Generally, children can climb first and then walk. Why do some children go first and don't climb?

People often say that "three turns and six sittings, seven rolls and eight crawls" are based on the situation of most children, that is, the average value, just like the standard line when we have a physical examination. In fact, every baby's development is different, and the growth time of these stages is different.

My baby will turn over in two months, sit in five months, roll in seven months, and learn to walk at one year and six months.

My baby can't climb, and later he learned to walk late, which deeply touched me. Here, I will share my experience with you, and parents can learn from it in the future.

First, when the baby was crawling, my baby's father and I didn't train her to crawl. Plus the baby is fat in winter, and she doesn't want to climb, so she misses the climbing stage. This leads to poor balance, slow walking and slow speaking in the later period.

When the baby can climb, it is best for parents to bring a small toy that can make a sound, or other things that the baby is interested in, and guide her to climb more.

Second, the late addition of complementary food leads to the slow development of baby's legs and feet, which affects climbing and walking. The average child needs to add a lot of complementary food when he is six months old. At that time, the baby didn't want to eat complementary food, and my breast milk was enough, so I added complementary food two months late.

Third, children who stand and walk without climbing will be lacking in some sports with high sense of balance, which can be corrected and reversed by special training before the age of three.

In this case, my father and I consulted many experts and doctors for advice. At the age of two, she signed up for an early education class. After special training, the baby's sense of balance came up and performed well in some balance sports.

There is a popular folk saying: "Turn over three times, sit six times and climb nine times", which means that a child turns over for three months, sits for six months and climbs for nine months. This proverb describes the development time of several big movements of a baby. In fact, these time points are only an average, and not every baby's action development accurately follows this time.

Everyone has individual differences, and so do babies. For example, some babies will crawl in seven or eight months, and some babies will learn to crawl after ten months, and even stand up and walk directly without going through the crawling stage.

For example, my friend's children have never been able to crawl. The couple have tried all kinds of methods, but they still can't learn. He left at the last year. Dad is worried about his son's poor balance when he grows up. He has participated in various sports since he was a child. Now this young man is very smart and healthy. He can skate, swim and play ball.

Children who have never crawled may have weak athletic balance in the future, but this situation can be improved through training the day after tomorrow. For example, the example I just mentioned, the father intends to guide his children to participate in various physical exercises. Although the child has not been able to crawl, there is no problem in body balance and movement coordination when he grows up.

However, there is one thing to note: if parents find that their children should not climb when they should, it is best to go to the hospital for a physical examination first, because some diseases of the nervous system will hinder the baby's movement, but this is also rare, and most babies are very healthy.

"Three turns, six sitting, nine crawling, one-year-old toddler" According to the growth law of babies, it is true that they should climb first and then learn to walk, but now some children have crossed the crawling period and learned to walk directly. When the sensory system is out of balance, it is too late to come back and practice crawling. Why is this? Because these babies can't crawl until they learn to walk.

1. Parents' excessive care prevents children from getting the opportunity to exercise.

Many babies are born with "stars holding the moon". As the saying goes, "If you hold it in your hand, you will be afraid of melting." When the baby begins to crawl consciously, it will show exertion and crying. Parents will start to feel distressed and quickly pick them up. After a long time, the baby felt comfortable being held and slowly gave up crawling.

2. Their own strength is insufficient, and they are not inclined enough in the early stage.

The baby can look up in two months. Don't underestimate the training of raising your head. Babies only look up when they are prone. Training your baby to lie down on time every day can increase your baby's physical strength and prepare for turning over and crawling in the future. Some parents don't exercise their baby's prone consciousness, so that the baby can develop by himself, and big movements can't be exercised, which leads to insufficient strength of crawling limbs and affects the baby's crawling ability.

3. Thick clothes affect crawling

Some babies crawl in winter. In order to keep warm, parents wear thick and heavy clothes for their baby, which greatly affects the baby's crawling, and the limbs are tied tightly, not to mention crawling, even sitting is very difficult.

4. The intervention of the elderly affects the baby's crawling.

Old people always feel that the floor is cold when they are old, and they are afraid that the baby will catch cold when climbing on the ground, which is not good for the development of legs. On this ground, it prevents the baby from crawling. Some old people think that the floor is dirty and full of bacteria, so they simply don't let the baby climb. This situation has caused many babies to have no chance to crawl at all.

In short, babies can't crawl. The reason is caused by human intervention. Too much clothes, too little exercise, fear of catching a cold, fear of bacteria, etc. The baby's living environment can't be sterile. Parents should not be overly nervous, which will affect the baby's crawling. If it causes sensory imbalance, it is too late to regret it.

In fact, there are too many benefits for babies to crawl, so parents should encourage their babies to crawl more.

Before the baby crawls, it can only rely on the strength of adults to move. When the baby learns to crawl by himself, he can get the toys he wants and reach the places he wants. His vision is broadened, and the baby is willing to climb.

Experts point out that babies have to crawl for 800 hours, at least 500 hours.

So what if children learn to walk directly without crawling? The most common is sensory imbalance. What is sensory imbalance? To put it bluntly, sensory imbalance is the poor coordination between the child's brain and body, which will lead to poor sports ability, lagging learning ability, timid personality, irritability, hyperactivity, lack of logical thinking ability, lack of sense of direction and so on.

Some surveys have found that 90% of children with sensory integration disorder can't crawl. Crawling is internationally recognized as the best means to prevent "sensory imbalance". We often hear a saying: "A baby who can crawl is smarter than a baby who can walk", because a baby who can crawl better has been trained in his brain, and his physical coordination will be much better than that of a baby who can't crawl.

When the baby is 5 to 6 months old, it can be ready to crawl.

1. What is the correct crawling posture?

When the baby turns over skillfully, it reaches the starting point of learning to crawl. At this time, most babies will support themselves with their abdomen, and then their limbs will move irregularly. This crawling posture will be very difficult at first, so treasure moms should help their babies exercise their hands to support their bodies gradually.

Crawling means that the baby's stomach clings to the ground, supports the body to crawl with the strength of the upper limbs, and then gradually strengthens the strength of the lower limbs. If the baby feels tired when crawling, parents can push the baby's feet back to help him crawl. Most babies choose this position when they start crawling.

The baby's limbs have enough strength to support the body to crawl, just like the posture of a bear walking. In the process of crawling, the baby's ass will wriggle around. Most babies begin to use bear crawling when their strength reaches a certain level, laying a foundation for standing and walking in the future.

Some babies began to crawl backwards. At this time, parents should not obstruct. No matter which direction the baby climbs, as long as it moves, it is a good start. Parents should encourage more. When the baby crawls hard, parents should help the baby crawl.

2. How to help your baby crawl

Using a long towel or blanket, let the baby lie on the ground or bed, put the towel on the baby's chest, lift the baby's upper body, lift the abdomen off the ground, and land on all fours, which can help the baby practice crawling posture.

The baby will lie on the ground. At this time, the baby's legs are bent, but still can't climb. At this time, parents should push the baby's feet behind the baby to promote the baby to crawl forward step by step.

Some babies climb backwards when they first start climbing. This is because the baby's soles lack strength. A mother can put a pillow or her own hands on her baby's feet. When the baby retreats, step on the pillow and push forward. This will let the baby know that the feet can move forward. Try a few more times, and the baby will naturally climb forward.

4. Increase the fun of baby crawling

When the baby is sitting, it is motionless. At this time, parents need to guide the baby from sitting position to prone position. You can choose a baby's favorite toy and put it not far in front of the baby (where the baby can get it while lying down), and slowly guide the baby to lie down. Although it is a small gesture, it is a prelude to the baby's crawling. It is also a victory for a baby to reach his favorite toy on his stomach before crawling. When the baby is skilled, you can put the toys on the left, right and back of the baby's body. As long as the baby sees it, he will try to bend down to get it.

If there is a swimming ring or hula hoop at home, it can be placed in front of the baby, and the mother can hold it well and climb over the hoop as a hole. Every time I succeed, my mother encourages me. Mom and dad can crawl with the baby to increase the fun of crawling.

Put the baby's favorite food not far in front of the baby and tempt him to crawl. When he succeeds in crawling for a small step, he should reward the baby with food, which will also motivate him and reap the joy of crawling.

In short, if you want your baby to stand and walk better, you must strengthen crawling training. The baby crawls just like Gai Lou. Only when the foundation is solid can the building be built higher and higher. Don't be afraid of dirty floors and cold bodies. Parents should do their best to help their baby through the critical crawling period and let the baby learn to walk better in the future.

Most children can crawl before they can walk. Why can't some children walk or climb? This question should be asked to parents with children! According to the development guidance of baby's big movements, it is really necessary to learn to crawl before walking upright, but in real life, many babies learn to walk first, then come back to learn to crawl, or don't learn to crawl at all. Why is this? Because they can't climb, they will leave!

1. Parents hug too much and don't give their baby a chance to exercise:

Many parents hold their baby in their arms at any time, and the baby won't climb without a chance to learn to climb by himself. Or the baby cried because he just started practicing climbing, and was picked up and comforted by his parents when he cried. Over time, children form the idea of dependence. Compared with crawling, of course, it is more comfortable to be held!

2. Wear too much, which hinders crawling practice and leads to losing interest in crawling;

According to the development standard of baby's big movements, it usually starts crawling around 7~8 months, but some babies are in cold winter from July to August, so they will wear thick clothes to keep warm. This kind of equipment is not conducive to practicing crawling, so children often don't want to lie down in less than a minute, let alone crawl.

3. Parents teach to walk too early, which makes the baby unwilling to climb again;

Ask you who has been walking upright for decades, are you willing to crawl forward now? The answer is self-evident Who wants to climb after learning to walk? How convenient and extensive it is to walk, much better than to climb! Why climb when you can walk? Walking babies think so, too!

4. Not prone enough, the baby's own muscle conditions for practicing crawling can't reach:

If the prone exercise is not in place, the muscles of the back, neck and limbs can't meet the requirements, and the limbs can't support their own bodies, then he can't crawl.

Generally speaking, babies can't crawl mostly because their parents hold them too much and their children exercise too little. Babies are very clever. When they know that they can see, hold and play more things when they stand up, they don't want to climb anymore!

Before the baby learns to crawl, the baby's range of activities is limited. Once he starts crawling, his activity area will increase a lot! And crawling will bring a lot of fun.

According to scientific research, every baby should crawl for 500 hours. Children who don't climb enough will have a poor sense of balance in their later life activities, and their hands, feet and brain can't be better coordinated. Many parents may worry about synesthesia!

In the BBC documentary "The Fantasy World of North Nose", the baby was tested on the cliff. They built a glass landscape platform similar to tourist attractions and a glass plank road as a "cliff" for babies to climb.

Children who have just started climbing will not hesitate to move forward, while babies who have been climbing for several weeks will linger on the edge of the "cliff" and are unwilling to move forward. This shows that when the baby crawls, not only the coordination of limbs, but also the brain is thinking.

This kind of game is the same for my little pig. I didn't know where the bed was at first, so I kept climbing. A week later, I learned about "bedside", so I stopped looking forward. Besides, he stood by himself after climbing enough, and I didn't help at all!

So it is necessary for us to let the baby learn to crawl enough.

The development of large-scale sports follows the principle of "learning two things in the morning and not teaching three things", that is, squatting early, learning to turn over, learning to crawl, not teaching to sit, standing and walking. Then it is necessary to train the baby to crawl!

1. How to climb?

Normal crawling posture: support the ground with palms and calves (knees), and then cross forward.

There are some other crawling postures:

No matter what kind of crawling posture the baby appears, as long as the baby is willing to move by himself, it is a good start!

Different crawling postures use different muscle groups, so even crawling brings different effects and experiences to children. But this does not mean that there is something wrong with the baby, just that there is not enough time for crawling practice.

2. How to carry out crawling training

① More prone: The baby should start prone training as soon as possible, so that his back, neck, hands and other muscle groups can be exercised as soon as possible. If the baby's muscle development is not in place, the baby's limbs can't support the body and can't crawl. There will be many people who "learn early!"

2 Crawl with the baby: When the baby was born, he saw that people were walking upright, so he didn't know how to crawl. So mom and dad can crawl with the baby, crawl in front of the baby and tell the baby what the correct crawling posture is. Although the baby can't speak or express, you have to believe that the baby's learning ability is very strong. At the same time, it can also enhance the baby's sense of security and make the baby more interesting when crawling.

3. Help your baby crawl and exercise properly:

4. Practice a few small games while crawling.

When the baby is climbing, I can climb with him to show him the correct hairstyle and posture.

Put some of his favorite toys in front of the baby and lure him to climb forward to get the toys.

When the baby starts to crawl, he will know how to judge the "distance", that is, which toys can be easily reached by crawling a little, and which items are too far to climb over. So don't put the toys too far away, lest the baby lose patience and be unwilling to climb forward.

Put a mirror in front of the baby or turn on the camera with your mobile phone to let the baby see yourself.

The baby won't know who is in the mirror until 15 months. Although he doesn't know the people inside, he will find that the people in the mirror are doing the same actions as himself, laughing and crying, which is very fun. You'll have the motivation to climb over and catch him!

(3) Food lure, teasing the baby like a kitten or a puppy.

During the crawling period, the baby has started to eat complementary food. At this time, you can use food to lure your baby to climb forward. Cut the food into strips and hold it in your hand. Tell the baby: come and have something to eat. Lure the baby to crawl up to you for food.

In short, let the baby find out how fun crawling is as soon as possible, and the baby will fall in love with crawling! After crawling in place, the baby can stand by and watch. So climb with the baby!

Thanks for reading!

Children who can crawl for a long time have better coordination ... in the month when children should climb, let them climb more ... otherwise, after this time, they will not. ...

My son began to climb soon after he could sit for six months. A colleague's daughter is three months older than my son, that is, she didn't learn to climb for seven or eight months, and then she won't climb. She stood directly, and learned to walk after standing ... Her daughter's walking is obviously not as steady as my son's, and her movements are not as flexible and coordinated as my son's. ...

Generally speaking, the baby who can crawl first will learn to walk slowly, and the baby who can't crawl will learn to walk earlier. Without scientific proof, babies who can't crawl are not smart. When the baby learns to crawl, the baby who can't crawl will use other methods instead of crawling.

Don't worry that the child won't climb after leaving. My son will walk first and then climb. My son doesn't learn how to motivate him to climb (I will climb with him).

First of all, when the child can stand up against the wall slowly, we will grab the child's two small hands from behind, and slowly give the child a force to lean forward, so that the child can slowly learn to step (parents stand behind the child and one small hand gives him a finger), and gradually change from two hands to one hand. A few days later, an adult was about a meter away from the child, and another person asked the child to hold the adult's finger behind the child and walk to the parents (preferably the mother in front of the child). In a few days, the two parents will face each other, and the child will walk from his father to his mother by holding his parents' arms. Walk a few more times and slowly increase the distance. Remember to praise the baby. My son can walk independently from 1 1 month to1month and a half.

My son has three little friends. Every child is born half a month apart. They play together all day, and the youngest child can walk independently in ten months. My conclusion is that it is useful to have children to demonstrate.

My son/kloc-will climb back in about 0/6 months, so parents don't have to worry.

Crawling is the gradual progress of baby's growth and development, and it is the most important sensory comprehensive exercise in infancy, which can promote the development of vestibule and cerebellum and the muscle development of waist. It can also promote the elongation of the spine, thus making the body grow taller; It can also make the bones strong and lay the foundation for exercising endurance in the future, so it is very important for the baby's development.

Some babies will climb very early, and some babies will climb very late, but sooner or later, mom and dad should take climbing as the focus of training.

Take the example of my two children!

The eldest daughter didn't climb and walk directly when she was a child. The second daughter learned to climb first and then learn to walk. Then I compared the parenting patterns of the next two children and found that the reason why the children walked without learning to climb was caused by the walker.

When the eldest daughter just learned to sit, grandpa bought her a walker, and then we put the child in the walker. The child had little chance to move on the ground by himself, and naturally he did not have the ability to exercise and climb. Later, when the child learned to walk, she learned to walk directly in the walker.

My second daughter didn't use a walker at that time, because the walker was given away, and then I took care of the children at home full-time, so I witnessed the children crawling from scratch. At first, my daughter sat and played by herself. Later, when she was able to move slowly, she knew that she was crawling on the ground. Finally, she was able to stand up against the doorframe or desk and chair, thus learning to climb to walk.

However, some children either walk because the walker can't climb, or suddenly one day the mother finds that the baby can't climb when walking. This is actually personal development and has no influence on future development. Parents don't have to worry.

Babies learn to crawl in about 8 months. At the beginning, the baby crawls in three stages, that is, some babies crawl backwards. Some babies are spinning in the same place; Some people crawl forward, which is a climbing process. After the baby's limbs are coordinated, he can stand up and climb with his hands.

The baby entered the sensitive period of crawling from 7 months old. At this time, it is necessary to properly exercise the baby to crawl every day. If the baby is timid and can't climb, mom and dad can stick their palms on the baby's feet and apply a little thrust to let the baby crawl forward under the action of the resistance behind them.

After 8 months, the baby can sit firmly. At this time, they can lie down or lie down by themselves when sitting, instead of passively falling down, they can start to climb forward by themselves, but their limbs are still uncoordinated, and they will still climb forward with their stomachs.

10 months later, the baby can crawl quickly and stand up by himself. If an adult holds the baby's hand, you can take a few steps. Once the baby has stood up, they will always want to stand up, then slowly stop crawling and concentrate more on standing and walking.

Therefore, if you want your baby to develop step by step, don't let your baby walk the walker too early, and don't let your baby learn to stand and walk too early, otherwise your baby won't like crawling.

My home can go first and then climb behind.

I think it has something to do with the baby's personality first.

My baby, like a natural neat freak. He thinks the black mat on the floor is dirty and doesn't want to stand on it. When you can stand up, put him on the steps, but he won't stand up. It's too dirty. Put it in a clean place, and you are willing to look for it. When he was a child, he was fat and could crawl. When he climbs, sometimes he sees a hair or something, so he doesn't want to climb again.

Also, children are naturally quiet. I don't usually climb up and down. Belongs to the quiet type. Move less, crawl less.

Secondly, I think adults have more.

Adults have been holding it, and children naturally don't like to climb. My old people like to hug. Always hug. How can children get exercise like this?

I think whether climbing a mountain or walking is just an act. Either way, it will not affect the child's intelligence. A child who will go first will still climb behind. Children who can crawl may not walk fast. It doesn't make much sense. That's it.

This is not a strange phenomenon. For example, some children are learning to crawl in winter, or there are many people at home, so they miss the period of learning to crawl, and then go straight!