The performance of evil mother-in-law

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult since ancient times. I believe that every woman wants to have a good mother-in-law after marriage. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a headache for everyone. How do you think your mother-in-law is good to you? You just need to look at these points. Let's take a look at the performance and related information of wicked mother-in-law.

The performance characteristics of wicked mother-in-law 1 1. I can't see my son being nice to you!

Some mother-in-law coaxed and spoiled her son when he was a baby. In their hearts, her son existed like an emperor. So whenever I see my son being nice to his daughter-in-law, I hate it. I always feel that my daughter-in-law is taking advantage of my family. In addition, I have a third-party mentality towards my daughter-in-law, and I always feel that the other party is involved between myself and my son.

Feature 2: Impose your habits on your daughter-in-law.

Old people have ideas handed down from the old days, but they only use them on themselves. The most unacceptable thing is that these mothers-in-law are proud of it and think that their daughters-in-law should also learn their own spirit of suffering. A more terrible mother-in-law will feel that her daughter-in-law has suffered a lot.

Third, the family must listen to her.

This mother-in-law is very strong. She not only manages her own affairs with her wife, but also interferes with the relationship between her son and daughter-in-law. She feels that her daughter-in-law and son listen to themselves and everything is right. Not only that, I also like to force my son to stand on my side and instill the idea that my son has only one parent and his daughter-in-law can find another one.

Feature 4: I love my son infinitely.

In the eyes of such a mother-in-law, everything her son does is right. Even if it is petty theft and cheating on a mistress, they will think it is the fault of the other party and her son is innocent. Therefore, once the daughter-in-law and her son have a dispute, even if the son does something wrong again, this kind of mother-in-law will only say that the daughter-in-law is wrong, and she also thinks that the mother-in-law says that her son is wrong.

Feature 5: Require daughter-in-law to obey three virtues and four virtues.

Ancient feudal thoughts can be said to be carried forward in this kind of mother-in-law, but whenever the daughter-in-law is slightly exposed, the mother-in-law will think that they are unruly and even feel humiliated.

Feature 6: Ask the daughter-in-law to have a boy.

In the eyes of this mother-in-law, it is normal for men to be superior to women. If you resist, they will even come up with some family methods to serve you, and even accept their sons to marry concubines. Can you really stand such a day?

Feature 7: Always talking about other people's daughter-in-law.

If the son's family is good, the daughter-in-law is not necessarily. In the eyes of this mother-in-law, other people's daughter-in-law is always good, and her own daughter-in-law will never do anything wrong. Living with such a mother-in-law, she can chew up her thoughts from morning till night!

Feature 8: Never meaningful.

What's right or wrong doesn't work for mother-in-law. For them, everything is right, but if the daughter-in-law dares to say anything, they will cry and hang themselves and have fun.

Feature 9: Never accept new things.

Mother-in-law can never get rid of the dross left by traditional ideas. This kind of mother-in-law basically doesn't believe in science and likes to engage in some old ideas and remedies, which will make your life miserable.

Features 10: Always worried about your money.

For the mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law is married to her own family, and the money earned by the daughter-in-law is also her own son. You see what cosmetics your daughter-in-law buys for herself, which is more painful than spending her own money. Daughter-in-law will stop whatever she buys, and what she says is frugal housekeeping. In fact, they are afraid that no matter how much money you spend, you don't have to spend on your son!

The performance of wicked mother-in-law depends on these three points.

Before getting married, many mother-in-law vowed: "I want to treat my daughter-in-law as a daughter!" " Yes, when I first entered the house, my mother-in-law seemed to be very kind to you. Most girls would be shy and say that they should be filial to their mother-in-law. In fact, whether your mother-in-law is good or not and whether she regards you as a real family depends on these three critical periods.

1, whether mother-in-law can feel the hardship of expectant mother when she is pregnant.

Pregnancy can be said to be a woman's most vulnerable time. She is not only physically inconvenient, but also takes care of the baby in her belly, keeps a happy mood, and sometimes bears pressure from all sides. If the mother-in-law always turns a blind eye to her daughter-in-law at this time, her mood as a daughter-in-law is not much better.

2. Did your mother-in-law take care of you during confinement?

Just after giving birth, the expectant mother is very weak and must be nursed back to health. Conditioning during confinement also directly affects women's future health. If a mother-in-law who also gave birth to a child can't take care of her daughter-in-law's life, let you handle everything yourself. How can it not be chilling?

Does your mother-in-law respect your ideas when educating her children?

The parenting experience of the older generation is often quite different from the modern parenting concept, which leads to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law when educating children. Who should I listen to? At this time, the mother-in-law should not be opinionated and completely ignore the daughter-in-law's thoughts. Instead, we should think of our children from an objective perspective and respect each other with our daughter-in-law.

Giving priority to children is the best way! In fact, a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law requires mutual management, mutual care and mutual patience. If you want your mother-in-law to treat you as one of her own, your daughter-in-law also needs to make some efforts. Because forces interact, so does love.

Nine characteristics of a bad mother-in-law

1, I can't see that my son is good to his daughter-in-law.

Some mother-in-law can't face up to the relationship between son and daughter-in-law. She always thought that her daughter-in-law was the third party between her and her son. Why rob her son? So she was jealous when she saw that her son was kind to his daughter-in-law. But the mother-in-law forgot that she had her own husband, just as her son had his own wife. It was not her who accompanied her son to his later years, but his daughter-in-law.

2. Impose your habits on your daughter-in-law.

Young people have their own living habits, but many mother-in-law likes to impose their living habits on their daughter-in-law, and if they don't do what she does, they start to act like demons. Over time, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is on the verge.

3, must be the head of the family.

Many mothers-in-law like to convey to their sons the idea that there is only one parent and the daughter-in-law can find another. This idea led to the breakdown of the relationship between son and daughter-in-law. Alas, young people have a world of young people, and mother-in-law had better learn to let go and be happy!

4. Turn a blind eye to the shortcomings of the son, and the shortcomings of the daughter-in-law are infinitely magnified.

In the eyes of her mother-in-law, her son is a treasure. No matter how wrong, everything in marriage is biased towards her son, and the trivia of her daughter-in-law is infinitely magnified, but she doesn't know that her daughter-in-law is also a treasure in her mother's hands.

5. Require daughter-in-law to observe three obedience and four virtues.

Many mother-in-law are very concerned about their daughter-in-law's dress. As long as the daughter-in-law is dressed in a little fashion, she doesn't like it. At best, she spends money recklessly. Worst of all, she is fooling around again.

6. Ask the daughter-in-law to have a boy

Although they advocate giving birth to boys and girls alike, many mother-in-law still ask their daughters-in-law to give birth to boys, and one cannot give birth to the other. Really thoroughly remould oneself, no matter what, smiling daughter-in-law is like a war, watching the baby while going to work! He said, "We were all like this! But it's obviously his son's decision to have boys and girls! Why do you think it is difficult for women to do it for women? Besides, if you are not a woman, don't you even look down on yourself?

7. Daughter-in-law is someone else's hobby.

My son is fine at home, and my daughter-in-law is fine at other people's homes. As long as you are sincere to your daughter-in-law, your daughter-in-law can sincerely repay you. How else can you serve your daughter-in-law for ten years? You are full of meat when she is in the most difficult time. When you are old, can't your daughter-in-law serve you wholeheartedly? So being good to your daughter-in-law is actually good for your later years.

8, crying, hanging, old-fashioned, unwilling to accept new things.

Life is inevitably bumpy, and some mothers-in-law will try their best to die as long as they are unhappy, which is unreasonable! Conservative, unwilling to accept new things, and have a lot of friction with his daughter-in-law in trivial matters of life.

9. Your money is my money

Although all the married people are family members, the daughter-in-law's money belongs to her. How she wants to spend and buy it is her own business. Mother-in-law should not stare at her daughter-in-law's wallet.

The performance of wicked mother-in-law 3 the performance of bad mother-in-law, relying on the old to sell the old.

Some mother-in-law will have a strong sense of status. After all, they have been masters of this family for decades. Now that the new daughter-in-law has arrived, she is afraid that her position will be threatened, and she has a feeling of seniority. I think I have to listen to her. Everything she does is right. You must let her go everywhere, you can't be wronged at all, you must listen to her arrangement, otherwise you just think you don't take her seriously!

How to deal with a bad mother-in-law and properly block her voice?

A bad mother-in-law may not forgive others' kung fu, but she has a talking mouth and likes to tell her what to do. When she nags, don't talk back, it may be a war soon. It is best to selectively block what she is saying, just pretend that she can't hear and do her own thing. Slowly, my mother-in-law stopped nagging and no one paid attention to her. What is the real reason for the bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Different values, strong desire for control

The performance of a bad mother-in-law is wrong no matter what she does.

Many times when we get married, we also want to leave a good impression on our mother-in-law, hoping to make her happy and enhance our feelings. So when you are at home, you will be more diligent, take care of the housework and don't have to worry about your mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law doesn't think so. She will think that your behavior is shaking the position of the head of her family, and it is useless to do everything, so everything you do is wrong. If you want to have a harmonious and beautiful family, how can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along best?

How to deal with a bad mother-in-law and be filial to her mother-in-law in front of her husband

If you really meet a bad mother-in-law, maybe only one person can't do it. After all, my mother-in-law doesn't like you. Husband and mother-in-law are relatives who have lived together for so many years, and often the husband still has trust in her mother-in-law, so learn to get her husband's support and help, be kind to her mother-in-law in front of her husband, and leave a good impression on her husband, so that when there is a contradiction with her mother-in-law, her husband will also help you.