Talk about how to change your personality a little.

Personality determines success or failure. I hope I can form the personality that a successful person should have. Please help me do it. Thank you. (I am 16 years old this year. ) Now, there are several bad personalities that hinder me. 1. Pride and small achievements can make me relax for a long time. (I won the first place in the senior high school entrance examination and went to the key class of the best school in our city. But I just indulge in this achievement every day. It's been over half a year. I have no perseverance. What I decide is always delayed by laziness. I like to talk about my achievements in front of others, and I am very arrogant. For example, when I did well in the exam, I asked others what my score was, but I still said that I did poorly in the exam. ) 4. Love to reveal other people's secrets, promise to forget them often, and lose the trust of others. 5. I like to show off when I do things. Not serious enough. I like not serious enough. 7. I don't pay attention to occasions and other people's feelings. For example, before the basketball game, I said something that undermined the prestige of our team. ) 8. I am narrow-minded, and there are always one or two people in my heart who don't like it and have a bad attitude towards them. 9. I don't have a mind of my own. I have to ask others everything for fear that others won't like it. (I was originally out of the psychology of asking for your opinions, but I was accused of being a class cadre because of this)-1-2 is not the point that hinders my progress. But after getting to know me, I began to get tired of it. ) I really hope to have my own sincere friends, instead of being unwilling to sit with me as my classmates are now. This problem has been bothering me for 16 years. Since kindergarten, I have always had a very annoying feeling. I gave a high score of 100, hoping to give me some advice on this issue and let me change these bad feelings.