How should I fit into the group? I always feel out of place with my colleagues.

How should I fit into the group? I always feel out of place with my colleagues.

Your character was cultivated from an early age.

Introverted and indifferent.

I don't blame you. I have received less attention since I was a child. You are still living in the shadow of hours, living in the inferiority complex of hours.

Start dissecting yourself. If you don't like your present lifestyle. Just change.

Take your time.

Tell yourself that you have grown up now and many things can be changed through your own efforts. My family was poor when I was a child. But now that you are old enough, you can earn money by yourself. So it's not clear whether you are rich or poor. When you feel difficult, think of a sentence to imply to yourself, "When I cry because I have no shoes to wear, I find some people have no feet."

Friendship also needs to be cultivated. No matter how lonely a person is, he will have friends. Try to get in touch with friends. You can take the initiative, such as inviting them to dinner or playing with them. Provided that these friends are more fun with you. If there are no such friends, the Lord will cultivate them slowly. No one is good to anyone from the beginning, and no one is destined to be his good friend.

No pursuit, no desire to make money, no desire to fall in love and get married. This is why your life is so lonely. Maybe it's not that you don't want to, but that you don't try to think. No big deal. Life is only a few decades. It passed in the blink of an eye. I don't want to be wonderful, I hope there are no regrets.

The relationship between colleagues is the same, you should blend in. Also try to participate in the conversation. Once is not good, try again next time. You don't have to force yourself to speak. You can listen, listen to them. Even if you don't find it funny, they will laugh, and so will you. Being an audience is also an advantage.

Let yourself go. The past is the past. There's no need to be so painful. Now live well. To discover the beauty of life.

Let's go

You're out of place, and it's hard to fit in with the group. What should you do? Actually, your condition is normal. First of all, as a newcomer, it's inconvenient to meet people. The other is your personality. When you step into the society, there are not many people who are straightforward.

When I arrived at the new unit, I felt out of place and it was difficult to integrate into the group. What should I do? Actually, your condition is normal. First of all, it will be inconvenient for you to meet new friends. Another problem is your personality. As far as stepping into society is concerned, there are not many people with straightforward personality, especially those who receive customers and do very important things. I think the reason why they don't like chatting is that you speak directly, and sometimes some words are unacceptable to the other party. I see. It would be better to find out the reasons by yourself and take part in more activities organized by some colleagues. You should get on well with someone first.

My colleagues and I are a little out of place. Try to change yourself slowly.

Go out with them occasionally.

But don't get too involved.

Do what you can.

Work is very important.

But interpersonal relationships are still very important.

Why do you suddenly feel out of place with your colleagues? First, reflect on why you are incompatible with your colleagues, whether your mood has changed or other problems.

Sometimes I feel that I don't fit in, and I don't fit in with my colleagues, so I gradually become introverted. Let nature take its course, don't care too much, say whatever you want, and don't say it if you don't want to.

What should I do if I live with my incompatible elders? No matter who your elders are, it must be hard to be out of place. If possible, don't get along with such people, because you are uncomfortable and he is uncomfortable, unless you two have communication methods, or one of you can tolerate change.

I want to ask what to do when you feel out of place, that is to say, you have your own opinions, and you will achieve something if you continue to work hard.

With colleagues, there is always nothing to say. What should I do? You should have worked for a long time! Communication skills are still not very strong. This kind of communication ability needs to be experienced. Contact with colleagues more, will find a topic to talk about. When you want to chat, you can talk about gas, food, fun, fashion and so on. As long as you want to talk, you can always find many topics to talk about. Read more books on speech and eloquence, people and communication, whether in bookstores or online, and you will get better gradually. Communication is a bridge that many people lack.

What should I do if I am too reticent to get along with my colleagues? Well, it seems that you are a very introverted person (maybe a little inferiority complex). In fact, it's not that others don't want to talk to you, but that you make people feel inaccessible. You should break their impression. You must take the initiative to communicate with your colleagues. I believe there will be a lot to communicate in your work. For example, you can ask others questions (whether you understand them or not, it's mainly to befriend them), or you can take the initiative to help others, such as copying their stamps and typing a form. It's not good to meet without saying hello. If you really can't say it, smile when you meet.

You may feel like chatting with others and don't know what to say. You can watch more news and share your opinions with your colleagues, especially those things that are highly concerned.

After getting to know your colleagues, you might as well make some harmless jokes so as to get close.

The most important thing: the sunshine you want to show. Don't be taciturn and do your own thing all day, making people feel that others have nothing to do with you, and maybe others want to communicate with you.

Hehe ~ by the way, I hope it will help you. Work hard!