Why do more and more rural people now want to have daughters?

Why do rural people now like to have daughters? Facts speak louder than words. Think about it: whenever a couple gives birth to several sons in a rural area, the old couple will end up miserable. Anyone who gives birth to several daughters will eventually enjoy a happy life and die a good death. Nowadays, the old concept of childbearing in rural areas is falling apart, and raising children cannot prevent old age. Too many real-life examples tell everyone the truth that it is better to have a daughter than to have a son. Because there are so many benefits to having a daughter, most rural elderly people only understand this truth when they are bedridden. So what are the benefits of having a daughter?

First of all, the most important thing is for a daughter to be filial. The old Fu family in our village gave birth to six sons, all of whom were married to wives. Now each of the six sons is richer than the last, but none of them is willing to serve the old man. In the end, the old couple died in poverty. Lao Tian's family gave birth to three daughters. Now when the old couple catches a cold, their daughters rush to the hospital and take turns to take care of the elderly. During holidays, the three daughters come back to visit the two elderly people. It’s lively. There are many such examples in the village, so I won’t list them all. Facts have proved that daughters are more filial than sons and know the difficulties and hardships of the elderly.

Secondly, daughters are more considerate than sons. The daughter is more attentive than the son. When the old man is lonely, sick, or lacks something at home, the daughter will appear in front of the old man in time to help the old man solve his problems. She will accompany the old man thoughtfully and arrange everything before going back. Not so with the son.

The cost of marriage for a daughter is relatively small, so there is basically no need to worry about getting married. Nowadays, those who give birth to sons are most afraid of their sons getting married. Houses, cars, and betrothal gifts often cost tens or even millions, but how many families can afford this?

Finally, the daughter can also receive a considerable gift when she gets married. This money can provide a solid guarantee for the elderly in their later years. Son? He's just a loser, so it's already good if he doesn't come to chew on his old age.

In Kang County, Longnan, there has been a custom of men marrying women since ancient times. That is, after a boy grows up, he finds a family to marry, and then the woman becomes the head of the family, and she has to listen to her in everything. of. That’s why rural people here especially don’t like giving birth to boys.

In view of the above reasons, most rural people now hope to have daughters rather than sons.

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Looking at this question, it should be divided into two. In recent years, the concept of childbearing in rural areas has undergone great changes. In the past, they preferred to have boys, but now they prefer to have girls. What is the reason why the old concept of "raising children to protect against old age" in rural areas has been changed.

Since January 1, 2017, the country has relaxed its two-child policy. For newly married young couples, it does not matter whether the first child is a boy or a girl. But for some mothers who already have a boy, they really want to have a second child but don't want to have one, for fear that the second child will be a boy again. So why are rural people so afraid of having boys? There are reasons:

1. Boys are more naughty and disobedient than girls. They are not serious about studying. They often skip school and like to go to Internet cafes. They are easy to learn bad things. Parents often want to have sons. Headache.

2. When the daughter reaches the age of marriage, she will not worry about getting married. As for a boy, his parents must buy him a house, a car, and a wife.

3. After marrying a daughter-in-law, you forget about your mother. When a boy has a daughter-in-law, he often doesn’t even want his parents. In rural areas, sons should not be mentioned as supporting their parents. It would be considered good if they don’t gnaw at their old age. Some parents have raised sons to raise grandchildren. .

Girls, on the other hand, have listened to their parents since they were young and are neither naughty nor bad. When I go out to work, I always think about my parents. I often call and buy clothes and gifts for my parents. The girl is attentive and always remembers her parents' birthdays. Even when she gets married, she will think of her parents and go home often. If the parents are sick, they will contribute money and help. Before and after running away, the parents are better than the parents. And the son still doesn’t know where he is at this time. Maybe the daughter-in-law will not allow him to come?

Based on the above reasons, rural people like to have daughters, which saves worry, effort and money. When they are old, their daughters will serve them. Only daughters will hurt their parents, and daughters are the mother's heart.

You can’t say that. First of all, having a boy or a girl is not a human decision. Moreover, in rural areas, the idea of ??raising children for old age still prevails. Of course, society is changing, and so are people’s living standards and thoughts. Changes are taking place. Not only does giving birth to a boy prevent aging, but giving birth to a daughter also prevents aging.

So is it better to have a boy or a daughter?

It is difficult to get married in rural areas now, the bride price is too high, and there are too few girls.

It is obvious that in the past few decades, rural people’s thoughts have been to have boys and have more children. There are many boys who do not want to have a girl, and even check in advance whether they are a boy or a girl. This kind of behavior that favors boys over girls has led to the imbalance that there are too many men than women in rural areas.

There are more men than women, which has led to insufficient demand for women now. From a commodity perspective, demand exceeds supply and prices rise, so betrothal gifts are on the rise. Some who have only one son are fine, but they are gritting their teeth in front of them. It can still hold up, but if there are two or more boys, it may not be optimistic.

In this situation, many people have suffered too much torture and helplessness. They sigh, why did I give birth to so many sons? It is really a pain for them. If I only have one son, the others will be What a wonderful daughter.

Life and thinking have changed too much

Nowadays, if many boys in rural areas do not study, they are often village hegemons in the village. In fact, I also live in rural areas. I have seen I have lived with many men who have been very rebellious and disobedient since childhood. Coupled with the pampering of their parents, they are really reluctant to give up a piece of flesh and take good care of them. As a result, when these men grow up, the situation becomes worse and worse, and they don’t even care. Less than.

Maybe it’s because the living conditions have improved, and there are conditions, but they are always here and there. Do you think they will steal things? Who knows, ask them to work, haha, they have been doting on them since they were young. When I grew up, I never experienced that kind of suffering. Maybe I would go gambling or play. I would ask my parents for money when I ran out of money. I would ask my parents to pay back debts. I would say a few unpleasant words to them, and I would even beat my parents.

In these circumstances, do people prefer to have a girl or a boy?

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I don’t agree with the question raised by the subject. In essence, rural people still want to have boys, not girls. But with the failure cases of raising children to prevent old age, rural people are no longer willing to have two sons. This is a fact, but when it comes to choosing between two daughters and two sons, 90% of rural people will choose two sons, and 100% I would choose a son and a daughter, let’s see my point of view.

As the saying goes, people live one breath at a time. In rural areas, although everyone knows that it may be more reliable to provide for two daughters in the future, the traditional thinking has not been completely eradicated. Those who have two daughters are still prone to suffering behind their backs. People say that when you live in a rural area, you are most afraid of being criticized.

In fact, regardless of children, there are good and bad, some are filial and some are unfilial. It’s just that we have infinitely magnified the unfilial nature of our sons, but we watch our daughters being unfilial. Sons should be filial, because You just want to support the elderly, and it doesn't matter if you don't support your daughter, because you will no longer be part of this family when you get married. With this kind of thinking, more and more people say that raising children is unreliable.

Rural elders often say: "When you get old, your son will be by your side, and you will have someone to take care of you." The ideological tradition of raising children for old age cannot be broken in a short time. In the words of farmers, without a son, if the old man in the village passes away in the future, there will not even be enough people to carry him out for the funeral.

As the cultural level of farmers continues to improve, these traditional ideas will eventually be broken, but it is still too early to say now.

To find a daughter-in-law, a house, a car, and a bride price of less than hundreds of thousands. How many years would it take a farmer to find a daughter-in-law with a monthly income of 3,000 yuan without food or clothing?

Times are developing and ideas are changing. Giving birth to a son in rural areas is a heavier financial burden than giving birth to a daughter. If you have a son, you have to use all the family's income to get him a wife and have children. The burden of having a daughter is not that big.

Furthermore, the daughter is attentive and knows how to love her parents. As the saying goes: "A daughter is her parents' little cotton-padded jacket." When parents are sick, the daughter is more attentive and takes better care of her than the son.

Based on these two points, more people in rural areas are willing to have daughters.

In the new era and new fashion, raising children and raising daughters is the same. It is true to say that people in rural areas want to raise daughters. Raising children requires more money and is very stressful. The real thing is to have children and raise children, and to have daughters. No one is resenting my adopted daughter, it’s just talk!

Nowadays, girls in rural areas are attracted to girls. This is due to the influence of the general environment. Now, with the improvement of women's social status, the family status is even more powerful, as high as the sky.

In rural areas, the imbalance between men and women is serious. Boys are worried about finding a partner. If the conditions are not good enough, they may become singles. Even if there is a girl, it will cost a lot of money to marry her, and she must be carefully waited on. It is too precious. Hard-won.

Girls can not only ask for a sum of money, but also have no worries about not being able to get married.

The daughter will also bring back a son-in-law who is more filial and obedient than the son. Kill multiple birds with one stone.

They are not the same. Our small mountain village has good conditions.

In order for their children to have a better life after marriage, many women also bring some wedding clothes, but in some cases, some brothers Or the younger brother will ask for a betrothal gift ranging from 50,000 yuan to 200,000 yuan. You also need a house, a car, land, cattle or sheep, and you have to pay six to seven hundred thousand to get married. Of course, only the bride price belongs to the woman’s parents, and the rest is the property of the two of them after marriage.

With the progress of society, people's concepts are also changing, and they are all thinking about it. They have all faced reality.

This can only show that people nowadays are becoming more and more realistic. In the past, they raised children to protect themselves from old age, but now they raise daughters to protect themselves from old age.

This sounds a bit awkward, but in fact it is like this. Raising children not only cannot prevent old age, but also peels off several layers of skin of the old until the second elder is stripped bare. Some elders even destroy the house. They were all sold and had no place to live. One son is better, but the more sons there are, the more no one cares about them, and they blame each other. In the end, only the daughter dies.

However, according to rural customs, daughters do not have the right to inherit their parents’ property. The result is that the son earns property and the daughter provides for the elderly, but does not inherit any property.

In the past, there was a saying in rural areas about carrying on the family line, but now people have figured it out. It is said that one life does not care about the other two lives. If this generation is passed on, it may not be passed on to the next generation.

The idea of ??having a daughter first originated in the city, because the city realizes that raising children to provide for old age is not trustworthy, and they have to spend all their savings to buy a house for their son. After the son gets married, he has to take care of the next generation and his life after retirement. More tiring than going to work. Many people don't want to have sons. Having a daughter means they will make money. The daughter is not only filial, but she doesn't have to buy a house. After the daughter gets married, she doesn't have to take care of the children. After retirement, you can enjoy your happiness in your later years.

To this day, rural areas have also seen this, so young people also hope to have daughters to reduce the pressure in life.