As long as we have a prenatal check-up on time, do a good job of health care during pregnancy, and count fetal movements on time in the third trimester, the extra worries can really be put away! Eat well, sleep well, and raise your baby with peace of mind, so that your baby can grow up healthily!

First of all, it's best not to go to Baidu, because if a very healthy person goes to Baidu, the light result will be inflammation, and the heavy one will make you doubt your life.

it's normal to worry about the baby's health after pregnancy, and that's how I came.

I was pregnant unexpectedly, just in time for the Spring Festival. I didn't know I was pregnant at first, and I had a few drinks. I have been struggling for a long time whether to keep children or not, and I have searched all kinds of information, and the answer is more that it is best not to, because the fetus is in the formative stage four months before pregnancy, and pregnant women can't drink alcohol. There is also an example around me. A friend aborted the child just because he didn't know how many drinks he had when he was pregnant.

Even so, I finally decided to stay, because I didn't get pregnant after a long time of preparation, but I got pregnant without special attention. I believe that the baby came to me on his own initiative, and I can't abandon him. However, when I think about it now, I was really courageous.

Before you know it, it's the first day of abnormal NT, and the results show that the fetus is all right, so you don't have to worry about drinking. But then the problem came again, and Tang Sie failed!

I started all kinds of Baidu. What should I do if I didn't do it? What is the probability that I didn't do it non-invasively? If I can't do it non-invasively, I still have to do it. During that time, I have been searching for related questions. I always want to cry when I see an example that the Tang sieve can't pass, but it's non-invasive and the sheep can't pass.

Fortunately, after the non-invasive results came out, it showed that the fetus was all right. But after non-invasive, I am still very worried about the wrong result. After that, I struggled for a long time, and Baidu stayed for a long time. As time passed, this uneasy heart was slowly put down.

Later, at the stage of counting fetal movements, I was always worried about whether the fetus was moving well every day. Why did it move at this time the day before and stop at this time the next day? So I started all kinds of Baidu again.

However, with the growth of gestational age, my heart is getting bigger and bigger.

In fact, what is said in the answer is the worst result. When you see this answer, you should pay more attention to it at ordinary times. There is no need to take it all to heart. If you put all the bad symptoms on yourself, it will be too tired. Keeping a relaxed mood is the most important thing for pregnant mothers.

For anxiety during pregnancy, the best solution is to have a pregnancy test on time, and at the same time, you must trust yourself and your baby. If there is no genetic disease and you are not an elderly woman, the baby will definitely have no problem.

Now the baby is almost a week and two months old. He is healthy and happy every day. There is nothing wrong with him.

you must believe in yourself and your baby, come on!

Recently, I always hear feedback from pregnant mothers: Why am I always worried about the health of my baby? What should I do?

In fact, it is reasonable to worry about the healthy development of the baby. After all, separated by a layer of belly, pregnant mothers can't clearly see the baby's development, and they can only rely on several prenatal checkups during pregnancy to feel a little relieved. For a more sensitive and affectionate pregnant mother, it is simply the biggest torture for her not to confirm the safety of her child all the time!

To confirm whether the fetus is developing healthily, in addition to regular check-ups, pregnant mothers may wish to try the following methods:

1. Fetal heart detector

Fetal heart detector can effectively detect whether the fetal heart rate is in the normal range, which is a direct means to confirm the health of the fetus. Pregnant mothers can buy it and put it at home, and measure the fetal heart rate once or twice a day.

2. Fetal movement

Most pregnant mothers can feel fetal movement in the second and third trimesters. In the eyes of many pregnant mothers, fetal movement is just an unconscious impact of the fetus, which has little to do with the healthy development of the baby. In fact, as long as the pregnant mother carefully observes the fetal movement of the baby in the abdomen, she can find clues about whether the fetus is healthy or not.

Normal fetal movement is about 3-4 times a day and 3-5 times an hour. If the pregnant mother observes that the fetus has no fetal movement for a long time, or the number of fetal movements far exceeds the normal range, she must go to the hospital in time. Abnormal fetal movement is probably the baby telling you: mom, I don't feel well. Take me to the hospital quickly.

3. Observe the pregnant mother's own physical condition

During pregnancy, the pregnant mother and the fetus are an identical body. The pregnant mother's body directly reflects the health of the fetus. If the pregnant mother has abdominal pain, abnormal vaginal discharge or even bleeding, she must go to the hospital in time.

If the pregnant mother doesn't have any abnormal reaction, it also reflects the health of the fetus. At this time, the pregnant mother doesn't have to worry too much about the development of the fetus. The good mood of pregnant mother is also the driving force for the healthy growth and development of fetus!

From the moment of pregnancy, I don't worry about whether the child is healthy, which is probably a common problem for every expectant mother.

I remember from the moment I knew I was pregnant, I imagined what the baby would be like, and then I worried about what the baby would do if it was unhealthy, whether it would lose a finger or have an extra finger, and it turned out that I was scaring myself.

Baidu is convenient, but most of the knowledge there is incoherent, and a lot of information is not necessarily correct. I remember a joke that I felt uncomfortable and asked Du Niang. As a result, it seems that I should be incurable, but in fact nothing happened.

If you want to get real parenting knowledge, it's better to buy a book. After all, the knowledge there is systematic and not too one-sided. Have time to read more about parenting knowledge, buy more books, and understand all kinds of problems from pregnancy to the birth of a child, so that when to do what tests, what symptoms will appear at what stage, including how to feed the child after birth, what are the common diseases, etc., there are really many things to learn.

At the same time, keep active, do some moderate exercise every day, go out and have a look when physical conditions permit, and don't scare yourself at home alone.

In addition, every month after pregnancy, I have to go to the hospital for examination. Pregnant mothers can also take this time to ask more doctors and learn more about it.

And if you really feel unwell at ordinary times, it's better to go to the hospital in time. It's most important to keep a good mood during pregnancy.

After pregnancy, I often worry about whether my baby is healthy. Many expectant mothers have this anxiety, especially inexperienced novice mothers. In fact, it is right for expectant mothers to pay attention to and be vigilant about the situation of the baby. Paying attention to every prenatal examination and paying attention to the changes of the baby are also self-monitoring of the development of the fetus and can find problems in time. However, we should pay attention to this degree and not be anxious all the time. We should be vigilant and learn to relax ourselves.

Why are you so anxious and worried about your baby after pregnancy?

How to relieve the anxiety of expectant mothers.

This will definitely happen, and most expectant mothers will feel this way when they get pregnant for the first time. On the one hand, it is because Bao Ma doesn't understand the development of the fetus, on the other hand, it is because Bao Ma is worried about whether the baby is developing healthily, whether it is deformed, whether it will lack arms and legs or something. In particular, expectant mothers who have been pregnant for a long time, experienced fetal arrest, or miscarried, can't eat or sleep in the event of trouble, for fear that the baby will have a little mistake, which will lead to the final mental stress, which is not conducive to the development of the baby. So what should we do? It is generally relatively safe in the second trimester. Here, we focus on the first and third trimesters.

Early pregnancy (January-February-March)

1. Did not eat folic acid before pregnancy, will it affect the baby?

when we learned that we were pregnant and went to the hospital for examination, the doctor said that we had been pregnant for one month. Some treasure moms are pregnant for 1 month, and they haven't eaten folic acid yet. What should I do? Is there still time? Then I started to worry.

About folic acid: If folic acid is obviously lacking in pregnant women, it may lead to fetal neural tube malformation. If you eat vegetables regularly and have a balanced nutrition, you don't have to worry about folic acid deficiency at all. Folic acid is actually a vitamin, which exists in many foods. For example, vegetables, carrots, tomatoes, Chinese cabbage, spinach, mushrooms and so on, as well as fruits, strawberries, cherries, bananas, lemons and so on, as well as animal livers. Therefore, I usually eat these, so I don't have to worry at all.

Only as a doctor, from the perspective of prevention, will we be advised to start supplementing folic acid in the first three months of pregnancy and take it until the third month of pregnancy. I was pregnant for a long time and stopped folic acid when I was not pregnant. Later, I waited until I was pregnant. And it turned out fine. So, don't worry about this.

2. Will the baby be deformed after taking medicine, losing weight, taking X-rays and drinking alcohol before pregnancy?

Zheng Yuqiao, who has been engaged in medical work for 3 years, mentioned in her book "Zheng Yuqiao Parenting Classic: Fetal Volume":

Exposure to X-rays and taking drugs with teratogenic potential may cause harm to the fetus, but if you plan to have children, you must plan ahead before pregnancy.

3. After pregnancy, if progesterone is low, will the baby stop having a baby and have an abortion?

Many expectant mothers are pregnant with children, but because of low progesterone, they are very afraid of losing their children or stopping their pregnancy. I have a classmate who has a very low progesterone value in the early pregnancy, and is on tenterhooks all day. He also goes to the hospital for injections every day, and a dozen times is three months. It can be seen how low her progesterone value is. Fortunately, she survived the first trimester and saved her child. But if we don't keep it in the first trimester, we shouldn't be sad, which only shows that the fetus is not ready. We follow the laws of nature and survive the fittest.

Let's talk about what progesterone is and what role it can play. Let me give you an example. In the early pregnancy, my classmate didn't feel tired at all and didn't want to sleep. Then I was very tired in the first trimester and wanted to sleep. Therefore, we can see the difference of progesterone from here, which just plays a role in hypnosis and miscarriage prevention. Without it, pregnant women will not feel sleepy, and the endometrium will be easily excited, which is not conducive to the growth and development of the fetus. If it is serious, it will flow away.

In addition, there may be vaginal bleeding and abdominal pain in the early pregnancy. If this happens, it does not mean that the fetus will miscarry or be unhealthy. My sister had this experience when she was pregnant with her second child, but all the babies born in the end were healthy. So, don't be nervous. If you have any problems, please see a doctor in time.

The third trimester (August-September-October)

The expectant mother who enters the third trimester will worry about many problems, such as the baby's fetal movement. If the baby doesn't like to move and is worried about whether the baby will have problems, is the umbilical cord around the neck? Lack of oxygen Can you still give birth naturally? Anyway, all kinds of worries.

1. Fetal movement and fetal heart rate, umbilical cord around the neck, hypoxia

Fetal movement is still relatively frequent in August, but it will decrease in September, and the baby is preparing for his birth. At this time, the fetal heart rate will also drop, and the normal range is 14-16 beats/minute. If there is no abnormal performance, generally don't worry too much. If the fetal heart rate is less than 12 beats/min, or more than 18 beats/min, you should pay attention to observation. It's best to buy a fetal heart, which is not expensive. Listen to it twice a day and you won't be so worried. Because it is difficult to count fetal movements in the third trimester, I bought one and listened to it every day, which made me less worried. No longer worry about whether the baby will lack oxygen, whether the umbilical cord will wrap around the neck and other issues.

2. Will high blood sugar affect the baby's development?

A expectant mother with gestational diabetes will worry about the baby's "safety" as soon as her blood sugar is high, and she is afraid that the baby will be born unhealthy. At that time, my blood sugar was also high, and I was really afraid that my baby would be unhealthy, so I tried to control my blood sugar. Sometimes, even in my mind, I will see the scene of the nurse giving the baby an injection, which shows how worried the mother is.

3. Stay up until the third trimester, and worry about the baby's premature delivery

In the third trimester, you should adopt a safe sexual life style. In life, we should also avoid large movements, don't lift heavy objects, and pay attention to rest. If there is any problem, seek medical advice in time. If there are signs of premature delivery, you should listen to your doctor's advice.

conclusion: for women, pregnancy is both happiness and worry, and pain is combined with happiness. As long as we pay attention to rest and eat well, we should not think about it. If we are often nervous, this nervous mood will also be passed on to the baby, and if it is serious, it will also affect the development of the baby. So, when the baby comes, most of them are still healthy. Pregnant mothers should not worry too much. <