Children's "crazy behavior" is not as simple as a cheerful personality. How should parents educate them?

It is not as simple as a cheerful personality for children to be "crazy". How should parents educate them?

Cheerful and lively are the best words to describe your personality. If your child has a lively and cheerful personality from an early age, his life path will definitely be smoother. Due to their extroverted personality, children will have good interpersonal relationships and will not be limited by the current difficulties.

But there is a "level" of liveliness and cheerfulness. Once this level is exceeded, people will become "crazy". He seems to have a particularly cheerful temperament, but he is actually a typical "devil". Behind the scenes and hidden are the bad sides of children that need parents to pay attention to. 1. What does “people go crazy” mean? Let's take a look

The so-called "people come crazy" can be understood from the literal meaning: in places with many people, people will behave like "crazy". That's right, that's what "crazy" children are like. Whether he is visiting other people's homes or having customers come to serve him, as long as there are strangers, he will be particularly excited and active, and even make many exaggerated expressions and gestures.

For the sake of face, others may praise you casually: "The child doesn't recognize life at all" or "The child has a pretty good personality." But the implication behind other people's words is also the "rebuke" that parents can't see. Because of the child's behavior, it has already seriously affected the lives and emotions of others.

It is no exaggeration to say that children's "crazy behavior" is due to the harmful teachings of their parents. Others will also discuss it privately, and even label the child as "uneducated", and the parents will also reprimand them. 2. What secrets are hidden behind children’s “crazy behavior”? 1. Strong desire for expression

A series of personal behaviors and expressions performed by children are to achieve the inner competitiveness. For this reason, To gain attention and praise from others. Children simply believe that as long as you show yourself sincerely, you will be seen. In fact, this desire for expression has already exceeded the standard, showing a trend of psychological distortion. 2. Desire for attention

It is very likely that the parents were very busy at work in the past, or due to their own reasons, the children were always neglected. As children grow older, they crave more attention from people, especially from their parents. Therefore, they behave in their own way, and even if they are punished by their mother in the end, they still feel very happy. 3. Symptoms of not knowing how to socialize

There is also a type of child who looks forward to integrating into social life and making friends with more unfamiliar people. However, I lack social skills and don't know what kind of method is appropriate, so I can only rely on "people come crazy" actions to express myself. In the child's mind, this is the easier way to get closer to a good friend.

From this point of view, no matter what the reason is for the "crazy" temperament, it is not a good thing. For children, their life journey has just begun, but they have to bear undue pressure. Parents should be aware of the harm that "crazy" behavior can do to their children, and help them prepare in advance and change their current habits.

Indeed, "people come crazy" can be said to be extremely impolite behavior for customers; for parents, it is also a very embarrassing personal behavior, wishing there was a gap to slip in; for children In other words, it is a "stumbling block" that determines their personal behavior, habits and character. 3. Faced with "crazy" children, how should parents educate them?

Should they loudly reprimand them to stop, or should they just "beat them up"? In fact, both methods are unreliable. It is very likely that most children have no idea that their "crazy" behavior is wrong, let alone the impact it has on other people.

So the key now is to make children aware of the various serious harms caused by "crazy" behavior. An effective method is to use role reversal to let children experience embarrassment and rudeness. Only in this way can they deepen their understanding of "people come crazy" and facilitate subsequent transformation. 1. Pay attention to children and give them more companionship

As you accompany your children as they grow, you must pay attention to them and pay attention to the changes at every stage.

When they are competitive, their parents can give them the right guidance in a timely manner and at the same time give them a corresponding stage so that they can express themselves to their heart's content. Rather than letting children make mistakes again and again, they will develop a "crazy" personality.

Waiting is not just words, but should be put into practice. If you want to make waiting more and more meaningful, you don't actually need to spend too much time, you just need to pay attention to the quality of companionship. 2. Believe in children and let them have a sense of participation

Children who are not born with social skills need scientific and reasonable guidance from their parents every step of the way. At any time, please don’t forget to believe in your children and believe that they can do better. When parents talk to others, they try to give their children a sense of participation and gradually shape their interpersonal skills.

It won’t be long before the “crazy” child will grow up because she understands the correct way to socialize. He will never be as "active" as before, nor will he stumble casually.

Written at the end: Pay attention to the "crazy" children, especially their mental health. Through early childhood, help children establish correct core concepts of social media to prevent them from being "crowded" in the future.